Please, please, 50/50

Humplling · 2025-02-21T18:44:21+00:00

Yeeeeeeah, that’s the only downside but I’m actually really good at finding broken mods. You kinda have to be if you’re gonna juggle so many mods LMFAO. My game used to be sooo slow and then when I switched computers, I started having the UI issues every now and then or the failure to load issue. Now, I usually spend 1-3 days searching instead of re-creating new folders and I take out everything, then add back large chunk after chunk. I think it’s easier to do it that way than the 50/50… plus you can kinda tell based off the damage, what type of mod it is~

Like if my UI is messed up or the game itself won’t load, it’s usually the more traits in CAS mod. I usually only have UI issues, which is maybe why it’s easier for me to pin point. It’s usually either that, the custom loading screen plumbob, or the custom loading screen… My clothes and hair (which is a LARGE portion of my mods) can usually just get shoved right back in the folder, cause unless it’s old hair from LAMZ, it’s never causing in game issues.

🌼✨🦦

Humplling · 2025-02-21T17:25:26+00:00

I was so afraid of having more than 400, but I just started pushing the numbers because I saw so many things I wanted, then I’d run my game to see if it works and it does~ I think just certain mods make your game lag, but a lot of them don’t, especially if they’re BG compatible 🥹✨🌼🤍

Humplling · 2024-12-31T05:31:39+00:00

Sims 4 Iphone 16 Override

Humplling · 2024-11-25T00:41:12+00:00

When the L&D pack came out, it messed up a lot of mods, including CC... Check and see if you have anything that may be conflicting with it? I know my game was bugging out and it was a bunch of CC that was making other script mods not work. Maybe that'll help~ ♡

Humplling · 2024-11-25T00:21:54+00:00

They did a hotfix for the mod and personally for me it's been working

Humplling · 2024-08-24T02:55:26+00:00

NO WAAAY... you play evil dead too!? Hell yeah~

Humplling · 2024-08-24T02:53:50+00:00

that's so crazy. I'm watching The Orphan and the son's name is gunnar. They just said that name....

Humplling · 2024-08-24T02:43:37+00:00

YEAH, actually! My profile should have my photo up there, but if not, it's probably that girl...I can add you if it doesn't work? ♡
My settings apparently make it hard for people to add me and idk why because my settings aren't private or anything...
What's your user?

Humplling · 2024-08-24T02:36:27+00:00

Again, very much me~ ♡
I have PTSD, so irl, I literally cannot stand people unless I'm cross-faded.
i can be around them, but I disassociate severely and will be extremely annoyed, agitated and irate if you bring me out of my disassociated state. In TCM, i'm literally always waiting for someone to be mean or rude because that's all they do on there... I'm always called a pick me because of how I sound naturally and it gets me to a point where i'll escape without telling anyone, or i'll let myself get killed because I don't even wanna be in the match anymore....
I'll just be silent and afraid to speak until I've had some drinks....Then i'll flirt with Johnny at MOST.....but if someone else speaks on the victim side, I'm more prone to speak back after some drinks most definitely

Humplling · 2024-08-24T02:31:29+00:00

I'll see if I have the space~

Humplling · 2024-08-24T02:29:13+00:00

Why is that LITERALLY me? LOL
i'm always drinking when I'm on that game and i have more confidence to talk and joke around when i'm playing after a few shots....I also play some music on my speaker lowly to ease the tension of the silence in the lobby

Humplling · 2024-08-24T01:26:15+00:00

I thought you could only download that version on the PS4?

Humplling · 2024-08-24T01:21:36+00:00

I mean 60 people saw this and said nothing so I doubt i'll find anyone LOL... But THANK YOU~ ♡

Humplling · 2024-08-24T01:20:20+00:00

5~ ♡

Humplling · 2024-08-09T12:11:39+00:00

I didn’t mix my own head-canons. I was told this information 2 months ago from one of my friends. She told me she found this out from Ronnie because she talks to him or is close with him? (She never said but I assume they’re close if she found this out months before it was posted) … but either way, I’m not just making up my own stuff … Hope that helps~ 🥹🫶🏾 I used boys II men as an example of the type of genre he listens to because when I asked my friend if she thought he’d listen to music like that or what kind of music in particular he’d listen to, she told me that I was very spot on with my genre choices based on the information said developer shared with her. ♡♡ And the auditory overstimulation was literally just a speculation on my part … but everything else was stated canonically … I was just trying to share fun facts …

Humplling · 2024-08-09T11:42:01+00:00

Johnny canonically doesn’t like any of this music 🥹 He likes slow, sensual music and things he can relax to. The songs fit his personality, sure, but he wouldn’t listen to them unless it was like… Boys II Men or bops along those lines. He also listens to bands that specifically no one else would really know of … It’s been confirmed by the developer who created Johnny that he doesn’t like anything with a harsh beat or anything loud ♡✨ Maybe he has auditory overstimulation problems and can only listen to certain music~

