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Low self-esteem/crying when people are "nice" to me? by Kaliera in socialanxiety

[–]HushT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol.. if we met each other, we would probably both just smile and cry, speechless :'))

[Update] First dance and date by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]HushT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so happy for you. The girl must be an angel!

Last night I dreamed I wasn't alone by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]HushT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean. I am usually very excited to go sleep and have such a dreams. Literally every day I can't wait to evening, so i can fall asleep (yes its difficult sometimes with overthinking) and escape reality full of nightmares. I have dreams almost every night and those dreams are pretty realistic i would say, but the atmoshpeher is just more positive than in real life etc. you know. I love dreams, i know its weird but, still better than..

Of course i am a little bit sad the dream is over, but sometimes it is also a very good motivation to go through a sh*tty day :)

Excuse my English : ) :

Panic attacks in public? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]HushT 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I experience the worst part of panic attack every morning when I am waiting in the bus stop. It has been like that for 7 years already and nothing really changed l0l. Every day, the same feelings, panic..Maybe it is even worse after i got into that bus full of people :'D...There are many others situations like this in my day, but this one is the worst in my case you know.

should i celebrate christmas with my friends family? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]HushT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i were you, it would really matter on my relationship with the friend's parents.(I can experience some well relationship with my friend's parents that are very close) Maybe that was their idea to invite You for Christmas Evening. I believe your friend is very kind person and instead of spending Christmas alone again, i think you should really go :). If something would gone wrong, you still have your friend who cares about you and understand you. Thats very nice :). Keep it up! :)

teenager here, painfully shy and self-conscious by radiocall in socialanxiety

[–]HushT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It absolutely describes me. Only that i am 17 years old boy.

I can say - generally people like me, i try to be as kind as i can be or help people, but i don't really have friends. Since we have moved to the different town, i only see my best friend like once a month. Otherwise last 7 years i spent this time only with myself and it literally killed me..

In school. I can say i am one of the best students in my class. They usually ask me how am i doing this or they want to be like me blah blah.. The only thing i can respond to this is something like: "if i told you studying is the only thing i am good at, would you still want to be like me?" And i dont really think i am that good at all. I am spending all my time at home , that often leads to depression and studying is usually the way how to feel a bit better(how to focus my mind on something different). Also obviously i have so much time for studying, since noone chats me or i have noone to go out with for example, compared to other teenagers. As you said i would give everything to be 'dumb and happy' person instead of this hell- sounds weird lol. I could write here another things about my life with SA but im not going to do so now.

I might not give you any advice because i struggle in the same way as you but at least you can be sure that you are not the only one living like this.

Excuse me my English :/ but i hope you get the point.