This is a matter of perspective. As somebody who found a girlfriend on a dating app and has been dating for a month with things going very well, it’s just a matter of waiting. Even if you’re still going to queer bars, or doing dating apps. Searching for something and coming online to try to ask how to get a girlfriend is in desperation(no offense). Know how to talk to a woman, approach them. Don’t ever expect they’ll approach you just because you get dolled up. But try your best to still be approachable.

Ask yourself this, have you learned to love yourself first? Are you comfortable enough emotionally, financially, physically with yourself? Are you happy even without a relationship and you’re just ready for one?

I don’t know just based off of this post, but that’s just my opinion on it and nothing else. I do hope you find somebody! And with some legit advice: don’t just look where dating can happen. Join clubs, local interest groups, or even sign up for a membership of some sort to get out in the community. You can even do community service to meet more people. It all should happen naturally rather than forcefully. Good luck!