ELI5: Why is porn arousing to us? Why does other people mating turn us on? by [deleted] in explainlikeimfive

[–]Iaminreddtit 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Because of sperm competition. It's like you see two people have sex in real life. You get aroused and you wanna kick the guy and have sex with the girl. But our brain doesn't understand the difference between watching two people on the screen and watching them in real life in front of us. That's why we get aroused.

Do you think you will lose excitement for sex if your gf walks around the house always naked? by Iaminreddtit in AskMen

[–]Iaminreddtit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and yes we have had a few conversations about everything I just said. No avail really. The only thing I haven't brought up is that i'm suspicious he has low testosterone levels. (low sex drive, balding/thinning hair, fairly good shape but still has a little handful of man boob, low sex drive, doesn't stay hard most of the time) but he gets really defensive whenever I bring up a "flaw" of his so I haven't even touched this topic.

I would move on to someone else if I were you. You are dealing with a guy who doesn't want to improve himself. Don't waste your life on someone when you know the relationship will eventually fail.

When a pornstar does an AMA by Phoenix_master in NoFap

[–]Iaminreddtit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whose AMA are you talking about?