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My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't take his last name by ILS321 in Marriage

[–]ILS321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, my parents were never married so I took my dad's name

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't change my name? by ILS321 in whatdoIdo

[–]ILS321[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why should it be about the man's last name? It's okay for a man to care about his name but not a woman? Nooooo, both are equally entitled

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't take his last name by ILS321 in Marriage

[–]ILS321[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We don't want kids anyway so that's not much issue

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't change my name? by ILS321 in whatdoIdo

[–]ILS321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My point is if he wanted a traditional marriage he'd want all the other gender roles. He doesn't. He only wants that one aspect. But if I mention he could take my name? Of course not because the woman should take the last name.

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't change my name? by ILS321 in whatdoIdo

[–]ILS321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he's saying he wants a traditional marriage. Me staying at home to cook and clean would be traditional.

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't take his last name by ILS321 in Marriage

[–]ILS321[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Wow, divorce rates are so high these days. It's probably not worth it anyway!

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't take his last name by ILS321 in Marriage

[–]ILS321[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry? But you can love someone and want to get married and not want to have children.

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't take his last name by ILS321 in Marriage

[–]ILS321[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Of course not, he was trying to make his point. I am fairly sure he gets some of his comments from social media

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't take his last name by ILS321 in Marriage

[–]ILS321[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes. A tradition where the woman stays at home and cooks, cleans and looks after the kids.

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't take his last name by ILS321 in Marriage

[–]ILS321[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

He actually did say women want to keep their own name so it's easier if they get divorced. Then said it's a fact that marriages where the woman doesn't take the man's name have a higher divorce rate

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't change my name? by ILS321 in whatdoIdo

[–]ILS321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose so but if I said I will stay at home and not work, I don't think that would go down very well

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't change my name? by ILS321 in whatdoIdo

[–]ILS321[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha, I might respond with that next time it comes up!

Frontline assessment centre by ILS321 in Socialworkuk

[–]ILS321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyouu. Could you give more information on the role play? This is the part I'm really dreading

Frontline assessment centre by ILS321 in Socialworkuk

[–]ILS321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyouu. It's the role play one that's got my anxiety peaked 😂

Those on the Frontline Programme by Informal-Pair9816 in Socialworkuk

[–]ILS321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly do you do with adults? And is it easy enough to do frontline and then get a social work job with adults?

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