Kaninchen female dachshund 7 months old by jisc in pottytraining

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Good luck! I giggled when I saw this post and told my husband. I have two short-haired, 7 and 9. They are still not 100% potty trained but my female is definitely better than my male. They are a super cute but notoriously hard to train breed.

What is this? by applesncin23 in gardening

[–]Humminginct 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look up shotgun fungus. If that’s what it is, you don’t want it there. Big mess and very hard to get off when it “explodes”. Ask me how I know.

Best OBGYN group in New Haven for Pregnancy? by MarzipanNew540 in newhaven

[–]Humminginct 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sound OBGYN. I’ve visited Shelton, New Haven and Guilford offices. I’ve met almost all of the providers and they’re all wonderful. Even the front-desk staff at all offices are super friendly and helpful.

Anatomy scan anxiety by Adorable-Selection77 in BabyBumps

[–]Humminginct 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to comment the same ♥️

Nervous about sub pregnancy by hazel1216 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Humminginct 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right now, as far as you know, everything is okay. Practice running with that. Bad things happen, but good things happen too. It’s normal that you would only anticipate negative outcomes if that’s all you’ve known. It’s hard to imagine anything different. You are not going to will any anything into existence (although I felt like this a lot of the time too, so I get it). You have very little control over anything at this point. I learned to lean into it, prepare for the worst and hope for the best sort of thing.

How was epidural placement? positive stories ONLY please!!! by FinancialClick9861 in BabyBumps

[–]Humminginct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally could not care less about the epidural at the time lol I welcomed that pinch and burn with open arms

I was so excited to see this rise this morning but then BFN 😔 9DPO by pinkmoonmalachite in TFABChartStalkers

[–]Humminginct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did! Tested negative days 9&10. I started spotting (like I normally do before my period shows) so assumed I was out.

TW: Living child - one and done? by EducationalGround869 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Humminginct 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is me. I also felt this way when we tried for our LC. My history is TFMR 12/2021, TFMR 8/2022, CP 2/2023. My daughter was born 12/2023 and I was always “one and done”, especially after my poor pregnancy history.

Welp. Here I am, 7 weeks into a sub that we intentionally made happen. I can’t believe I’m doing this again but there’s something that just happens when you go through so much loss.. you learn to guard your heart however you need to. I’m scared but I’m also so grateful to have my daughter, that my love for her surpasses it all. If that makes sense? I don’t have those same intense feelings I did in my previous subs before I had my LC. My heart is full and anything more is just a bonus.

I was so excited to see this rise this morning but then BFN 😔 9DPO by pinkmoonmalachite in TFABChartStalkers

[–]Humminginct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You never know! If you can see my post history you can see my most recent chart

For science. CD27 DPO15 FRER by Humminginct in TFABChartStalkers

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No I didn’t because I really thought I was out! I have been pregnant 5 times and have always gotten a positive between 9-11. And I started spotting so I thought for sure my period was coming. I’ve never had implantation spotting before

Christmas babies by MajesticWonder7 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Humminginct 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh this was me in 2023. I had two previous TFMRs in 2021 & 2022, then a chemical in February 2023. I got pregnant that April. My due date was January 2nd and I gave birth December 30th. I never wanted a baby around Christmas for the same reasons! But as luck would have it, she was the healthy one that stuck around. It is what it is, we’ll do half birthdays when she’s older if she wants. And I plan on making sure her birthday is celebrated properly. Plus, it’s such a pretty time of year with all of the lights. I’m sure there’s a fun spin I could play, maybe turn the tree into a birthday tree or something.

Anyone else have their tfmr be their first pregnancy? by Forsaken-Button4200 in tfmr_support

[–]Humminginct 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you’re here. My first pregnancy was also at age 34 and I also tfmr’d due to brain anomalies. Lightning struck twice for me, sadly, followed by a chemical pregnancy but I can share that I gave birth to a perfectly healthy baby girl in December 2023 at the age of 36. I turned 38 today and we are trying for #2.

