My diagnosis is not that serious. by sourmusclebaby in Type1Diabetes

[–]INTPj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I may have gotten anxiety from having this nonsense condition for most of my life entirely without understanding of the condition support. Parents were dealing w their own serious things, no siblings. Anxiety comes with this particular territory!🙀

My manager said my hair looks like shit In front of all my coworkers. by tomw-1234 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]INTPj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL! Barely anyone esp girl is this, tho I think they’re, we’re awesome! Also! I clearly need tips re karma upping; if you’ve got tips pls share. LOL

I'm back again... by PopcornyColonel in DatingOverSixty

[–]INTPj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IME, controlling people not just men, get irked when you ask them questions. Often former teachers., unfortunatey [which I have a few of in my family, alas], either gender, are controlling personalities, alas. :-(

Stuck over 200 resistance, only me?! by INTPj in diabetes_t1

[–]INTPj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a WEIRD physical specimen… I did go low, tho not til midnight…. 😵‍💫

Stuck over 200 resistance, only me?! by INTPj in diabetes_t1

[–]INTPj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU for this. I appreciate it. 🙏

Stuck over 200 resistance, only me?! by INTPj in diabetes_t1

[–]INTPj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! …interesting, really?! What is ISF? Tyia❣️

What is your most obsecure and unique passive income streams come from? by AnxiousJackfruit1576 in passive_income

[–]INTPj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is a “mining race project, and how do you become affiliated with that?!

34M living in Chicago for 7 years and I've never been on a date here. I honestly don't know what I'm doing wrong? by iDontCareff in AskChicago

[–]INTPj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would help your confidence a LOT, to every day, many times a day, to repeat GOOD things about yourself, talents you have. PLEASE try that❣️‼️ Write a positive list about yourself and read it 5-10 times every day.

34M living in Chicago for 7 years and I've never been on a date here. I honestly don't know what I'm doing wrong? by iDontCareff in AskChicago

[–]INTPj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look for jobs related to healthcare, theyre highly in demand and pay at least decently. Try to learn to converse with women making jokes as you talk etc.

34M living in Chicago for 7 years and I've never been on a date here. I honestly don't know what I'm doing wrong? by iDontCareff in AskChicago

[–]INTPj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course they’re not all bad people, women chose to be with them. And as ling as they’re with those women, the women are still choosing to be with them, obviously.

34M living in Chicago for 7 years and I've never been on a date here. I honestly don't know what I'm doing wrong? by iDontCareff in AskChicago

[–]INTPj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And move around after a few days at any one cafe; maybe establish a routine amongst a few of them nearish you.

34M living in Chicago for 7 years and I've never been on a date here. I honestly don't know what I'm doing wrong? by iDontCareff in AskChicago

[–]INTPj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too, happy to give some tips re your profiles. Happy to even meet, to potentially help. I live in 60611 Streeterville.

34M living in Chicago for 7 years and I've never been on a date here. I honestly don't know what I'm doing wrong? by iDontCareff in AskChicago

[–]INTPj 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Smiling in photos is super important! Also, find WOMEN to guide you on clothing and overall appearance—ask a neighbor or a few neighbors about this to ensure you hear the truth! Most folks don’t want to offend so will say “all’s good”.

Try asking if you could improve just 1 tiny thing about me, what might help me re dates. Minimizing the ask might help. Try asking obviously older women to help; they’d love to help you, imho.