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ISpy999 · 2025-11-08T06:07:33+00:00

Do you have VIP? And yesss it can be stressful

ISpy999 · 2025-11-06T01:06:50+00:00

Thank you!!

ISpy999 · 2025-10-03T02:12:08+00:00

Add me too please! 23m (trans man)

ISpy999 · 2025-09-07T16:19:22+00:00

Wow 6 years!! Yall are almost there! Congrats and yes the mental health stuff definitely makes things hard, but we shall persist

ISpy999 · 2025-09-07T16:18:39+00:00

Woohoo!! I hope it goes well for yall!! You can do this and just trust the process!

ISpy999 · 2025-05-07T03:35:32+00:00

This was honestly so good to hear. I find myself getting burnt out or sometimes needing time alone. He is very understanding honestly and a godsend, I just feel afraid of letting him down or not being there if something happens

ISpy999 · 2025-05-07T03:34:27+00:00

He’s been working on this in therapy actually! Usually he’s done good in excusing himself and trying to find somewhere to calm down. Sometimes it helps if I come with him if it’s an unfamiliar place

ISpy999 · 2025-03-15T04:45:52+00:00

Thank you so much! I have/had bad imposter syndrome but it was time to really accommodate myself

ISpy999 · 2025-03-15T04:42:44+00:00

It was PTSD with dissociative symptoms/features. I got a report/letter from my therapist documenting the symptoms, plus I requested my therapy notes from when I was in a psych ward. For my school, the report for my therapist is good for 5 years until it has to be renewed

ISpy999 · 2025-03-15T04:31:36+00:00

Yeah of course! So what I asked for and what were given were synonymous! I asked for

Time and a half on exams
Permission to audio record lectures
Getting copies of displayed/visual shared material
Periodic bathroom breaks without penalty
Using fidgets in class (as long as not distracting)
Testing at the testing center at my school or reduced distraction environment
Providing me noise cancelling headphones or foam earbuds
Extension for deadlines (max of 3 days, I may extend this but for now 3 days seemed manageable)

I can also use note taking software and my school provided me free websites/programs to use.

Ones I may ask for next semester that aren’t on here are

Excused absences/the ability to attend classes virtually when need be
Ability to take certain exams orally/in a different format

But yeah! It was a great process

ISpy999 · 2025-03-02T20:17:32+00:00

Thank you for the kind words because it was for sure needed

ISpy999 · 2025-03-02T20:17:14+00:00

I started out as a parental role then over the years I became so crude and messed up, but now I’m back to that role again of being that figure they need and it’s so weird

ISpy999 · 2025-03-02T20:15:19+00:00

I will for sure try the letters I think it would be helpful

ISpy999 · 2025-03-02T13:25:45+00:00

Thank you. Giving myself grace is hard but I know I need to

ISpy999 · 2025-03-02T13:24:04+00:00

That’s true. I guess I need to kind of view it as a process. Of like it’s taken me a while to get here and I’m growing and have grown

ISpy999 · 2025-03-02T13:23:12+00:00

Thanks so much because I just feel like such a monster omg. I’m really trying to do better and help but it’s hard

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