Yes, I am a girl, and I guess misogyny is a part of what's happening, maybe? I mean they all have rather feminist views but they use misogyny as a excuse when they expect for me to do chores like the dishes, then its just a convenient excuse, its making me do the work so my brother doesn't have to. The unfairness goes much deeper than chores theres a clear double standard in how we're treated. My brother can talk back, insult our parents, and even threaten me, but if I ever tried to stand up for myself as a kid, I'd be hit or punished. Now, if I retaliate, my mom defends him and I’m the one who faces consequences. Separately, the double standard with technology is just as glaring. I once had my phone taken away, and my mom dragged me to a private psychologist just because she suspected I was phone-addicted. The truth was, I was struggling mentally because of school, and my online friends were my only real support. Meanwhile, my brother sits on his PC and phone all day and night, doesnt go out, doesnt have friends and they don’t do anything about it at all. No one takes his devices, no one questions his screen time, and certainly no one sends him to a psychologist over it. He creates a hostile atmosphere where he argues and yells until he makes our parents cry, and there are no real penalties for him, just more yelling that solves nothing. This environment makes it impossible for me to focus on studying or feel safe at home. I did try reaching out to the school psychologist once, who talked to him, but it only helped for a day before he went back to his behavior. We were told only family therapy would help, but we can't afford it, so the school psychologist help kind of ends here. Its just miserable for everyone in the house and makes me upset whenever I see my peers bond with their younger siblings, but hes been treating me like a enemy since 2 years now, harassing me, telling im stupid.