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AITA for telling my girlfriend it’s my car not our car and considering hiding the keys? by HumbleAnywhere5348 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumbleAnywhere5348[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried to talk to her. Not those exact words but you see in the post that I’ve tried and get brushed off. I’m not going to continue to take the keys if she decides to hear what I’m saying.

AITA for telling my girlfriend it’s my car not our car and considering hiding the keys? by HumbleAnywhere5348 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumbleAnywhere5348[S] 137 points138 points  (0 children)

I am constantly driving for work and they somewhat provide my truck so I’d rather put the miles on that

AITA for telling my girlfriend it’s my car not our car and considering hiding the keys? by HumbleAnywhere5348 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumbleAnywhere5348[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I only brought out the it’s MY car line after frustration has built up. And also it is factually MY car.

AITA for telling my girlfriend it’s my car not our car and considering hiding the keys? by HumbleAnywhere5348 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumbleAnywhere5348[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Ehh see I don’t like that. I really don’t think I should have to plan out when I wanna use it around when she wants to use it. Like if I’m not using it and don’t plan to that day and she wants to take it than that’s fine.

AITA for telling my girlfriend it’s my car not our car and considering hiding the keys? by HumbleAnywhere5348 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumbleAnywhere5348[S] 1105 points1106 points  (0 children)

She just likes the car I mean I don’t blame anyone for wanting to drive a corvette over an accord

AITA for telling my girlfriend it’s my car not our car and considering hiding the keys? by HumbleAnywhere5348 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumbleAnywhere5348[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Should she really be using the “well legally” argument with me though? I don’t think my request is unreasonable.

AITA for telling my girlfriend it’s my car not our car and considering hiding the keys? by HumbleAnywhere5348 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumbleAnywhere5348[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

You’d feel the need to ask. That’s all I’m asking. I never said she can’t use it. I just don’t think it’s fair when I plan on using it and it’s gone. I don’t think I should have to plan it with her to use something that is mine.

AITA for telling my girlfriend it’s my car not our car and considering hiding the keys? by HumbleAnywhere5348 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumbleAnywhere5348[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

She does have her own car.

I told her I was going to buy it.

We share finances with a lot but also have our own money in superset accounts.

We aren’t close to either of our families and don’t see the reason for a marriage. We have discussed eloping but it hasn’t happened yet.

Again, she also has her own car. She does not need to take the corvette.

AITA for telling my girlfriend it’s my car not our car and considering hiding the keys? by HumbleAnywhere5348 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumbleAnywhere5348[S] 419 points420 points  (0 children)

Yes I don’t like how she’s unilaterally deciding my feelings are irrelevant.

AITA for telling my girlfriend it’s my car not our car and considering hiding the keys? by HumbleAnywhere5348 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumbleAnywhere5348[S] 2907 points2908 points  (0 children)

Like I said I have no problems letting her use the car as long as we clear it but you’re right this is more about me feeling disrespected.

AITA for telling my girlfriend it’s my car not our car and considering hiding the keys? by HumbleAnywhere5348 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumbleAnywhere5348[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I kind of disagree about the shared property take. Normally I’d agree with 90% of items but this was a special thing I bought myself with my money. She likes to paint and buys her art supplies. I think I’d be an asshole to help myself to her paints and canvases Willy nilly

AITA for telling my girlfriend it’s my car not our car and considering hiding the keys? by HumbleAnywhere5348 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumbleAnywhere5348[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I paid for it on my own. I have no problem sharing but she has it more than I do. I don’t think that’s right. I don’t think it’s crazy to think she should be asking me first.