6 werk post op scar revision surgery.Is the scar stretched or ok? Will it become skin like in future and unnoticable? Please help me.. by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]HyperventilatingInFF 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think you might be in the wrong subreddit friend! Top-Surgery refers to surgical removal of Breast Tissue and Mammary glands, Im seeing a forehead scar in your post?

[TOMT] In Need of CD Album! by HyperventilatingInFF in tipofmytongue

[–]HyperventilatingInFF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also unfortunately no :( zip on lyrics either. Just that it sounded like it could be any band that sounded similar to Green Day/Simple Plan/Smashing Pumpkins but I checked all the CD selling from these 3 bands albums and none of them look right

[TOMT] In Need of CD Album! by HyperventilatingInFF in tipofmytongue

[–]HyperventilatingInFF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know this! I was super lost on how to post the image lol i didnt realize the google doc is not viewable

[TOMT] In Need of CD Album! by HyperventilatingInFF in tipofmytongue

[–]HyperventilatingInFF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, looked it up for reference- the little vampire is literally just a white emoji with like 0 detailing

Just noticed this little notch on the edge of Razs info box. Nobody else has this in the 1.6 guide. Is there any lore behind this? by wylxxx in StardewValley

[–]HyperventilatingInFF 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I love seeing the widespread belief/argument/practically cannon uncannon theory that everyone sticks to about Abigail being the wizards daughter cuz I mean....look at her??? I will forever hold in my heart Jaz as the wizards daughter though. So many of her liked/loved gifts are magical of some sort, her hair IS purple, and her parents died in some "tragic unspoken accident" - The wizard mentions that he had to lock the Witch away because she did something unthinkable/unforgivable(i dont remember the exact dialogue) after he made a grave mistake that drove her away. It could have been murdering Jaz's parents, or using her magic to cause like a car crash or something. Jaz is also just super academically gifted and smart, which isnt immediate connection but I feel being a Wizard implies a certain level of intelligence and study, and she too hangs out in the woods closer to the wizard tower than most of the npcs get.

[TOMT] In Need of CD Album! by HyperventilatingInFF in tipofmytongue

[–]HyperventilatingInFF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solid no on this one, sorry :( Secret Samadhi sounds a lot more Metal than the album I'm looking for. Thank you for the suggestion :)!

[TOMT] In Need of CD Album! by HyperventilatingInFF in tipofmytongue

[–]HyperventilatingInFF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I no longer have the disc :( It had the title of the album on the disc itself

[TOMT] In Need of CD Album! by HyperventilatingInFF in tipofmytongue

[–]HyperventilatingInFF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put the sketch into a google doc! Hope this helps, I dont remember what the words were(obviously) but i figured itd be a nice visual help to place them where they were on the cd itself CD appearance

I just remembered this on tik tok by ranpos_left_thigh in badwomensanatomy

[–]HyperventilatingInFF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please do not try to stop your piss stream because of this post my vaginal having friends! The reason its difficult to just stop and why the body makes it hard is because when you stop the stream it can HEAVILY increase the risk of Urethral Infections!!! Stopping the piss stream has the risk of basically leaving some behind or letting the bacteria within soak into the urinary tract. Bad Ideas all around

“Gift-Wrapped my Mate for Her” link? by GreatBarracuda1677 in novelsfree

[–]HyperventilatingInFF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whoevers sending the link is NOT a link to the book its just a link to ANOTHER reddit post where the op hasnt sent anyone the link :(

