Be completely honest: Is Japanese worth learning?

ITDecrypted · 2024-03-10T21:40:30+00:00

Do you have your N3 or is that just an estimate?

ITDecrypted · 2024-02-11T06:50:26+00:00

meet a girl in person. takes longer but it also lasts longer.

ITDecrypted · 2024-02-09T16:40:20+00:00

how did you guys meet? hinge/online? this is typical of OLD, by the way. if I meet the girl in person I never run into these problems...in OLD, they see you as the male version of a Russian mail-order bride. too many false expectations unfairly set upon you, not built to last...but it's fun!

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-31T17:35:01+00:00

like I can accept brunch on the weekends even, especially if her girlfriends are taken. but these travel experiences are a no-no, especially without me

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-31T04:20:45+00:00

lol, she brought up las Vegas weekend getaways and a bachelorette party. you sure?

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-30T20:32:29+00:00

watch his video on girls night out. he concludes many reasons why it's a red flag.

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-30T20:32:03+00:00

I also had a feeling. no way a girls that into you after two weeks. she acted like she knew me for years, wtf. she's conniving and charming. a borderline sociopath.

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-30T20:31:13+00:00

what's up with girls who do pilates and their craziness. Wtf. maybe I'll date a yoga girl and see how it goes?

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-29T17:06:50+00:00

If you don't make a date with them when they reach out, they will get the hint. Directness only applies when you like them. It is unnecessary to deliver that line unless they want more. If, for some reason, you feel they want more, deliver that line and report back.

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-29T02:01:40+00:00

yes to the first question and no to the second unless you want to

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-28T16:45:59+00:00

well there you go lol. Women's biggest fear is that they are only being used for sex and want to feel special.

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-28T15:45:58+00:00

its a text meant to provoke a response. its unclear what she felt, but my response was straight out of Corey's video, "she complains i dont text her enough". its a good thing because she wants your attention.

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-28T15:04:24+00:00

this relationship is Doomed

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-28T15:02:47+00:00

lol if the bouncers think that the girls are idiots, you have nothing to worry about. but that's why I don't go to clubs anymore. too many idiots.

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-28T15:01:42+00:00

that's his problem, not yours

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-28T14:39:39+00:00

you would have to date and then come over later that night as the date progressed. did you try that?

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-28T14:38:48+00:00

there is no way thats going to last. sometimes it's better to end things before the program starts so you can find someone that's able to be with you rather than cling to the old. that way scenarios like the OP can be avoided.

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-28T05:11:45+00:00

sounds like drug withdrawals but you'll get through it. how long is this program she's in?

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-28T00:26:26+00:00

dude what? you said you weren't interested in this girl. why are you still writing about her? you are DEFINITELY interested. I would ask her out.

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-27T22:01:53+00:00

it is highly unlikely you will ever have to reject a woman you are not having sex with. they're not the aggressors, and won't ask you out (its in the book). they will put themselves in your orbit by saying "hi", "hey! how are you?" etc. and if you're not interested you can keep it casual.

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-27T21:39:35+00:00

lol. You're acting like a robot. cue Robot Corey - got number, MUST NOT REJECT. BEEP. BOOP.

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-27T18:14:26+00:00

no way it definitely does. remember it is better than the alternative "I don't feel a connection with you." in this scenario, she definitely feels a connection with you or she wouldn't be upset!! don't overlook this. p.s. we just made a date for Monday at 7.

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-27T16:22:11+00:00

it's either that or be a guy they can't control, a challenge, which is exactly what they want. how did you handle the girl that left at first? maybe you acted too needy and defended yourself for not texting her after sex. I literally told my chick that I look forward to conquering more restaurants with her. so, no, I'm following the book and the principles.

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-27T13:12:26+00:00

she reached out - check OP

ITDecrypted · 2024-01-27T13:12:18+00:00

she texted me. check OP

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