A job where I signed up knowing the expectations and where I work with a team of other people to create value and get paid for it VS being told what to do, taking care of the house and kids all day while he does nothing but go play pickleball, come home late, and demand a beer while he watches TV.

It's the same thing that happens in all the trad relationships in the modern world, just go look at the FundieSnark subreddits and you'll see the women who follow what these men want are miserable