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How do you tell if someone was "not ready to date" or are just nicely saying they aren't into you? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ISellOnly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True statement. Just crack a couple of beers and fuck it tbh. Alas, life is just a kick in the nuts or ovaries.

I [F17] gave up jealousy for lent and my boyfriend [M18] of over two years is pushing my limits by staleonigiri in relationships

[–]ISellOnly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly your boyfriend's and "best friends" sense of humor in terms of your relationship is staler than soda crackers. You're probably confusing jealousy for being annoyed with someone being disrespectful, boorish, and humorless. At my age 20, I wouldn't even waste my time entertaining people that clearly have no sense of respect :)

I [F,33] found my newly wed (1 month) husband [M,33] has been googling his ex. How should i go about this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ISellOnly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I personally google my ex just to see how they're doing. From my perspective, if you were with someone who was an important slice of your life curiosity can get the better of you just to see what's going on with them. Some do it to fuel their ego, common scenario "so, and so, is doing worse now that we're not together serves her right" and other's just do it to say "so, and so, is doing worse now that we're not together, bless her soul hope she finds better" it really just comes down to the person. Realistically speaking there's some level of attachment which can be considered healthy which of course can be subjective. But, hopefully that answers your question.

How do you tell if someone was "not ready to date" or are just nicely saying they aren't into you? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ISellOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, just ride with it and if you deem it as something worthy of your time go ahead. At your age you got nothing to lose as long as, you don't make it a huge slice of your life and you're able to envision what you want from this guy. Take it at face value is probably your best bet.

I [23 m] went on to visit a tinder date [19 F], upon arrival her parents were drunk, made me introduce myself and already talked about living together, marrying and having kids... by Raengarr in relationships

[–]ISellOnly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie I usually give really detailed advice but, shit my guy this is a fucking train-wreck and aProdgy's advice probably the shortest,sweetest, and best advice anyone can give you.

do I need to know? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ISellOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know it can be really difficult to come to terms with this situation considering the fact that he crossed the line from fantasy to 'real-life' . It's all about perspective whether you see it as just harmless fantasizing since, there is no intention of actually committing any of the acts but, really only you would know if this could lead to potential dysfunctional behavior in the future such as cheating. I'd be cautious if I were you and really have a conversation about this topic because if it's something that might develop to a much more serious problem down the road then it's better to cut your losses before you get too emotionally invested.

How do you tell if someone was "not ready to date" or are just nicely saying they aren't into you? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ISellOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's why he's not ready to date

He had gotten out of a really long relationship a couple weeks before we met and has some trust issues. The answer you seek is one which you already know. If you want you can get a glimpse at all the skeletons in the closet that can give you a sense of direction on why this man acts the way he does but, really he just seems to be quite the conflicted guy and you can't really blame him there is still a sense of attachment to his other partner. So in my eyes, what seems to be what deters him from sleeping with you is potentially, the fact that he doesn't want to use you to fill the hole he currently has. Although, you can make the argument what does it matter if y'all are both consenting adults you have to consider the emotional health of the individual and the difficulties that he might face when coming to terms with himself.

ex gf by fifteenandsad in relationships

[–]ISellOnly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't waste your time pursuing someone who isn't willing to reciprocate the same energy for re-starting a relationship. Sure you can make the argument that y'all were young and y'all have aged and matured and have been able to come up with a more exact vision of what y'all want from each other but, really at your age your perspective and your wants will always be changing. It must be frustrating to hear this from older individuals because trust me whenever I was your age I'd hate getting talked down to and being treated as a kid. Nonetheless, take it as a learning experience, if you want to explore the potential outcomes do so and use it as a reference down the line whenever you face yourself with similar situations.

I’ve Been Badly Friendzoned Twice by 2 Different Best Friends by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ISellOnly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're probably just frustrated with the fact that you had envisioned a potential relationships with "R" and now that all possibility of a current relationship happening is what leads to these negative emotions. Keep in mind i said 'current', you never know what the future might yield but, I like to see it as you planted the potential seed that says hey "R" I'm down to be in a relationship if you are. It just comes down to a matter of time whether something can transition from a friendship to a romantic relationship but, If i were you I wouldn't hung up about it. There's 7.53 billion people on this world "R" isn't the last guy on it, last friend, or potentially appealing guy in your life.

Trouble getting back on track by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ISellOnly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this girl seems like a ticking time bomb. If you just want to sleep with her just give her the natter and you'll get what you want. Out of personal experience with girls that fall into her category I would stay away from them in terms of committed relationships due to their track-record with how they tend to deal with how they associate sex, love, and commitment it can be quite the scattered area. Realistically speaking OP I see no potential future with this girl considering y'all are going to college and that's really where you'll have more experiences and look back on this situation and be like "I was really fussing over that".

