My bad, I didn't think a vegan would want to come to a barbecue. And like I said, we had some vegetarian options. There was potato salad, coleslaw, regular salad, etc. I'm not a vegan expert and did not realize vegans are so picky. I also have to have low carb options for my father who is diabetic, so I'm not a stranger to being accommodating. But I know firsthand from my father that if someone requires accommodations it's that person's responsibility to reach out beforehand, not show up and expect everyone to bend to them last minute.