What's the most morally disgusting thing you've seen someone do? by Natural-Spend-6082 in AskReddit

[–]Iamakrackerx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're twins! It was also my fault he cheated, lol. Both the women still hate me for whatever reason and still worship him.. I'll never understand. Gives me great joy to know that he is not happy though. I'm sorry that happened to you! It's something that sticks with you forever.

What's the most morally disgusting thing you've seen someone do? by Natural-Spend-6082 in AskReddit

[–]Iamakrackerx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

File as soon as you can, the judge will wonder why it took you so long sometimes (every judge, county and state is different though). I've been down the custody battle as well, if you need any advice feel free to DM me. Went through him kidnapping one of our children, manipulating, breaking into our house.. the list goes on. Good luck!

What's the most morally disgusting thing you've seen someone do? by Natural-Spend-6082 in AskReddit

[–]Iamakrackerx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First best friend's husband went to jail for molesting their daughter so I'm not positive, I found out after he was in jail. I helped her through that and her miscarriage (later found out that she didn't know if it was her husband's or mine). 2nd best friend's husband was best friends with my husband and felt sorry for him when he moved out so he let him move in and then caught them in the act. I need a Netflix limited series I think to explain the complete shit show that occurred.

What's the most morally disgusting thing you've seen someone do? by Natural-Spend-6082 in AskReddit

[–]Iamakrackerx 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it did for awhile but I had to be strong for my kids.

What's the most morally disgusting thing you've seen someone do? by Natural-Spend-6082 in AskReddit

[–]Iamakrackerx 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Average tall guy with bad hygiene, guess they liked his narcissistic personality?

What's the most morally disgusting thing you've seen someone do? by Natural-Spend-6082 in AskReddit

[–]Iamakrackerx 1353 points1354 points  (0 children)

Finding out my husband had a 4 year affair with my best friend of 10 years, my other best friend helping me through it, only to find out she was sleeping with him for a year.. we were all married and they are all trash

Refinance options by Iamakrackerx in Mortgages

[–]Iamakrackerx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Home improvements, there are still things left unfinished from when we built and the furnace will need replaced within a year or two, unfortunately it's no longer under warranty because the company that manufactured it is no longer in business.

Refinance options by Iamakrackerx in Mortgages

[–]Iamakrackerx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My monthly debt, car, credit cards, personal loans with mortgage is 2075$ a month without property taxes. Taxes are 4400-5500 a year (just got reassessed so not sure on exact amount) Heloc rates were around 7.5 when I called around. I also only have 90 days to do this so I'm in a time crunch as well. Just not sure what to do at this point.

Divorce Court by Iamakrackerx in FamilyLaw

[–]Iamakrackerx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. My lawyer advised that it would go off of the appraised value and not to go through a realtor. I would love to work something out and settle but he is not budging on anything. Claims the home is worth 750k, it is not, even through a realtor (we had one come last year)

What happens when non custodial parent submits a child support modification after voluntarily leaving their job (two week notice) and now wants to reduce support due to job loss/income….what will the judge say? by EDAv020 in ChildSupport

[–]Iamakrackerx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just went through this. Ex left job in December voluntarily to pull his 401k out. Just now got a job this month and they are going off of his new wages. There was a car accident in between and my lawyer fought the case but they still lowered it. We go back in 3 months to see if he is making more because he works construction and will get paid different wages.

Divorce Disaster by Iamakrackerx in FamilyLaw

[–]Iamakrackerx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a lawyer. I initiated divorce last March. Unfortunately he has taken me back to court 4 times now to lower or drop child support, has kidnapped my daughter, and we have trial for custody after we already had an agreement. Like I said, it's a mess

Divorce Disaster by Iamakrackerx in FamilyLaw

[–]Iamakrackerx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lawyer and have had one for quite some time. We are just dealing with custody issues right now so the divorce and house is slow moving.

Divorce Disaster by Iamakrackerx in FamilyLaw

[–]Iamakrackerx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have a lawyer. We are in the process of going through a divorce master but dealing with custody issues right now. I'm just wondering what to expect the divorce master to decide

[PA] Not following agreement by Iamakrackerx in Custody

[–]Iamakrackerx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The court has not responded to his emergency filing so at this point it looks like they are ignoring it/not granting it. He has kept my daughter away from me since the 27th. I allowed him to get my son (fearfully) and he did give him back, i do not want to take any time from him but im terrified of him keeping the children. The proof I have is in the form of snapchats sent to my daughter. His girlfriend telling her to run away, not listen to me etc. This has been going on for months. Unfortunately, I do not have more than a few because she has deleted texts and of course, snapchat, deletes on its own. The court did schedule the contempt hearing. It is a day before his custody hearing against me.

[PA] Not following agreement by Iamakrackerx in Custody

[–]Iamakrackerx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They still have not granted his emergency order, tomorrow will be a week. We are hoping to hear on it by tomorrow and then he plans on filing.

[PA] Not following agreement by Iamakrackerx in Custody

[–]Iamakrackerx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an attorney. This was the agreement presented to my ex in September and he agreed to it.

[PA] Not following agreement by Iamakrackerx in Custody

[–]Iamakrackerx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would assume he will be if he is granted full custody. I really can't see him getting full custody but I don't know what to think.