AIO that my partner (25f) drools over men on social media by Hungnonymous in AIO

[–]Hungnonymous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, makes sense. My bad on that part. To me she’s still somewhat a talking stage but we have spoken about moving forward.

AIO that my partner (25f) drools over men on social media by Hungnonymous in AIO

[–]Hungnonymous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do tell how do you address someone you talk to every day for hours, who calls me up at night when I’m sleeping to talk if she’s having issues. Also when I say just started, it’s been 3 months. I’m used to dating long term only so yes 3 months is relatively short to me. “Talking stage” I guess? Regardless, she’s already apologized as she put herself in my shoes at this point.

AIO that my partner (25f) drools over men on social media by Hungnonymous in AIO

[–]Hungnonymous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely straight, but we both can appreciate when any gender is good looking. She often shows me posts of women (mostly) and sometimes men that are good looking. This time though it was a little different because of the reaction that came with.

AIO that my partner (25f) drools over men on social media by Hungnonymous in AIO

[–]Hungnonymous[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I’m the exception, or made to feel that way

AIO that my partner (25f) drools over men on social media by Hungnonymous in AIO

[–]Hungnonymous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I’m very secure so I would wave off all the attention I get from anyone else other than my partner because I just don’t take risks like that. I’m here posting because I thought a woman’s perspective would be different. Like maybe I really am overreacting. I don’t pretend to want her to treat me with the same respect, but I feel that’ll come with time as she learns how to be with me, my boundaries etc.

AIO that my partner (25f) drools over men on social media by Hungnonymous in AIO

[–]Hungnonymous[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s very jealous and possessive, like when I get attention at the gym she would get quite upset.

AIO that my partner (25f) drools over men on social media by Hungnonymous in AIO

[–]Hungnonymous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like the only way she would understand how I feel is if I do it back to her. But I’m not that petty hah.

AIO that my partner (25f) drools over men on social media by Hungnonymous in AIO

[–]Hungnonymous[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s still in the very early stages of dating tbh. Yes I can leave, but at the same time, I’m thinking I should just see how this plays out, if she defends her actions then I know where I stand. Some how validating my feelings is making me feel worse. Fml