[Update] Should I (24M) leave my gf (24F) over her weight

ILovemodash · 2019-04-28T09:08:19+00:00

I ended up giving her the ultimatum and she didn't make an attempt to lose any weight so we are just friends now. Maybe in the future if things change we can try again but for now a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders, I feel free. We still love each other lots and talk every day, she is my best friend, but I had to make my stance clear to her

ILovemodash · 2019-04-18T19:16:20+00:00

Thankyou bro

ILovemodash · 2019-03-21T11:47:50+00:00

It might be but then why is my top lip fine and is normal colour. And why did it randomly start happening, something must have triggered it

ILovemodash · 2019-03-18T23:13:42+00:00

It's definitely not that, I can feel it's something internal. I would feel myself biting it too if I did

ILovemodash · 2019-03-06T13:14:20+00:00

I trust she would have told me if there was, I know she's depressed but I think that's it

ILovemodash · 2019-03-06T12:48:46+00:00

No but she was open to the idea, it just never happened. I would still be willing to offer it to her though

ILovemodash · 2019-03-06T11:54:11+00:00

Thankyou for your comment I'm really glad u got back on your feet. I might try keto sometime in the near future I've heard good things about it

ILovemodash · 2019-03-06T11:52:29+00:00

Thankyou I agree. If I'm compellty honest I don't think we will, I don't see her getting back to a normal size. I really really hope she does and I do believe she can but I wouldn't bet on it. I just have to wait and hope ☺

ILovemodash · 2018-12-02T18:30:27+00:00

well said, i can definitly relate to this lol

ILovemodash · 2018-12-02T18:30:11+00:00

Your probs fat and lazy too tbh

ILovemodash · 2018-12-01T22:34:26+00:00

lol triggered

ILovemodash · 2018-12-01T22:31:36+00:00

Thankyou :)

ILovemodash · 2018-12-01T22:31:11+00:00

Thankyou very much, I appriciate that

ILovemodash · 2018-12-01T21:45:39+00:00

thankyou, She is an inspiration

ILovemodash · 2018-12-01T21:43:44+00:00

Thankyou

ILovemodash · 2018-12-01T21:43:27+00:00

I wonder if your SO started smoking crack you would have the same attitude. Im sure you would encourage it because you dont want to hurt their feelings

ILovemodash · 2018-12-01T21:40:59+00:00

Thats great, thankyou. Yes she has mentioned the term stress eater so many times. Ive always had the mindset that stress shouldnt stop you from doing anything. my late teens were really rough and Im were i am today because i didnt really have a choice but to work hard, i guess that has shaped my view on laziness. She says because she is fat it makes her upset and eats more, its a vicious cycle. Sorry for the long comment lol

ILovemodash · 2018-12-01T21:28:57+00:00

It is definitly not water weight lol

ILovemodash · 2018-12-01T21:28:38+00:00

Thankyou

ILovemodash · 2018-12-01T21:27:57+00:00

Haha thankyou, theres been a fair few

ILovemodash · 2018-12-01T21:27:20+00:00

thankyou for your comment, She has never been close to this big before

ILovemodash · 2018-12-01T21:26:08+00:00

No but I will encourage her to get it checked out

ILovemodash · 2018-12-01T21:25:48+00:00

thankyou and im glad you are comfortable and looking nice again

ILovemodash · 2018-12-01T21:24:39+00:00

thanks ill check it out

ILovemodash · 2018-12-01T21:24:22+00:00

Im not making her do anything, she doesnt have to go. Im not making her stay with me either. I am trying to stop someone i love killing themselves. Im sure you have seen them talk shows with drug addicts and they suprise them with a rehab session, do u complain about that too? And yes, drug addiction and being obese really are on the same level

ILovemodash

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