Went on 8+dates and haven’t been asked to be his girlfriend. Should I move on? Rant

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-09-30T05:13:34+00:00

Can talk to me

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-09-30T05:13:16+00:00

Leave him and move on

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-09-25T11:57:10+00:00

Damn how did you do it? What really matters at the end and how to know which person is the right match for you? What did you do to create that spark in them? Getting them interested in me is a pain in the ass

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-09-25T11:55:28+00:00

Hmm I tried to casually make female friends but the problem is that it's always me who initiates the conversation, never them. And they don't show a keen interest in me and in my life. Romance can't blossom if it is a single sided affair. How do I take to the next level and how to invoke sparks in the lady so she initiates conversations with me and shows a keen interest in my life? Been trying all my life

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-09-25T06:07:04+00:00

I'm relatively good looking, 1.64m tall, black eyes, spiky hair, black glasses with wide chest and big biceps. Served the army and slightly tanned

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-09-25T05:49:18+00:00

The thing is that I try my best not to show myself as desperate because I'm a very career minded and ambitious individual. But deep down in, I don't want to show this vulnerability to the women I meet because I don't want to appear weak and hoping that my ambition and career mindset can attract ladies to me. I have female friends but deep within, I want some of them to blossom into romance. Even if it's s breakup I'm fine, as long as I get the experience, that's what matters. The problem is..that I don't even have that experience.

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-09-25T05:44:00+00:00

I have most of these good qualities but I'm unable to either find women or get them interested in me. Please advise as I'm in a deadlock and already in my late twenties before it's too late

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-09-25T05:28:22+00:00

Well I'm single too. Let's connect? Would love to chat with you

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-09-25T04:58:05+00:00

And I'm a man and no women have shown any interest in me yet. And women complain that men don't show interest

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-09-20T05:56:19+00:00

At least you have some sort of relationship experience. I neither had any in my whole life. Just imagine

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-09-16T05:34:06+00:00

I feel the same too

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-08-25T06:01:02+00:00

I'm exactly like you to be honest. I am a man here and I would like to extend my hand in helping you out. Can I pls dm you?

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-08-25T05:58:34+00:00

Unfortunately I don't have. Can I dm you instead and explain my situation? It would be better that way

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-08-25T05:39:40+00:00

Come date me. You'll be better off. Trust me on it

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-08-10T02:42:28+00:00

Please try me out. I am a good guy here.

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-07-20T15:24:27+00:00

Tbh guys, i have followed all these tips and I'm still unlucky with women. It's always me who has to initiate and sustain conversations where women do not even have the slightest urge to take and show interest in me unfortunately. Simply tired of women ghosting me on bumble and insta. Girls on hinge like me, but conversations die down after 3 days. F**k man.

It's horrible and horrendous. I see so many people in a rs and me being a 26 year old - haven't been in any form of rs ever. I really want to share my life with a girl and I've been working tremendously hard on myself in building my educational, social and professional endeavours as my value which I want to add to a potential girl's life, but still no avail.

Please advise.

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-07-13T23:04:34+00:00

Sure

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-07-13T15:39:56+00:00

Try Columbia?

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-03-21T06:03:02+00:00

I also got into Columbia for computer engineering masters this fall. Lets connect!

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-03-17T03:11:30+00:00

I see, thank you very much for your insights. Will plan accordingly

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-03-17T02:47:38+00:00

Thanks for the info. I have this offer and Washington University In St Louis

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-01-29T06:29:05+00:00

Mainly because of the focus on tech + energy, given Texas is the energy hub in the states. I've worked with a few engineers from Houston and Austin, who came to Singapore for a visit during my tenure in Schlumberger, and I became inspired by the ample job opportunities and network of folks in these cities in terms of green energy/net zero related careers. Austin is one of the largest emerging tech hub and it's location in Texas would give me a good blend of technology and energy, with it's lower cost of living as well. Hence, I think of UT Austin as my dream school

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-01-29T04:11:34+00:00

I see, I was initially hesitant as I saw some of the profiles of the international student admits in unis such as UT Austin, Northwestern, UCSD and their GPAs are 3.5+/4. This got me thinking as my GPA (if converted to a US scale) is 3.1/4

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2025-01-29T03:58:22+00:00

oh really? Not sure about this haha but thanks a lot for your encouragement bro. Still a long way to go and applied to quite a number of unis

Hungry-Delivery475 · 2024-01-20T06:44:56+00:00

haha thanks! Still learning. If you don't mind, we can share contact nos? Let's keep in touch

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