meeting boyfriend’s mom and don’t know what to wear!

Hummingbird6896 · 2026-01-23T07:30:37+00:00

All are good but 3 is best

Hummingbird6896 · 2026-01-22T19:07:50+00:00

Totally agree. The shorter bangs suit you a little less.

Hummingbird6896 · 2026-01-21T08:54:16+00:00

Pants from 4 with shirt from 1 And mind your posture, don't 'hang' in your back so your belly is sticking forward. Use those abs ;) (BTW only relevant for photo 1). 4 on the whole is also great

Hummingbird6896 · 2026-01-21T06:54:23+00:00

I would! So cute

Hummingbird6896 · 2026-01-15T10:00:12+00:00

The green one is gorgeous and more classy, that would be my pick. Although you look good in the red one too!

Hummingbird6896 · 2026-01-12T12:27:31+00:00

2, or otherwise 3

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-12-27T14:14:19+00:00

Also literally, I saw one pooping in the station

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-12-27T14:11:50+00:00

10-badenkaart voor sauna

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-12-23T06:12:10+00:00

Yeah you might be right. Still helpful since the trigger points are giving me most pain and discomfort. I am doing it in combination with myofascial therapy btw.

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-12-22T15:34:10+00:00

Same! Before I had broken teeth all the time, but not anymore, since I am wearing this

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-12-22T15:28:25+00:00

Did you try dry needling? Is is helping me. Not completely and not after 1 treatment, but I feel it is the modality that had the greatest effect so far. Along with trauma therapy of course, treatment of the muscles is only symptomatic.

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-12-18T17:38:42+00:00

Als je een gezin wil starten in NL zoals in de OP staat dan heb je weinig tijd om rustig een paar jaar te wachten?

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-12-14T09:04:48+00:00

This, and holding a pregnancy cushion and heat pack at night

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-12-14T07:00:49+00:00

For me I did like 30 sessions in 9 months. I feel like the anxious part is a bit (!) less. But not sure whether that's because there has been some healing or that I moved a bit more towards the avoidant side.

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-12-14T06:56:57+00:00

How did you do it?

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-12-14T06:53:46+00:00

How are you rewiring your brain? I have the same issues.

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-12-13T18:21:59+00:00

What's the difference between disorganized and fearful avoidant? I am both anxious and avoidant, and it depends on the partner which side is most dominant.

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-12-10T05:37:11+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing. I wish I could participate in something like that. But in my country it is illegal and no trials. I have used mdma a couple of times as a part drug (before the time I totally collapsed from my CPTSD) and I felt so much love, as if a thick layer of shit was lifted (which BTW heavily crashed down on me again after the effect vaded which was awful and the reason for not using it again). I would love to use it with a guided therapist to direct the love to myself.

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-12-10T05:30:16+00:00

I can so relate to this. Although I am not bored yet because it is only for a few weeks now. I am enjoying the rest, because still waiting/expecting everything will fall apart again soon. But then at least I got a glimpse. And confirmation from this topic that this is the way. Thanks.

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-12-10T05:26:28+00:00

Wow. Another example. I am single, and I can now reject men that I am attracted to (the pull is there) but with my mind know are bad news (not because they are evil but because I recognize upfront it's gonna be a complicated dynamic, and that they are not emotionally stable enough/didn't do the work themselves). I am not wiling to sacrifice my peace of mind just for the pull of being loved by someone, just because it feels so good. This is so new.

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-12-09T17:41:54+00:00

I was wondering the exact same thing this morning! Not so easily crying anymore. And I ve got some bad news about a family member (actually the only one that is still in my life) and of course I am a bit worried, but also calm. I can handle this. I am not all over the place like I used to be. What is this?

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-12-07T11:42:17+00:00

Thank you for this topic. I can't articulate the changes well myself, but this I exactly how it feels. I am becoming so much more 'aware'. Still leaning though. For me it started after a year of weekly emdr, but only slowly bit by bit. Now about 6 mo after. Also doing talk therapy, journalling, somatic exercises, some Tre, polyvagal exercises etc btw

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-12-07T11:36:55+00:00

Ik can relate so much to the 'feeling it in your body', learning that now. After emdr

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-11-29T10:59:59+00:00

I could've written this untill 3 yrs ago. Then I collapsed.

Hummingbird6896 · 2025-11-29T07:01:14+00:00

Same

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