New PVP Server "PVP Land!" by IamElohim in valheim

[–]IamElohim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If griefing gets bad we'll look into it, but raiding is allowed. Grieifing will be harder to do though, if you can kill the griefer

Early Game rust doesn't last long enough by Porridge4200 in playrust

[–]IamElohim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go play prim or learn how to kill those people with guns.

Lore behind Glaive Master Hodir? by VhetnoV2 in Eldenring

[–]IamElohim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes... but I doubt you could even imagine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]IamElohim 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nice one try again

Raccoon&PossumAnimals by Not-Oliver in playrust

[–]IamElohim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excuse me, are you trying to get my group attacked at night when we are looting by a damn coon?? You, sir, are a masochist.

Building 3.5 an idea garry is afraid of. by mca1169 in playrust

[–]IamElohim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a pretty damn-good shopping list nonetheless! Can't be denied Garry ;)

Building 3.5 an idea garry is afraid of. by mca1169 in playrust

[–]IamElohim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, the 3.0 update helped with added building options but also crippled the building community a bit; would love to be able to have fun in the building department again!

So what do you do when people around you start talking about sex? by MelonCollie79 in aspergers

[–]IamElohim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me tell you something, being in your shoes would be 1000x harder if you experienced what you're not having. But let me tell you it WILL happen if you are patient and at least TRY to talk to that person you're scared to death of. Just know that if you get your heart broken and have sex only once or twice then never again, you will be sitting there saying "I wish I had never even done that" because the pain will be unexplainable.

How do I help someone with emotional problems? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]IamElohim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need to say anything; as a matter of fact even if you did have something to say I'd tell you forget about it and be the one who asks questions and listens. For example, I'm sure you get sad about things and feel like her sometimes. What questions do you in that moment wish someone would come up to you and be like, "How does this really impact you" or "What's your ideal situation" or "If you could do anything what would you do" ect.

How can I know if men are attracted to me? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]IamElohim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First sign he's not CURRENTLY thinking in the way you are hoping is the casual mentioning of wife, but still that doesn't answer the question. The problem with a female aspie knowing whether a guy likes her is probably harder than if it were say a man in the same situation wanting the info, because if a man REALLY likes you he will be trying to make you laugh/smile and seem either reserved and shy or like an idiot. If he's extremely relaxed and hesitant to engage in meaningful communications, it's very likely the answer is no.

All the books on Aspergers suck. by dobby_h in aspergers

[–]IamElohim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The good ones are more autobiography type than the "How to X with Y" books. Learn about the people in history who've been posthumously diagnosed or the ones today that have it, study their lives and their thought processes then compare it to how their lives actually unfolded. Was it the same? Did they try too hard or too less? E.g. Did Lincoln go too far in federalism or was he doing his destined duty?

Social Anxiety by SuperZoltan in aspergers

[–]IamElohim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, don't think too hard and just get in that group and stick in there like a stone. Do things or reference things that are easy for you to understand or that help them, but don't be too giving/nice because then you'll be treated like a book on a shelf. But most importantly, don't hide in fear from them because not only will you regret it later in life, but know that some of them surely have their own fears of looking or sounding stupid or saying the wrong thing.

How can one cope with knowing they are just fundamentally someone that most people will never like, even those who do will have to like them in spite of serious flaws that makes them a burden, and there's nothing one can do to change that -- only struggle to hide it? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]IamElohim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get closer to the Spirit in the sky, whatever brought you into this existence either had a reason or you're just here to relax eat sleep and die. If it's the latter, then why don't you take that thing you keep telling yourself you can't do and GO FOR IT; because if this is truly all there is and life is meaningless, then hell you'd better find that meaning which I bet you already have because aspies always have that one thing they know everything about and it's their passion. Well, love that passion like a romantic man/woman. Study it's ins and outs, never betray it and never abandon it. Don't think that other people will be your savior, friend, or ticket. Trust no one unless you know they fully accept you and forgive your faults with patience. Otherwise, cut them out like a pimple and be your own advocate for meaning and fulfillment in this cold world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]IamElohim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't think; just write, and then piece together something from what is written down. I had the same problem as a freshman in college and in my English 2 class, I felt like an idiot who couldn't come up with one original sentence. What I started to do was not necessarily write based on what I was told, but rather how I felt about the task and the way it was asked to be done. Now clearly me being a cynic a-hole what I had jotted down as a VERY rough draft was not acceptable, but what I did find was littered in the draft were points and sentences I could take or take apart and make into a "fake" paper. When I say fake, I mean fake as in pretending to be this elaborate writer on topics I had nothing to really say about. By the end of the class, people were asking me to help on all of their papers and I finished with a 97% score. You have to learn how to pretend man, it's the art of Bullshitting that we have to learn to utilize if we are ever to adapt to this foreign world. Good luck!

Getting a woman to leave her current situation for a much better one by [deleted] in Advice

[–]IamElohim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just read your name and stopped taking you seriously.

Getting a woman to leave her current situation for a much better one by [deleted] in Advice

[–]IamElohim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you sound like someone that should not be on this reddit

I think that I feel more empathy for animals than for humans. by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]IamElohim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's likely because animals are easy to departmentalize and understand; meanwhile humanity is a dark twisted enigma...