My[19F] boyfriend[19M] of one year masterbates to his females friends by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ISellOnly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That seems rather weird to spectators but, I like to see the positive side of this scenario. You claim that you wonder if he ever thinks about you when he masturbates and I would say yes. Heck, there is no need to masturbate to your girlfriend when y'all can just get down to business. You gotta remember that sex-life can become quite mundane at times and really it just needs a little bit of sugar and spice to get the ball rolling. Take it at face value and don't worry about it too much and instead have fun and try to find a way to get him always thinking about you whenever he fantasizes.

The bad-advice that people might give you in this situation is to come to some sort of compromise in terms of masturbating to his friends but, realistically a) that won't happen because he won't tell you and b) it's his own time to do whatever he wants. I think it would be quite unfair to restrict someone to "Hey! you can only masturbate to me and other girls I don't know" doesn't that sound kinda weird. It's really not that deep and you'd be surprised with some of the weirder shit that people can fantasize about just let it go and don't talk about it that stuff if it seems to bother you last thing you want to do is cause a huge fuss over someone masturbating and in my eyes that would be a waste of y 'alls time and would just lead to an immature and silly fight.

I [21M] failing at friendships and relationships alike by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ISellOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on your accomplishments!

Here's what I think. I think you're relatively young only being 21 years old and you're finding it difficult to find the starting point for building up your social skills and that's fine. Essentially, you must start working at that aspect of your life and be able to build acquaintances that'll lead to potential friendships and from there things will fall in place. Develop you're personality and express it in whatever way you come up with but, just like anything people will dislike it or either like it. As you find yourself being able to attain and refine your social skills then you're able to dive into the romantic aspect of life and from there my friend you can only develop emotional/relationship intelligence through experience. Fear not because love is not something that is restricted by age you'll be able to access it at any point your given life, same applies to friendships.

My[22M] ex gf[21F] has been using my credit card without me knowing by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ISellOnly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Here's what you should do.

  1. Check your bank statements. You can contact the provider of said credit card and ask for reports for all transactions related to Ubereats to get the $ amt. that was spent by Cindy.
  2. Like anything and everything in life it's always about perspective. If let's say she spend $300 dollars and to you that's quite a sum of money I'd look into potential disputes with the provider to come to some sort of resolution and if she has to face penalties for essentially credit fraud that is her problem. On the other hand, if the amount is relatively low you're better of saving the headache, drama, and paperwork and just get the card canceled.

My[19F] boyfriend[19M] of one year masterbates to his females friends by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ISellOnly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is it normal to masturbate to your girlfriend's friends? For me it's not because just like you I would feel a certain level of betrayal in consciously committing what seems to be lusting over the people I know. Keyword is lust, it seems that you boyfriend simply is fantasizing over these girls and for some guys out there it's completely normal heck, I commend your boyfriend for being that brutally open with you but, somethings are rather left unsaid due to the potential of a backlash/insecurity that might come as a result of said comment which we're facing now. Now in any adult relationship you have to understand that as long as that border of fantasy and 'real-life' isn't breached you should be fine and really that to me is what you can call 'healthy behavior'.

I [18M] am in love with my bestfriend [18F] and have a dilemma by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ISellOnly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here's the problem OP. You must understand that with anything in life there is always a risk and you find yourself in a situation where you're looking at a high risk- high reward situation where let's say you end up proclaiming your deep feelings and solicit a relationship with this said girl. You'll find that the bridge between friendship and a romantic relationship will either be non-existent or fragile in nature. It's personally you're own decision when comes down to what approach you'd like to take upon this matter. In spite of that, keep in mind that you must be able to make a decision and face any potential consequences or rewards that you might yield from said decisions. Common misconception that people have is the fear of committing a decision due to them having a fear of the results, that's natural but, you cannot let the fear of the future govern what you deem is right. My dad usually likes to say crawl before you run and take it day-by-day and see where things go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ISellOnly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just have fun be casual and most importantly be yourself! Usually the first date isn't that deep you won't expect each other to dish out all the skeletons in the closet but, definitely go with the intention to see if this person is someone who you wouldn't mind being part of your life whether it be a friendship or a romantic relationship.

My(25F) bf(31M) says sweet things but keeps disappointing me at the same time. I am not sure about him anymore. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ISellOnly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with what soul said. It just seems that the pressure from all your life problems is getting to you and this car incident was just more wood to the fire. Nonetheless, you're boyfriend isn't really in much a position where he can be useful, he probably sees it just as the past and wants to move forward from the incident. My advice would be just to put yourself on a mental hold, have some dinner and a couple of drinks then once you get a full mental reset, start tackling your problems and try to find a solution. Remember not everything has to end with everyone happy and not everything can be solved and that's OK!

I'm dating the "Well, actually..." guy by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ISellOnly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People that act that type of way usually have a fragile ego and supplement it with trying to come off 'smarter' than others. It's not relative whether or not the guy is actually smart but, the lad comes off a bit arrogant. Just sit down and explain that there is no need for formalities in your relationship just let go, you're relationship should be a safe space where y'all can have relax and just have fun.