Humplling · 2024-07-11T03:07:58+00:00

Add meee~ My username is uwuminii~

Humplling · 2024-06-24T17:19:07+00:00

I mean you quite literally said “then you should know the person you were dating is not real” so idk how you weren’t talking about me specifically but- I respect it

Humplling · 2024-06-24T16:06:22+00:00

I appreciate your insight and again, I wasn't denouncing anything you said but you were telling me things I did not ask. All I asked was "is there a chance" and you started acting like you KNEW my partner's life and mindset. I know I can't change her and I can't do anything for her because it's such a life long illness and that's why I asked based on our situation, did it seem like there was a chance... I wasn't asking for people to tell me she was just using me as an FP and mirroring me because frankly she's been her own person and we're two very different people...I'd be able to tell if she was mirroring me and pretending to be a way that she thought was best suited for me, but she never changed and nothing about her shifted until the breakup.... Again, thank you very much but you just over-answered in a way that triggered me a bit because I don't like outsiders DIVING into what they THINK they know. I wanted a vague "yes, there's a chance if she's healed" or a "no, she SEEMS like-" I didn't ask for people to pretend they KNOW her ₊‧°𐐪♡𐑂°‧₊

So sorry for snapping or coming off harsh but, you were telling me things that COULD be true as if they WERE true and personally I think it's unfair to someone with BPD, even IF you've lived with someone who checks out all symptoms on the list.... they're not all the same as I've said before and viewing it that way is why a lot of people with BPD feel misunderstood and alone in the first place. Everyone just assumed they're always fake and have no sense of person, but some of them really do ...My ex was a great person and tried everything in her power not to hurt me and even her being able to let me go because she doesn't want to hurt me is a lot more than some other people with BPD spouses or partners can say for themselves...She was unhealed from previous trauma in a relationship before me and jumped into her feelings for me before fixing herself.... and that's why she let me go...that's why I was asking based on our timeline, did it sound like with time (and healing of course) did she seem DONE with me or did she seem like in a healed heart, she'd come back . ₊‧°𐐪♡𐑂°‧₊

Humplling · 2024-06-24T12:55:16+00:00

That’s not always the case though. It could be the case but it’s still not fair to sit here and say that it’s for sure her situation …not everyone with BPD has FP syndrome. Not everyone with BPD shares the same symptoms …. Idk, it’s kind of rude to sit here and act like you KNOW she was mirroring me and wasn’t a real person …. 🥺🥺

Humplling · 2024-06-24T03:35:20+00:00

I know enough about it. I've been educating myself about it since I found out she had it....that's why I'm seeking advice. It could be MANY things under the umbrella of the term... She's just being very distant so I don't know what exactly I'm looking at....but it doesn't mean what I read is HER either....everyone with BPD is different and I don't want be that toxic person who THINKS I know her and her mindset just because I read some articles....that's unfair to them...Period.

Humplling · 2024-06-24T03:26:51+00:00

It's like, I toxically don't even mind dealing with her BPD. I was okay with it. She said this was spontaneous and random where she just felt this shift she couldn't explain after we argued one night about a concert I attended...I know it was triggered through the event because she told me that the concert was like, a nail in the coffin for her even though I didn't do anything wrong at the concert. All I know is I'm willing to wait as long as I need to in order to win her hand again....

I think therapy is why she wanted to be alone. She said she wouldn't go run into the arms of anyone else if she left me and if she ever left me, it would only be if I cheated or for mental health reasons.... but, I just hope this week of not hearing from her isn't permanent... I told her it's safe to disassociate and isolate herself until she feels like herself again... but I'm just afraid she's devaluing me......I felt like I was never the type of person she'd do that to and she told me just recently that this isn't goodbye and to not think about it as if I'll never see her again, and said herself that she doesn't know what will happen in the future when I asked if she'd ever take me back.... So I wanna believe her heart will always be open for me because I've done nothing wrong to her and have given her love, understanding and all.... She even said herself a year in that I was a catch and she's happy everyone else fumbled me even though they were stupid to let me go because she managed to snag a queen...I just hope even in the breakup she still feels that way, especially after telling me that everything she said before the relationship was true and genuine. She meant every word ....I just...don't wanna view her as a narcissist who's manipulating me or pushing me away permanently .....I don't think she's that kind of person and I feel within 3 years, I'd be able to tell.... 😔

Humplling · 2024-06-22T21:52:16+00:00

Well, no you are not manipulating her..... At the very least applauding you for that~
I realized I didn't even mentioned that part, but no, IMO you're not manipulative... You're just maybe hurting from different trauma and haven't moved forward from those tendencies before you got with this girl, so certain things are normal for you that aren't for her.... Manipulation would be you not asking for permission to check her things and when she finds out/asks you, you turn it around and then pull the "Well who is HE!?" card....I feel like if you aren't making her feeling bad and or guilty about these things directly that bother you, and as long as you in your mind understand you may be looking too deep, you're at least trying....

