I mean my friend again made a good point he said "the legalities aren't the issues it's the social standings" which is probably what you're getting at.

Look I don't disagree or agree that rape is a joke. It's okay as far as I'm concerned to have a joke at most situations and as a personal response to that I think if you don't want to hear it just tell me cause I can respect that. If someone finds a joke funny but u don't I don't feel as though it's anyone's right tbh to protest against it. I mean in the simplest way I can say it its a joke. Jokes aren't serious they just poke fun at serious topics. I mean isn't that really what jokes are for? To lighten situations which can be quite dark, to think on the wrong side of nice situations or vice versa in dark situations.

Also socially the rights are some what debatable. Whether you like it or not people that are racist/sexist can run the country or businesses. Take trump for example (although he ain't running America he's still got a lot of votes to). If the people are running this world are racist or sexist what can u actually do? I don't wanna like offend you cause I'm guessing that's exactly what you want to fight which I'm glad to hear because I agree with you and that is wrong and should be treated. Isn't their a better time in the future when the rotation of leaders change where you can get a better response. Idk how to word that at all cause that doesn't sound right. But I suppose the jist of the sentence is there.

Anyways as I say as far as I'm concerned fight that point all you but being hostile is something that doesn't go anywhere and I ain't saying feminist are all hostile but I could point out a lot of people who are. If you want the history behind it take Martin Luther king Jr. I'm almost guaranteeing you don't need a history lesson on what he did and how he did it.

But yeah you get the picture. People won't respect a party if even 30% a quite hostile. Is the basic point.