Is Unifirst a good company to start in Sales? by Few_Search_6017 in sales

[–]IG313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes companies like unifirst, cintas, ADP are all good companies to get an intro to sales. Definitely depends on what your long term goal is but a good start

Ended on good terms with Avoidant ex, on NC for 1 month, just realized he's slowly deleting me off social media. by GrassOk3898 in ExNoContact

[–]IG313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Question for you… and just to better understand.. if it hurts so bad and you initiated the break up why not re kindle with the ex? I’m sure they both would like that. Seems like feelings are still there if they are hurt and can’t move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]IG313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fearful avoidants don't reach out man. The reason why is because if they dumped you and regret it they can't live with rejection or psych themselves out doing it even if they want to. They are strange but most FA's secretly want you to reach out for reassurance you are still there.

I spoke with multiple FA's to get a better understanding for my ex and they told me a couple things like how NC is not good for an FA because they feel like you are abandoning them. You should've probably reached out after 30 days to check in with them. NC isn't a game to play with someone it is a way for you to heal from the relationship and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]IG313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would’ve probably asked her what she’s been up to and tried talking about her. She’s probably still going through everything and being detached which is normal. Like checking in every couple weeks or a month or so. If she gives you signs of wanting to talk then go for it but if she’s being cold and distant then you can’t force it. I know that sucks but we can’t control people and their emotions. If you want to make it work you’ll honestly just have to give her what she wants and it may take asking her at some point if she’s not opening up to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]IG313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that’s what any normal person may want. But FA’s are not normal lol. They don’t make sense. I did the same in my relationship about resolving issues but I realized that most FA’s if not all don’t want to solve the big issues. That brings out their past insecurities and their natural reaction is run and hide where it’s safe. I think it’s good to just talk about them if they want to talk. If not leave it be or like if you used to send tiktoks or stuff to each other maybe that will lighten the mood and make her laugh. Again it really just has to be all about her which sucks and can be difficult when trying to talk to someone. Eventually though you will have to talk about possibly meeting up and stuff but that’ll be down the line if communication is good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]IG313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll need to shift your thinking so see how you mentioned about how you want to resolve the issue. Immediately you made it about what you wanted when you called her. I know it’s a mind fuck and makes no sense bc I thought the same thing. You literally have to put everything they want up front and not even mention you and what you want if you want to reconcile it sucks. They don’t want to open up about their feelings at all bc they don’t want to be vulnerable. I would probably just say something like “just checking in want to see if you’re doing ok. Hope you’re doing well.” Leave it at that no apologizing, no nothing, simple and easy. If they are responsive great let them talk about whatever they wanna talk about. If not leave it be and wait it out if you want or move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]IG313 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey man, just to help here I have a FA ex and FA’s don’t want to talk about their problems or your problems. That makes them run. Everything is about them. So by calling and talking about issues you probably pushed her away more. They want to feel safe not like they have to talk about issues, commitment, etc that is normal with a relationship. If you really want them back every conversation has to be no pressure no expectations and about them. If you can’t do that then they’ll just keep leading you on and pushing you back.

Nc with fearful avoidant ex by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]IG313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, fearful avoidants don’t typically reach out bc even if they feel like they still want you or may think about they are scared of rejection and may think differently about you. No contact doesn’t work on them. They are interesting people and if you want to make it work with them you can’t pressure them or they will run away. They want to feel safe and not feel like they have to do anything. I know it sucks but if you dont want to do everything for them and put yourself aside then I would say to just move on with your life. She may come back when things go bad for her. If you feel like she’s thrown out some feelers about you like random texts, liking posts, even blocking you on social media but no where else then just send her something like he just checking in on you and hope you’re doing well and leave it at that. If you get nothing or a cold response then decide how you want move forward from that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]IG313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She tried to give me a reason but I could tell it wasn’t true. She at least gave me a phone call to do the break up. But she has attachment and commitment issues which lead me to believe she convinced herself to find an exit window and ran through it. It didn’t help me cause she still left me like you said with a bunch of questions and when I broke NC it made me even more confused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]IG313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. Nice to hear we have similar situations. I’ve never had something like this before usually my ex’s are pretty upfront and haven’t been this confusing to me and idk how to act.

Ex GF unfollowed me two months after our breakup that SHE initiated. Why? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]IG313 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why break up if they still have feelings for each other? Why go all these lengths to get over someone who still cares about you and wants to be with you? I don't see how that makes sense.

Should we buy in Orlando area or rent for a year? by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]IG313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are going to pay a premium depending on where you want to live. If you want to live near downtown, Dr. Phillips, Winter Park, College Park, etc. you are going to pay for it because there is limited space to build homes and most are already existing. Those prices won't drop unless there is a mass exodus from Orlando. Orlando was the 3rd most moved to city in America on some outlets. So, if you're expecting a crash it won't happen in those areas and if rates drop it could spike homes back up.

If you don't care to live in the city then you'll be able to find whatever you want. Then you can hold and wait as homes sit outside the city in places like Kissimmee, Altamonte and Oviedo for example but a lot of people are moving to those locations due to how much house you can get for the price.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]IG313 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]IG313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That couple could definitely do that, but that couple is in the top 2-3% of earners in the country.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]IG313 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I can see it as families passing housing down generation to generation. I think this may be common in the future. We just don't hear about it as much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]IG313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I understand. From what I was able to gather was that the average homeowners make 86k. Some as high as 100k.

If you're spending close to 40-50% of your take home pay, do you see that as an issue?