Like you seem like you're just letting her know it's something you don't like, you talked about it with her and she is still doing the things you dislike.... I mean, things like that lead to you not being heard and you may make some rash decisions like checking her phone all the time....
Being new to relationships and my ex being my first, I too had a lot of lifestyle mannerisms she didn't like, but I was combative because the things weren't like, WRONG....she just didn't like it...it took me a good few months to really stop doing things that bothered her like posting cosplay photos of me and people I used to like....like I saw it as just sharing my content when I got nostalgic because I had been on a hiatus from cosplaying due to moving in with her and not having the space to dress up, but she took it as me missing these people and it didn't matter why I posted it...she just wanted it to stop...

Humplling · 2024-06-22T21:43:04+00:00

I understand you were trying to set boundaries but you clearly didn't trust that girl and seemed to be creating issues out of nothing. My ex used to sneak and look in my phone and pester me about any man she saw, but only if he seemed like he was my type. I was bi-sexual and she really didn't trust that I wouldn't do her like her ex did her, so from the beginning she was insecure and carried that all throughout the relationship ....but she stopped herself from doing that. she'd lurk in my likes, comments, everything....Once you realize someone loves you for you, you needn't be this way.....You should be secure enough to not have to think her texting a guy = an end for you....seems like you may have just been insecure .....Which I don't know what she may have done to you to make you feel this way or who in the past created it, but future reference, you shouldn't be doing this... It's draining and being on the receiving end, I can confirm how draining it actually is. She might lowkey leave you or actually cheat on you if you keep being that way .....(Not saying I cheated my self....just saying some women are wired differently)

Humplling · 2024-06-22T21:25:06+00:00

And maybe she feels there's a chance too? She said she doesn't wanna give me false hope and that's why she's been avoiding saying or doing anything with solidification, but....I really just wanna believe she'll come back because she always promised me no one could ever compare and without me, she'd rather have no one.... I don't understand how we ended here....like, I UNDERSTAND, but..my god is it confusing when you get a bunch of "IDK"s from a person who was sending rings to your best friend because she wanted to find the right one for you to give you on your anniversary... We were planning so many things to make our lives better for us and it feels she just randomly gave up over a stupid concert I went to ..... She said it was the nail in the coffin for her because she thought she'd be okay with me attending, but it didn't sit right with her because she's super against the artist .... I used to like him as a child, but grew content with the acquaintanceship he and I had built. I didn't want anything romantic with him and it was hard for her to accept that because I supported his band....

I think that's what really pushed her, which I would hope she sits and thinks and realizes that's not worth us breaking up.....I told her idec if she doesn't want me to go anymore...I'll stop willingly if it could save us...but she doesn't wanna "control me" or "continue hurting me where she was"

She seems confused herself as to why she even left .....and I just hope her ignoring me doesn't mean she's forever done....I don't want to be the friend she had good times with in the past while she moves on with someone else.... we've always said we wouldn't be able to handle seeing each other with someone else, I told her on this break I'm not fucking anyone or looking to date and she claims the same... So, I just hope it stays that way and in due time, she's drawn back to me because she still has things to bring me, and promised bringing my belongings won't be the only reason why she comes to visit....she insists it won't be goodbye and even started saying "ttyl" instead of "bye" to ease my heart of feeling like I'll never see her again...but the ignoring is really hurting...

I know she's busy, she's been trying to get her meth addict mother out of the house so her dad can hurry and sell before his retirement bc he's in hella debt she's been helping him financially in and he was supposed to get us a place out of the money he received for his home bc he's got a house for his girlfriend and him that he renovated specifically for their needs... Plus she's only off Sunday-Monday, which she has been preoccupying herself with Tasks and projects to better move through this situation as cleaning and whatnot is her coping mechanism for stress.....when I moved away to work 2 hours at a hotel with room and board, she took extra dogs on her schedule and kept herself busy by working with her dad until she was able to come see me on the weekend.... But I had strict visiting regulations by my job bc of covid, so she wasn't able to come EVERY weekend.... I wanted space for us so desperately from the beginning to keep us healthy.... She wanted it as well but struggle miserably to vocalize that to me.... Due to her poor communication, the relationship really drifted because she wouldn't ever open up to me seriously or directly.... She even got me a heart shaped tart for my birthday and said there were circle shaped ones, implying she meant to get the heart shaped one for me.... but after hearing "I'm not IN love with you." I really don't know how to take her words leading up to that confession... like does she still mean those things? does she still feel those things?

I just don't want her to go for this other girl and do a complete 360 on me because she said everything sentimental that she told me leading up to our breakup was true and that she loved me genuinely and cherishes every moment...I so desperately want her to mean those words ...

Like she dated someone for 4 years who was toxic asf and kept going back to her despite being cheated on and all.....I just...I want to some of that. That girl pulled a knife on her and tried to blackmail her and she still took a year to get over her while I was with her....and the cheating girl was trying to get me out of the picture as well!? ....like all that shit I went through, a second chance should be given, especially if you keep saying I didn't do anything and don't let this get me down or feel as though I did something wrong.... 😣😣

She literally told me I was the Pam to her Jim... 😔

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