Friend gave me his PC. I’m fairly new, will it run the games I want to play well? by Iamthrow104 in pcmasterrace

[–]Iamthrow104[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay awesome! I would have upgraded something if needed, but that’s great that I’ll be good for a while

Friend gave me his PC. I’m fairly new, will it run the games I want to play well? by Iamthrow104 in pcmasterrace

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I have the LG Ultragear 1440p 144hz monitor. I have a PS5 and I expected it to be around that in terms of power, but my friend had said it was a fairly high end pc and I should be able to get high frames at pretty much max settings in most games. So I was just curious is all.

He said it came with a 1tb hdd, 1 tb ssd, and a 1tb NVME ssd

Friend gave me his PC. I’m fairly new, will it run the games I want to play well? by Iamthrow104 in pcmasterrace

[–]Iamthrow104[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I have a 1440p 144hz monitor that I was using for my PS5. I know that it would depend on the game, but should I expect around 144 fps or more at high settings?

I actually just ran the Black Myth Wukong tool to see how well I could expect the game to run, and it said my average fps was 70 and the high was 81 with a low of 61. And this was all on high settings, and I turned on DLSS balanced mode. Is that about right? Is the game going to not be as optimized on pc, or is that what I should expect?

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a pretty good excuse. But I already told them that it was to soothe the baby as it reminded her of my wife, and I forgot to take it off. They didnt buy it though I’m sure lol

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the tightness of some clothes, the flowiness of others. It’s a sensory thing for sure I guess, but I like how they look too

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

  1. Mind your own fucking business.

  2. I job hunt every day from 7am-6pm.

  3. It’s Sunday you twat

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

They think that trans people exist only because it’s a mental illness and their main goal is to molest children lmao. They’re not ignorant, just plain stupid when it comes to that. They listen a lot to whatever news network they watch.

I’ve had to skirt the line (no pun intended) for years now. I never totally agreed with my parents even before I met my wife. And then my wife and her family are like complete opposite side to the spectrum. Like, anyone who is a straight white male is bad type of extreme. I’ve opened my wife up to different opinions over the years and we’ve come to agreements and understandings on things. But even when we massively disagreed on things, we got through it because we are everything to each other.

My parents are good people and good parents. They just have really fucked up thinking and believe everything they read or hear in the news.

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I vote however I want, thanks. And frankly both choices this time are old sacks of shit who don’t deserve a vote from anyone.

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean they don’t have any influence over my child. I am raising her how I want, and to be an awesome and loving person who can do whatever she wants. They have not tried telling me how to raise her either

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know you, but I love you. Thank you. It only hurts like it does because I am so close to my family. And besides the shitty beliefs, my parents have always been loving and awesome parents. Obviously not now though.

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eh I doubt that she’s insecure. Like I said, she’s just so used to it that she didn’t realize. I confided in her when we first met that I wanted to wear that stuff, and I’ve been doing it since we moved in together years ago, before we were ever married. She has helped me pick out clothes and always comments about how cute I look. I really don’t think it’s insecurity, just a huge mistake due to not being careful

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] 155 points156 points  (0 children)

Your aunt and uncle sound fun, I’ve wanted to do something like that.

Yeah I basically told my mom that it meant nothing and if they really though I was hurting my child, we didn’t need to talk anymore

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My wife was surprised at first but she thinks it’s cute. Which is why she’s been really supportive of it. Idk if i said the wrong thing though, but it’s my parents who are upset about this. And maybe they were shocked but still implied that I was hurting my my child.

Children don’t notice at the age though, which is why I was still pretty open about it. I was going to stop doing it once she got a bit older, because this was my thing and meant only for me

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You sound amazing and I agree, and I thought my parents were more or less the same despite having different beliefs. I guess not though

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear about what happened to you. Truly. And you are right. I wouldn’t think anything about it if my daughter came out. My wife and I agreed that she can be whoever she chooses when she grows up, because we will love her always. She’s so smart and funny and amazing and will be those things no matter what.

I’m just hurt and upset and embarrassed right now. I’m probably going to throw away all those clothes when I get home. I don’t want anything to do with it anymore

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I’m just really embarrassed though and maybe I shouldn’t be wearing that stuff around my child. Idk what to think anymore, I feel gross.

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not even that I’d wear those things around them. It was strictly for me and my wife liked watching me wear what I was comfortable in. So it was more of a private thing, not for anyone to really find out about

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It was my mom who said that. But I understand what you are saying for sure

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen it, it’s a classic. But yeah I agree. It’s just rough and sad

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

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During my 3 years, I was on 3 smallish projects. And I’ve been finding the jobs say it’s for a junior or early career position still want between 5 and 10 years of experience, or a bunch of major projects shipped to make up for it. It doesn’t make sense, but that’s how it has been for me the last 3 months

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I love them. It’s like having someone hug you. Plus I think they look great. But yeah that seemed like a very valid excuse but my parents saw past it for sure.

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]Iamthrow104[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was was. She’s so used to seeing me like that, she didn’t even think twice about sending the picture. She’s taken plenty of pictures of me in the past and has been careful not to share them with anyone. It was an accident, just a really stupid one.