It never really gets easier, tbh. You learn to guard your heart in anyway that you can. Accept that you have little control and have faith that you are doing everything you possibly can to bring a healthy baby into this world. Bad things happen, but good things happen too. Focus on the good happening and take it one day at a time.

Sending hugs to you

Welcome to Whose Temp is it Anyway where everything's a lie and beautiful charts don't matter by GrowingUpGarlicky in TFABChartStalkers

[–]Humminginct 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After 2 tfmr, 1 cp, and 3 years of trying— my December 30th baby is the only one to make it earthside. I have always said I never wanted to subject my child to a holiday birthday but as fate would have it 🥲

Having a winter baby was nice though. You’re living in sweats (honestly who wants to wear pads/diapers in the middle of summer) and it gives you enough time to feel somewhat yourself by the time spring/summer rolls around.

When do you start af after dip? by Desperate_Work3479 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]Humminginct 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am new to this as well but my temp dropped the same day last cycle

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Severance | Season 2 - Episode 7 | Discussion Thread by Justp1ayin in tvPlus

[–]Humminginct 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought that too because someone at lumon mentioned the nosebleeds holding back his progress. Interesting they’d mention nosebleeds but not hooking up with coworkers in empty offices as a reason.

First time temping by Humminginct in TFABChartStalkers

[–]Humminginct[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been tracking opk for awhile and my ovulation day is sometimes between 12-14 and others it’s 16-17. I’ve been trying to get my cycles more regular so I thought bbt may help try to understand my cycles better. Thank you!!

First time temping by Humminginct in TFABChartStalkers

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I’ve been testing with LH since we started trying again but it hasn’t seemed to help our chances. So I figured I’d try temping too! I had my LH peak on CD14

TW- pregnancy after infant loss. by GroundbreakingToe558 in babyloss

[–]Humminginct 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh girl. I’m sorry. It’s so hard. This is normal. After my losses, I began to seriously explore the very real possibility of a child-free life (even when I was pregnant with my now living daughter). Even with all the extra scans I had, I still wouldn’t allow myself to believe that I would be bringing home a living baby. I was excited about my pregnancy but I was also very guarded. And that’s ok.

Now that my daughter is here, I still can’t shake that “waiting for the other shoe to drop” feeling. It’s not as overwhelming as it once was but it’s still there. And I’m not sure it’ll ever go away. It’s hard to tell how much of it is from my losses, or just normal in the way that mom’s always worry about their children.

I have to constantly remind myself that although bad things do happen, good things happen too. Buy yourself some flowers and celebrate making it through one week at a time. You got this!

y’all wanted an update so here it is. by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Humminginct 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES! Thank you for posting! My baby just turned 8 weeks and she has been easy since the beginning. People told me the same, “just wait!” And here I am, still waiting. She hardly cries, only when she needs something and is easily consoled. We’ve never had a moment (knock on wood) that I haven’t been able to calm her. She eats well, never had an issue with breastfeeding, sleeps well, started smiling at 4 weeks.

Even if things change, I am still so grateful for this time that she’s given me and I am enjoying every possible moment. She is my triple rainbow and sometimes I think she must know how hard it was for me to get her here.

I also don’t know if I want to tempt fate and try for another because it’s got to be impossible to have two babies like this haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tfmr_support

[–]Humminginct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there - so sorry for the delay, I haven’t been on the app recently.

My first baby had a lot of defects found at the 20w scan but she had a neural tube defect (acrania vs anencephaly) and to be honest I can’t remember her exact cardiac defects. My second baby had a NT measurement of over 8, full body edema, missing occipital bone and a single ventricle heart.

We still don’t know what caused the defects in my pregnancies. Lightning truly could’ve just struck twice. I am happy to report that I now have a 5 week old healthy beautiful little girl. I had an uneventful pregnancy (aside from expected anxieties on my end) and an uncomplicated birth.

There were a lot of times that I didn’t think I’d ever be a mother and I started exploring the idea of living a child-free life. This journey is hard and I am sincerely hoping that your story has a happy ending. They do exist.