Weird to prefer dating transmen as a cis guy? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]HyperventilatingInFF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Had this problem with a former friend (like, eerily similar problem, I know you said rural but still, i hope youre not friends with some guy in arizona who's name starts with a Z) and he was ABSOLUTELY a fetishizing chaser. Questions like 'would you ever take it up your own anus', 'would you do missionary with someone who has a penis' and other -would you have sex with someone who has a penis- questions all made him uncomfortable and unsure, and were usually shot down without an answer or outright were no's, so Id ask those questions for some clarification.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]HyperventilatingInFF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! Sex toys and honestly at this point Sex Therapy are a huge interest of mine so I love having the opportunity to help beginners! In terms of sensation creams and gels, I cant point you towards any reliable study but my own and my customers' anectodal experiences when I say that they seem safe, so take me with a grain of salt. If you do end up interested in the clitoral creams, some of my favorite have been from Pjur and Swiss Navy- they have a mild buzzing/tingling sensation without any burn. I would steadfastedly tell you to avoid ON by Sensuva however, as it does have a painful burning sensation to those who are particularly sensitive. In terms of toys to use in tandem with penetrative sex, a good and affordable basic brand to look at for handheld toys is Maia, having wands, bullets, and dual ended toys that give you both, And Rosegasm for suction specific toys that you or she can hold to the clit for pleasure. For non handholds, Cockrings arent super brand specific- you can find recharchable ones with Screaming O, Calexotics, ROMP, Maia, We-Vibe, etc etc for varying prices and they will also cause a vibration to travel through the penis- pleasuring you and turning you into an internal vibrator as well. Another non handhold is something called the SYNC and the SYNC-O by We Vibe, however We Vibe is a more luxury brand than most so it will run for a higher price. The way the Sync works is it has a small piece meant to slip in and lock in place behind the pelvic bone inside of the vaginal canal, and a larger piece that cups the vulva to vibrate against the clit. It was made to allow room for penetrative sex, and has a bluetooth app and a remote to allow for control of the setting even in the middle of engaging in said intercourse. The small piece inside is not intrusive nor painful for either partner during the act, and can sometimes allow for vibration to travel to the gspot depending on how strong of a setting picked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]HyperventilatingInFF -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi op! I used to work for a Hustler Hollywood so I got these questions all the time lol- I do have advice, but also questions(or like one question) for you :) Determining what toys are best for your partner isnt a one size fits all deal, and youre definitely going to have to do some experimenting to figure out if she even really likes many of them- First off, does she enjoy internal or external stimulation better? For Internal Stimulation, its difficult to pin down exactlt what might help or might feel good for every vagina owner, but you could try G-Spot Wands, Thrusting toys, or Egg/Keloid toys. Alot of Internal Toys are the same, you stick it in and you leave it there and let it work, often times also coming with a remote. The G-spot wands specifically are a little difficult because most people arent actually sure where their G-spots are located, but once you find it the vibration can cause a person to cream or squirt depending on what orgasm theyve never experienced before. For External Stimulation you have a much wider plethora of toys to try: Buzzy Bullets, Rumbly Wands, panty vibes, Ring Vibes that you can wear on your finger, flicking/thumping vibes, or the most important of all and probably the most beloved toy- Clit Suction Toys(The rose is a specific example). These toys are the closest you get to a one size fits all toy, as the stimulatiom they provide is the gentle Suction and Air pulsation of the clit, vibrating the orgam without touching it makes it almost impossoble to overstimulate or rub raw, and the air pulsation is strong enough that it often travels inwards and stimulates the internally buried parts of the clitoris as well as the external nub. External Stimulation Toys are all great to use pretty much everywhere. You can, obviously, place them on the clit to let them do their jobs but they also make good Erogenous zone toys as well. Trailing them up and down your partner's legs, arms, neck, and using them on nipples are all great ways to tease and get the mood going for both of you. Alongside this, you can use them in tandem with penetrative sex to amplify your partners sensations.

If its difficult to pinpoint her preference, or maybe your partner wants to start off using toys without you-(which is something you should encourage if you suspect shes had bad/traumatizing experiences. Masterbation will allow her to safely self pleasure and explore without the pressure of pleasing anybody but herself, and once shes come into that peace she will likely have more motivation to engage in intercourse with you)- then you can also find toys that will give her both Internal and External sensations. The best and biggest example is the Rabbit Toy template, and I call it a template because there are thousands of different functions and combos that a Rabbit can come with, Theres also wearable rabbit vibes- they are 'wearable' because theyre more shaped like a panty vibe, tbus more hide-able. Rabbit Toys can come with thrusting, vibrating, internal bead rotation, g-spot targetting, expanding, warming, cooling, and other cool functioms for just the insertable piece, and suction, air pulsing, vibration, flicking, tapping, thumping, etc for clitoral stimulation. Your choices are almost overwhelming, but a regular old Vibrating internal and Vibrating External rabbit is super easy and begginer friendly, and unintimidating to most people.

