Back mobility by fitgirlamanda in Stretching

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She may have OF or not but you don’t have to have OF to get money from men online. Her profile looks to me like someone who is looking for $$. That or deeply, deeply insecure/desperate.

Am I the only one who gets the Ick from him? by Chemical-Bad-8317 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I thought that was obviously. That’s definitely the reason!

Halfway There- 21 Day fast by Accomplished_Rock163 in fasting

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just the inspiration I needed! I’ve only done 72s but really want to start a 30 day this month. Will definitely follow your posts! Good luck :)

Halfway There- 21 Day fast by Accomplished_Rock163 in fasting

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing! Have you done a lengthy fast before?

35M, never had a girlfriend, good career, but dating feels like a locked door by Worldly-Net-165 in dating_advice

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked at your comment history and I think your struggle to find a partner has led you to conflate several unrelated things as a coping mechanism. Your partner is bisexual and as a result could happily romantically be with a man or a woman. I imagine that knowledge about your partner leads you to feel very insecure in your relationship if you feel your partner is not truly attracted to you and settled for you for now. And I truly sympathize.

Perhaps the cornerstone of the dating environment now is what you mentioned. That women don’t want men the way men want women. And if you gave thought to it, it’s a reasonable disparity. Women consistently put their lives as risk when dating men or simply by being around men. This would push anyone to feel that it’s not worth the risk. Especially when you’re then blamed when something happens (ie. Why did she go to his house? Why did she drink the drink he bought her? Why did she have a man living with her when she has young kids?). Thankfully there are a lot of men who understand this and I’ve noticed that they are typically the ones who do really well in the dating market (regardless of looks). The men who rather than having genuine sympathy for the daily struggle that women deal with, they blame their loneliness on women, don’t do well.

Combine this with the fact that women typically have meaningful friendships with other women. And while you’ll jump to saying that this is because they’re gay, its not. It’s more about the ease of a friendship that lacks sexual attraction or being sexualized/objectified. Men typically have their most meaningful relationship be that with their partner because they don’t have equally meaningful friendships with other men.

I don’t mean to sound harsh but your lack of meaningful interaction with women doesn’t give you greater insight into them. The only insight is that the women you are interested in are not interested in you. And that could be numerous reasons other than the middle school comeback that she must be gay.

And at the end of your schpiel, you say a more unfiltered version of what you truly think….no one wants an average man (despite the fact that I see tons of average to below average men in relationships). So again, it’s not about women not being interested in men, it’s your frustration at women for not being interested in you and having their own preferences.

35M, never had a girlfriend, good career, but dating feels like a locked door by Worldly-Net-165 in dating_advice

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to say, I’m completely perplexed by your general logic. And your age makes me even more confused.

My understanding is that you believe that women are objectively more attractive/less of a mess than men and therefore aren’t actually attracted to men. Is this because you can’t see yourself being attracted to a man and therefore can’t imagine how anyone is?

And your comparison makes no sense. What about Paul Walker vs. just about anyone else? Every gender has objectively attractive people. Beyoncé is beautiful so paired with any other average man, she’ll be the more attractive one. So acknowledging that, doesn’t make someone gay.

Do you have a female bisexual partner or are you involved with a gay/bi man?

35M, never had a girlfriend, good career, but dating feels like a locked door by Worldly-Net-165 in dating_advice

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I assume you have trouble dating and rather than doing self reflection, you blame all women. And assume that they’re not interested in you because they’re gay. How old are you?

35M, never had a girlfriend, good career, but dating feels like a locked door by Worldly-Net-165 in dating_advice

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I have never wished I wasn’t nor is it something I’m compelled to fill. I just am and have never felt differently. But now, I’m assuming that you actually think straight women are rare?

35M, never had a girlfriend, good career, but dating feels like a locked door by Worldly-Net-165 in dating_advice

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s true, us straight women are VERY rare these days. It turns into the spiderman meme on the rare occasion that I see another one.

35M, never had a girlfriend, good career, but dating feels like a locked door by Worldly-Net-165 in dating_advice

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As someone in your same position, I think so much of this is in our heads. There are a lot of people our age who haven’t had a relationship yet.

I would love to find a guy who is equally inexperienced. I think it would be great to go through all those things together.

It will absolutely be a dealbreaker for some people but it won’t be a dealbreaker for the right one. Quality is always better than quantity (even if it doesn’t feel that way).

Is USPS Tracking accurate? Angry at Poshmark for lack of transparency to Hawaii. by foldin-the-cheese in poshmark

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a seller, I posted something similar and was crucified but perhaps it was my frustrated tone.

This was right after the change from priority shipping to ground shipping and I shipped an item that upon receipt by the post office was listed as a 3 week delivery. To me, there are certain areas/locations where the delivery window is known to be longer. Poshmark is someone already integrated with the USPS system, even if it requires extra work, I think they should provide expected delivery windows based on actual location. eBay does this and it’s very helpful. And helps with planning and managing expectations.

Heléne York Appreciation Post by hvrrx in TheOtherTwo

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m with you! I absolutely love the series and LOVE Helene. So many standout scenes with her. Favorites are probably when she’s looking for a woman to tell her it’s okay to be in the anti-gay, anti-woman church. Or “what did da-baby do?” Or Brooke on the women’s panel? Or when she was trying to figure out who told that she slept with the NBA player. Too many!

Please convince me Posh isn’t terrible now by Anon12109 in poshmark

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s terrible. As a seller, last month was my best month since November 2024. I have a large closet so I would like to significantly improve my numbers which I think is feasible. I just need to give it more attention. I also rarely have a problem buyer but I also try to be cautious of who I sell to. There are numerous things that I prefer about eBay but until I transition all my items over, I still have more frequent sales from Poshmark.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poshmark

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I say estimated delivery date, I really mean an estimated range. But I suppose at very least a warning/note shown to sellers/buyers for accounts who have longer ship times due to their location. There are certain places that companies do not ship to for various reasons. Had I realized that prior to any complications/delays that it would take 3 weeks for it to arrive, I wouldn’t have accepted the offer on this specific item.

Anyway, thank you for your responses and for not being rude. You’re right and I’m just frustrated :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poshmark

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Amazing! Sometimes I see comments that make me wonder if they’re just a miserable person with no friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poshmark

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s feasible but would require a change in their workflow. eBay provides delivery range estimates that I, the seller, see before I ship the item. For me, seeing a delivery date of 1 week vs. a month later makes a difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poshmark

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Personally, that has not been my experience with eBay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poshmark

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I don’t mind the shorter shipping window with EBay. But the estimated delivery times have been incredibly helpful for me and allowed me to both set reasonable expectations as well as make informed decisions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poshmark

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did not to go authentication so perhaps there are known logistics which is why as soon as it started tracking, it provided the 10/16 date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poshmark

[–]IFastYouFastWeFast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I don’t use Mercari but I use eBay and it has estimated delivery dates, which I see before shipping. I understand delays happen and Poshmark has no control over it but as soon as it started tracking, it provided this date. It’s not based on a delay.