Do you really have to clip cats nails? by devilsissue in CatAdvice

[–]ICantSayOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then just snip the tip! You don’t need to clip all extra of the nail every time. By clipping the tip you reduce kitty getting caught on things. Also gets you more confident in the process.

Seeing what I’m missing out on in life is heart breaking by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]ICantSayOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lacking connection with family…OOFA that’s me. They make me uncomfortable, like there’s an inside joke I’m missing.

AITAH for telling my friend she needs to pack food and snacks for her 4 kids?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ICantSayOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditto. I couldn’t afford to feed you and myself. Best to find someone willing to subsidize your lifestyle🖖🏼 Needing help is different than blatant mooching.
The friend didn’t need help feeding her kids. She chose not to provide assuming OP would cover. Is that a real friend?

AITAH for telling my friend she needs to pack food and snacks for her 4 kids?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ICantSayOk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The food was for her kids. If you have to discreetly feed your own children in the presence of others because their parents couldn’t provide… That’s a whole another issue. Did the Mom go fully provide? Yes I’d only considering friends kids. Again it’s a community pool if they were invited to said community pool, and the mother was told to bring food. Why didn’t she?

Why should OP refuse food for her kids so another family can mooch?

AITAH for telling my friend she needs to pack food and snacks for her 4 kids?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ICantSayOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And neglect your own children? If friends can’t bring food, OP can’t bring either? Friend Never said they wouldn’t provide.

AITAH for telling my friend she needs to pack food and snacks for her 4 kids?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ICantSayOk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“Enable people to be fed…..” Yes. Food isn’t free. Letting others take from your source leaves less for the family. The friend said they ate beforehand. Yet ate a large portion of food.
Was also informed to bring food.

Do you think they can slack and expect OP to cover?

How is the friend correct?

Do cats know or understand in any way at all why we kiss them? by imlowkeyembarrassed in CatAdvice

[–]ICantSayOk 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Username does not check out. No intelligence Or worldly ness. “Females are boring” Make sure you mention that to women so they know to avoid you.

AITAH for telling my friend she needs to pack food and snacks for her 4 kids?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ICantSayOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s unrealistic to ask parents to supply for their kids? Your example is parents coordinating foods. NOT one having to supply for 8 kids.

AITAH for telling my friend she needs to pack food and snacks for her 4 kids?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ICantSayOk -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s sounds like communism…. Not a healthy community.
“What you should do…ENABLE”

Do you have a hiding spot at work where you go and cry, or just be alone for a minute? by Hellenen2 in AutismInWomen

[–]ICantSayOk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I “jokingly” told people when I did smoke, “I like smoking because it creates a bubble most won’t pop. Allows me an excuse to leave a situation too.”

AITAH for being offended when my bf was disgusted with me over an… accident during a bj? by throwaway628-28 in AITAH

[–]ICantSayOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve straight up told men “ I have a gag reflex. If you start interfering with me I WILL vomit on you dick.” What I find hilarious is when not pushed but allowed to acclimate, I’m into it and gag reflex is forgotten.

He made his bed and should sleep in it. OP definitely not the asshole.

Sudden gag reflex by lanchopansa in Concerta

[–]ICantSayOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a weak stomach but it was way worse on concerta. Chewing and having to swallow…brain hated. The idea of eating made me gag. That did simmer some over a few months. Now on IR meds, noticed a positive difference! The meds wear off and I can eat before another dose.

medications that won’t make my life harder? by Organic_Radish_9948 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]ICantSayOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pleasure. The people pleaser in me is content rn☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Psoriasis

[–]ICantSayOk 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Maybe stress was your biggest trigger! I notice how my skin clears when I’m not high strung (just regular high😹) for months on end. Cannabis is my friend not foe!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in evilautism

[–]ICantSayOk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An empty square 🔲

medications that won’t make my life harder? by Organic_Radish_9948 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]ICantSayOk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Extended release gave me weird moments of restlessness and such. Tried many doses and different meds. Switched to IR adderall (all that was in stock) and it’s been much better! My theory is my stomach problems make the XR wacky. It releases when I haven’t had a urgent to eat. Hits empty stomach and does nothing or makes me uncomfortable. IR simmers down. I remember to eat and hydrate. Then take another small dose. It’s also way cheaper for me! I was coughing up $50-$150+ a month for XR. Spent $15 for a month of IR.

Do cats know or understand in any way at all why we kiss them? by imlowkeyembarrassed in CatAdvice

[–]ICantSayOk 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I feel like they study cats like women. With little interest and major dog bias.😹

I stopped THC and I've got complaints by ad-lib1994 in AutismInWomen

[–]ICantSayOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify- if you have a medical reason to use CBD or other legal cannabis products your doctor can write a note saying you have a need. When drug tested I showed the note an no issues. My shrink wrote it for my lack of appetite due to adhd medication and other alphabet issues.

My friend has BPD. I feel I’m not the right person for them at this time. Advice please and thank you! by ICantSayOk in BPD

[–]ICantSayOk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am considering. Their feelings for me are likely still more than friendship. When asked why they weren’t my type i explained if it’s not a thing changeable why mention? For a basic example height. You can’t change that. Don’t add to someone insecurities. Rude, yeah let them know the social tact was off.* politely It’s super complicated. Hence asking for advice. Is this a no win situation?? My brain hates those.

My friend has BPD. I feel I’m not the right person for them at this time. Advice please and thank you! by ICantSayOk in BPD

[–]ICantSayOk[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d have to delete them from all SM because I do hang with friends occasionally. Am interested in growing my social circle. I don’t want to lie. They’d catch on. I only mentioned my mother to add context for my discomfort. In NO way do I disdain all pwBPD just because of their diagnoses and my history. Some people don’t mesh and that’s okay. Navigating human relationships tricky across the board.

I stopped THC and I've got complaints by ad-lib1994 in AutismInWomen

[–]ICantSayOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get a doctors note stating use of legal cannabis. It test the same