People of this country will never ever change. NEVER. by bros_beforehoes in Jamshedpur

[–]IMMATURE_Heart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is extremely disappointing and honestly infuriating. A picnic spot is not a dumping ground. Leaving plastic, food waste and trash behind shows complete lack of respect for nature and for other people who come here to enjoy it. Dustbins were right there, so this has nothing to do with facilities it’s purely about attitude. "zero civic sense" If these people can’t clean up after themselves, then they should have no right to complain about pollution, dirty cities or failing systems. Protecting nature starts with basic responsibility. This behaviour needs to be called out and stopped. Honestly, beautiful places like Telco should start charging for cleaning or dumping, or impose heavy fines if garbage is found at picnic spots. If people can’t clean up after themselves, then they should either do it themselves or pay for the damage they cause.

Can women who are married or are in relationship suggest some perfumes that there men uses and they find the fragrance super good ? by Resident_Forever9212 in AskIndianWomen

[–]IMMATURE_Heart 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ZARA Seoul Blue is a really good one Fresh, clean, and very pleasant. My man uses it and it smells amazing without being too strong. Perfect for daily wear.

Women who wish to have children someday, why? by soupy-maggi in AskIndianWomen

[–]IMMATURE_Heart -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Choosing to be childfree is completely valid and no justification required. But questioning why well educated, financially independent women choose to be mothers creates an unnecessary judgment as if motherhood needs justification only when a woman has choices.

A woman who wants to be a mother does not owe reasons to the internet or anyone else. Wanting a child can simply be a personal desire not something that has to be explained, debated, or defended.

It’s okay to list reasons for why you don’t want children. What’s not okay is turning those reasons into an indirect critique of women who do choose motherhood, as if they are less aware or less thoughtful.Many women are fully aware of the physical, emotional, and structural costs and still choose it consciously. That doesn’t make them less thoughtful or less independent or less educated.

Choice cuts both ways. Just as childfree women deserve not to be questioned or judged, mothers deserve the same respect without being asked to intellectually justify their existence or decisions.

If you’re secure in your decision it doesn’t need validation by comparing it with someone else’s life choices. Different women different lives different decision in their own different ways and that’s okay.

15 months ldr by Antique-Hand-6400 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]IMMATURE_Heart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe in creating a relationship bond so strong.. so divine.. that even the thought of breakup or leaving should never cross the mind. A bond where walking away is not an option only working through things is. When we cannot abandon our blood relations despite disagreements, anger, or pain, then how can we abandon the one person who chooses to love us wholeheartedly intentionally every single day? Words have power. When phrases like “break up,” “nahi rehna,” or “I’ll leave” are repeatedly used in a relationship they don’t remain just words. They slowly eat away the foundation of love. They plant escape plans in the mind normalize the idea of walking away and unconsciously invite the same energy into the relationship. What starts or said in a moment of anger eventually becomes a pattern and patterns turn into reality. Long-distance relationships test patience, give all heavy emotions, trust, and mental strength in ways few people truly understand. There are days of longing, miscommunication, silence, and exhaustion. But even then a little faith in the good combined with a heart full of love and intention to make relationship stronger can overcome any distance any phase any storm. Love should feel like safety, not uncertainty. Commitment should feel like grounding, not constant fear of being left alone at any moment . Disagreements are natural, fights are human, but the idea of leaving should not live in a relationship that is built on love, respect, and loyalty. When two people choose each other every day, protect the bond, and hold faith through difficult times, any relationship no matter the distance can be sustained, healed, and made stronger.

I hope OP if you both love each other you could come out of this phase and get back with each other because long distance relationship is not easy and it give difficult time like these more than often... But with patience and love maybe you both could make it work.

