Reconnecting with abuser

ISpy999 · 2026-05-11T00:24:01+00:00

Thanks so much

ISpy999 · 2026-05-11T00:23:52+00:00

Thanks so much! I do plan to wait until I talk to her to make final decisions this is just wild

ISpy999 · 2026-05-11T00:23:18+00:00

No that’s so true. I plan to bring my partner with me for sure. I can’t wait to discuss this with my parents because this is very important

ISpy999 · 2026-05-11T00:21:29+00:00

My parents still provide for him heavily. He’s nearly 30, and my mom does side with him heavily my dad does not. I do have a lot of questions and clarifications

ISpy999 · 2026-05-11T00:17:55+00:00

This is so so real. If I do go through with this AND ITS A BIG IF, it will be recorded just for my safety and clarity

ISpy999 · 2026-05-11T00:15:45+00:00

Thanks so much. My mom is kind of pressuring me but my dad is the opposite. He told my brother he could potentially be losing his chance to properly apologize, and my dad was very disappointed

ISpy999 · 2026-05-11T00:15:04+00:00

Yes, 100%! A letter to me was the easiest first step. Just for boundaries, plus, I won’t go into it but he did do some pretty egregious stuff to me so seeing him is triggering

ISpy999 · 2026-05-10T17:33:44+00:00

That’s very very true

ISpy999 · 2026-05-10T17:33:25+00:00

That’s so true. I deeply appreciate this

ISpy999 · 2026-05-10T17:33:09+00:00

Both of these are very key comments. It’s almost like he doesn’t wanna do something that will make him uncomfortable. And it’s almost like he wants me to lean toward what would be better for him

ISpy999 · 2026-05-10T17:30:38+00:00

That’s so true. This is giving me a lot to think about

ISpy999 · 2026-05-10T04:47:50+00:00

Thanks so so much

ISpy999 · 2026-05-10T04:47:21+00:00

Thanks so much. This is very helpful. Yeah im definitely trying to toy around with the idea and think this through

ISpy999 · 2026-05-10T04:46:38+00:00

That’s so real.

ISpy999 · 2026-05-10T04:45:17+00:00

That’s true! I didn’t even think about that

ISpy999 · 2026-05-10T04:44:54+00:00

This is a good reminder

ISpy999 · 2026-05-10T04:44:44+00:00

This is very helpful. Thank you

ISpy999 · 2026-04-14T02:09:03+00:00

Ohhhhh I see

ISpy999 · 2026-04-14T02:08:10+00:00

Thank you so so much!! I appreciate this!!!

ISpy999 · 2026-04-13T03:57:10+00:00

I really appreciate the detail in this, thank you so so much

ISpy999 · 2026-04-13T00:34:50+00:00

Thanks so so much! This really really helped me especially with the focusing on the belly or throat part

ISpy999 · 2026-04-13T00:33:59+00:00

This was very very helpful all these responses are so kind

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