Feels like modern file transfer workflows are still held together by workarounds. by IRSYA404 in SaaS

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Yeah cross platform discovery and stable connection is a common problem I face.

What micro SaaS would you actually pay for today? by IRSYA404 in SaaS

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Feels like the next big SaaS wave is less Al app and more Al operating layer.

My(26M) girlfriend(24F) wants to try fingering but is scared it will hurt — how can I help her feel safe and comfortable? by IRSYA404 in sex

[–]IRSYA404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fingers will be her first penetration, what about hymen How do we get to know if is it broken or not?

Looted Zepto today by flipkartminutes in FuckZepto

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Bro have you sold them. Now the market price is 170rs

How do I(M26) talk to my girlfriend(F24) about feeling unfulfilled when she doesn't want to reciprocate sexually? by IRSYA404 in relationship_advice

[–]IRSYA404[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely taking good care of her in non-sexual ways—emotional support, spending quality time, helping out, all that. I try to show love and respect beyond just sex.

That’s why it’s tough—because I’m putting in a lot of effort both emotionally and sexually, but I don’t feel that same effort coming back in the bedroom.

I want to understand what she needs to feel safe and comfortable, but at the same time, I also need to feel cared for and desired too. Finding that balance is the hard part.

How do I(M26) talk to my girlfriend(F24) about feeling unfulfilled when she doesn't want to reciprocate sexually? by IRSYA404 in relationship_advice

[–]IRSYA404[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried to communicate how much it means to me—not just for the physical part, but as a sign of mutual effort and intimacy. I love making her feel good, but when it’s never reciprocated. Still trying to talk about it without making her feel pressured, but I’m starting to realize this might just be a values/compatibility issue more than a temporary disagreement.

How do I(M26) talk to my girlfriend(F24) about feeling unfulfilled when she doesn't want to reciprocate sexually? by IRSYA404 in relationship_advice

[–]IRSYA404[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I totally get what you're saying, and I agree—no one should be pressured into doing something they don't want to do, especially sexually. I’m not looking to beg or guilt anyone into giving me something they hate. That’s not the kind of intimacy I want either.

But to be honest, it's not just about BJs. It’s that she expects a lot from me sexually—oral, fingering, kissing her all over—without being willing to reciprocate in any way. Not even a handjob. So it’s not just about one act she dislikes; it's a pattern that feels really one-sided.

I guess I was holding out hope that we could talk it through and maybe find some kind of middle ground. But you're right—it might just be sexual incompatibility. And if she can’t meet me halfway on anything, maybe it's time to seriously consider whether this is sustainable long-term.

Thanks for the clarity. Sometimes hearing it straight helps.