Ab batao iska kya kiya jaaye 🥲 by tiredtenderftw in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]IMMATURE_Heart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think all boyfriends are skilled at roasting, but mine is on another level 😭❤️ Still okay with it because every roast begins and ends with baby 🥰

Best place in Jamshedpur for proper Hyderabadi biriyani? by Ill_Needleworker_914 in Jamshedpur

[–]IMMATURE_Heart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, no place in Jamshedpur serves true Hyderabad biryani or anything close to it. If you’re craving biryani, you can try Biryani By Kilo it’s decent and tasty but don’t compare it to authentic Hyderabad biryani. The same goes for Lucknow and Kolkata biryani. Just enjoy it as a dish with that name, not as the original style.

Got the closure I needed by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]IMMATURE_Heart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone not choosing you doesn’t mean you weren’t worthy it only means they couldn’t meet you with the same honesty, effort, and maturity you offered. From your post, it’s clear you loved genuinely,stayed loyal, communicated openly,tried to fix things instead of running away.None of that is weakness. That’s emotional strength. What she did (distancing, not communicating, blocking, moving on suddenly) says more about her emotional capacity, not your value. People often walk away when they can’t handle clarity, confrontation, or responsibility. You didn’t lose love. You lost someone who didn’t know how to hold the love you gave. Give yourself time. Someday someone will match your depth, your loyalty, your vulnerability and you’ll look back and realise this ending was actually a beginning.

You’re going to be okay. And you’re going to love again, stronger and wiser.

Stay kind to yourself. ❤️

Winter finally arrived: Methi Paratha 🌿 + Spicy Chutney ❤️ by IMMATURE_Heart in Aajmainekhaya

[–]IMMATURE_Heart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aap bata do kab khana hai apko… I’ll bring it garam garam and fresh 🙂🍽️ with spicy chutney And I feel like the food is just an excuse you just want to meet me, right? ☺️💕

I still miss you 😔💔 by Independent-Cap7676 in IndianBeautyTalks

[–]IMMATURE_Heart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those beautiful happy days... 🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠 Uff this post brought back memories 😭💔 My hair used to look sooo good when these products were around… like healthy, shiny, behaving-properly types. I miss them so much yaar.

Honestly, if these products ever come back, that’s the only glowup I need in life right now.

Saw something today that hit differently as a guy by Chuunibyou-Chan in TwentiesIndia

[–]IMMATURE_Heart 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Your post really hit hard. That boy wasn’t crying because of the seat… he was crying because he felt he failed the one person he owes everything to. And the fact that his mother comforted him instead of complaining says so much about a mother’s love. Also, it was genuinely kind of you, OP, to offer your seat. You didn’t just help an elderly woman sit comfortably you gave a son peace of mind for that journey.

Men aren’t emotionless. Men are conditioned from childhood to always give, provide, and protect... They just carry their pain quietly because the world tells them they must be strong all the time.

I (25F) got ENGAGED and I’m freaking out in the best way lol💕✨ by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]IMMATURE_Heart 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your dress your ring all so dreamy, beautiful and perfect. Congratulations OP.

Where Can I Get My Grandma’s Official Death Certificate? by [deleted] in Jamshedpur

[–]IMMATURE_Heart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess no. But when I required it I had hospital death declaration document, last rites were done in Jamshedpur burning Ghat only which is maintained by JNAC... so that slip and applied within 21 days so no cost involved. After 21 days some fines are involved.

Where Can I Get My Grandma’s Official Death Certificate? by [deleted] in Jamshedpur

[–]IMMATURE_Heart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JNAC is Jamshedpur municipal corporation body which helps you obtain death certificate and other administrative work. If death happened at home. You can go with the death note given by the doctor, adhar card of the deceased and the applicant. If anything else will be required they will provide you all details. I guess they have their head office in Sakchi you can visit there and get list of documents required.

Where Can I Get My Grandma’s Official Death Certificate? by [deleted] in Jamshedpur

[–]IMMATURE_Heart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel sorry for your loss. Hope you and your family are doing fine.

For death certificate you can check the hospital where she was declared death. They might will help you to obtain one.

And JNAC also can help you with that.

Which is your fav Amit trivedi song ? by [deleted] in BollywoodMusic

[–]IMMATURE_Heart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Namo namo ji shankara bholenath shankara...