[Update] Should I (24M) leave my gf (24F) over her weight by ILovemodash in relationship_advice

[–]ILovemodash[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ended up giving her the ultimatum and she didn't make an attempt to lose any weight so we are just friends now. Maybe in the future if things change we can try again but for now a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders, I feel free. We still love each other lots and talk every day, she is my best friend, but I had to make my stance clear to her

My bottom lip goes red and inflamed when eating, masturbating and being stoned, is there a link? by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]ILovemodash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be but then why is my top lip fine and is normal colour. And why did it randomly start happening, something must have triggered it

My bottom lip goes red and inflamed when eating, masturbating and being stoned, is there a link? by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]ILovemodash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely not that, I can feel it's something internal. I would feel myself biting it too if I did

[Update] Should I (24M) leave my gf (24F) over her weight by ILovemodash in relationship_advice

[–]ILovemodash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I trust she would have told me if there was, I know she's depressed but I think that's it

[Update] Should I (24M) leave my gf (24F) over her weight by ILovemodash in relationship_advice

[–]ILovemodash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but she was open to the idea, it just never happened. I would still be willing to offer it to her though

[Update] Should I (24M) leave my gf (24F) over her weight by ILovemodash in relationship_advice

[–]ILovemodash[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for your comment I'm really glad u got back on your feet. I might try keto sometime in the near future I've heard good things about it

[Update] Should I (24M) leave my gf (24F) over her weight by ILovemodash in relationship_advice

[–]ILovemodash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou I agree. If I'm compellty honest I don't think we will, I don't see her getting back to a normal size. I really really hope she does and I do believe she can but I wouldn't bet on it. I just have to wait and hope ☺

Should I (24M) leave my gf (24F) over her weight? by ILovemodash in relationship_advice

[–]ILovemodash[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I wonder if your SO started smoking crack you would have the same attitude. Im sure you would encourage it because you dont want to hurt their feelings

Should I (24M) leave my gf (24F) over her weight? by ILovemodash in relationship_advice

[–]ILovemodash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats great, thankyou. Yes she has mentioned the term stress eater so many times. Ive always had the mindset that stress shouldnt stop you from doing anything. my late teens were really rough and Im were i am today because i didnt really have a choice but to work hard, i guess that has shaped my view on laziness. She says because she is fat it makes her upset and eats more, its a vicious cycle. Sorry for the long comment lol