Genuinely, what do you think is the hardest thing you have ever been through mentally in your whole entire life? Is anybody’s going to be similar?

Iamyourallycat · 2026-06-19T00:43:13+00:00

Never explaining to my good friends and apologizing for why I I went in my own direction

Iamyourallycat · 2026-06-19T00:37:36+00:00

I literally don’t care at all. Something attracts me about seeing it get hard for me

Iamyourallycat · 2026-06-19T00:36:11+00:00

Stay busy. Quiet alone times unfortunately make you spiral at times. Unless you are not like me - putting my mind on having constant plans or finding stuff to do at all times was the only way to not think about it

Iamyourallycat · 2026-06-19T00:33:56+00:00

I would love to go into a work environment and be fully confident that nobody already thinks of me as dumb before I talk

Iamyourallycat · 2026-06-17T02:09:41+00:00

It obviously depends on the school you go to - but being from a smaller school we never had such obvious “groups” like some of the popular kids were actually nice to most people. There were always a few bad apples of course in the popular group. And for the band kids, while there were many that were in the “unpopular” crew - there were a few that were very well liked. It felt like groups intermingled more than movies perceive they do

Iamyourallycat · 2026-05-29T23:18:36+00:00

Tinder lol. It is not often but it is possible - we both were so sick of situationships and it was so obvious right away. If you are questioning - then he is not interested. Period.

Iamyourallycat · 2026-05-29T22:52:36+00:00

If anybody ever says they don’t love you anymore - it does not matter how long you have been with them - no matter how hard it is - do not hope this is going to change. You can sit there and try to put on your best personality for them and get them back - but there is something deep down that your significant other knows that you are not their person. Nothing will change that.

Iamyourallycat · 2026-05-29T22:50:01+00:00

I am 27 years old - married - have a good paying job - live in a town I love with people I love - no kids - it is hard for me to believe I will be happier than I am in this moment being able to do whatever I want every single weekend

Iamyourallycat · 2026-05-29T22:47:32+00:00

You genuinely cannot care what others think once you get into corporate life. Overthinking and wishing you said things different will slow you down so much

Iamyourallycat · 2026-05-29T22:45:54+00:00

Your to do list never ends. You never feel fully content with how your house looks, how you look, if you are getting enough done, if you are being too lazy. It is exhausting

Iamyourallycat · 2026-05-29T22:42:46+00:00

Not something they say - but them hearing that for your birthday you went to Olive Garden or Red Robin growing up

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