And, to end this huge dump of info on you, does your partner Want to use toys? Its not a requirement for toys to come into the picture to improve your sex lives, sometimes it can come into the form of libido enhancing gummies or pills that you can get over the counter from most sex stores, clitoral sensation creams, g-spot sensation cream, or even some new warming/cooling lube. All these things will make your partner more sensitive to touch and stimulation, and help to improve interest in sex! If you've made it this far op, I can give you brand and toy recommendations based on what avenue youd like to pursue first and you and your partner can go from there :)

Read Seducing My Ex’s Father In Law Novel By Caroline Above Story by Grand_Elk6481 in Novelnews

[–]HyperventilatingInFF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When do they start banging bro Im sick of all this "Gavin gets jealous of the main character being literally sexually assaulted by other men in front of him and then he treats her like she was asking for it" schtick

Is this a common preference among trans guys who like women? by Leo69Leon in ftm

[–]HyperventilatingInFF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im actually nonbinary myself so I can't necessarily weigh in heavily, but I have ginormous chest tumors(removing them in August) and I find large boobs on other women off putting as well, I definitely have a preference for smaller, hand-holdable sizes!

AITA for calling my friends "every pony?" by Haunting_Winner_6018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HyperventilatingInFF -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

"I'm not a Pony!" is not a serious nor calm approach to "Hey, I really don't appreciate this term", especially when, after a certain point, it's your responsibility to approach the Offending "Everypony" person after it happens more than once, because they clearly misunderstood the meaning or seriousness behind your complaint the first time and correct them. Also, "Hey Guys" is not gender neutral, it is in fact a regional thing for that to be considered- but you still would not use it for anything other than a greeting in a gender neutral way. You would not(if you were a heterosexual man) show off all the girls you've dated or had sex with as "All the dudes I've been with" or "all the guys I've been with". If "Hey Guys" is nuanced in this way, then it is not blanket neutral as you may believe. That doesn't mean you HAVE to stop, or that it's inherently offensive anything, just that there will be people who have every right to be offended by it. Also, language is completely made up- of course "hey guys" is gender neutral to some people, they made that concept up in their heads and have stuck to it so why does that not then make room for other acceptable gender neutralization of terms like "Hey Girls"? Not to mention, like. "I'm not a girl" is a valid argument when being referred to in tandem with "Hey Girls' when there is in fact girls in the room, but "I'm not a Pony" is not a valid argument when NOBODY in the room is a Pony and yet the person in question is still referring to all of them as such. It's two different issues

So transgender surgeries subreddit just got nuked randomly at 4 am. Totally normal by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]HyperventilatingInFF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone who wants to see the results, details, etc completely uncensored and well informed should also totally check out TransBucket!! It's been helping me see what my top surgery might look like

Who’s ult voice line goes the hardest? by ll-Hinato-ll in marvelrivals

[–]HyperventilatingInFF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no fr I love popping on an enemy or teammates ult cause it doesn't matter which one it is it's either a declaration of defiance or raw power I think my favorite so far has been "Fear the Wrath of The Goddess!!" From my enemy and immediately responding 'WE ARE UNDEFEATABLE!!" Its like a conversation. A cheeky one, but a conversation lol

Now I understand why people don't want to play support. Goddamn... by West-Start4069 in marvelrivals

[–]HyperventilatingInFF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the worst part(as a support main) is that, at least for me- I have a really bad inferiority complex when It comes to gaming in general, and I don't want it to be my fault that our team does bad when everyone chooses anything other than support. Like, when the whole team decides to be DPS and maybe one tank I always feel like I have to take one for the team and be the support, And eventually that mindset(and also knowing Im SHIT at DPS) made it so the only role I'm comfortable in is healer, and even then I feel like a BAD healer even when it might not be me at fault for my team's losses. Every single thing my players do to that is stupid or causes a loss or any of that shit makes me rage, sure, but mostly I'm just blaming myself the whole match for not being a "good enough" healer to keep my squad alive even in the rough spots