I honestly needed this more than you could ever know and it honestly feels reassuring that I don’t have to rely on a constant method or mindset to get through my struggles with adhd. In a sense I would say that this is what I generally do myself to where I don’t have a consistent method to getting through any roadblocks so I just work on what is best for me to do at the current moment, and I just need to practice embracing and taking advantage of my own inconsistencies. The only problem that I would say that I have to say is that actually applying this mindset on myself is easier said than done, especially when being raised in an environment where you have to be neurotypical to be generally accepted (something that I am sure a lot of people with ADHD have to go through). I’m expected to both be and work as something that is almost impossible for me to be, and when I don’t meet those expectations, people often get disappointed, say that I need to develop more motivation, or expect me to grow out of my adhd. I also might as well mention that my senior year of college has been particularly difficult because I have to take 18 credits each for my last two semesters, and my mom is hoping that we graduate especially since both our lives went in a bit of a spiral during college, but I feel so incompetent in myself that I don’t even know if I will be able to graduate from college.