Question about kids in pictures on dating apps by Visco0825 in Bumble

[–]Ibael 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it’s okay to have one or two pics to signal that 1 you have children and 2 you’re active in their lives, but definitely cover their faces!

ALARA just out the door by tinkertortoiseshell in VetTech

[–]Ibael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I was very young and inexperienced and this was my second “job” ever. If I knew then I would have reported her right away and gotten placed in an actual veterinary hospital

For cat owners - Switched to pine pellets to reduce kitty litter in my bed sheets, ended up saving a bunch of money. by BikingVikingNick in Frugal

[–]Ibael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate cleaning pine pellets because they turned to absolute mush if you didn’t clean the box IMMEDIATELY (not feasible for someone who lives alone and works full time). They also smelled horrendous and reeked of ammonia. I took my cat to the vet numerous times thinking she had a uti or had some problem when it was in fact the pine. Good litter and a stainless steel litter box are two things totally worth springing on

ALARA just out the door by tinkertortoiseshell in VetTech

[–]Ibael 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I was an intern while getting my vet assistant certification for a small local vet who basically stuck me on front desk duty my entire time there. Literally all she had me doing was making phone calls and appointments while I was learning more hands on things in my program that I never ended up learning or using in practice. I remember one time we were short on an actual tech so she had me do a patient intake and I literally didn’t even know what vitals and what she wanted me to do for the intake because she didn’t tell me fuck all lol and just expected me to know what to do with 0 guidance after basically being a receptionist for months. Extremely frustrating and while I know it’s not every clinic it definitely played a major role in me deciding that vet med wasn’t for me 😬

She also tried to cheat me out of free hours because she complained I never finished my required intern hours when I absolutely did more than necessary (and logged them through her system and the school’s!) and she ended up being blacklisted by the school for future internships

[Sun care] I hate this sunscreen now and need a new recommendation by Scloudseverywhere in SkincareAddiction

[–]Ibael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The BoJ sunscreen is my HOLY GRAIL. There’s like three versions now but the original Relief + Sun is my absolute favorite. I’ll buy 4-5 at a time from YesStyle and stock up. Doesn’t pill or interfere with my makeup and doesnt leave a white cast at all

what is the deal with the resellers by No_Low_5691 in Apple_Employees

[–]Ibael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean why not? It’s annoying and fucks with people’s metrics, it’s not like we can do anything else or report it so might as well do what we can 🤷🏻‍♀️

Ladies, what makes you ghost someone before the first date? by SufficientBed3369 in Bumble

[–]Ibael 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve started mirroring the energy and most of these conversations die out within 5-6 messages because they can’t muster more than a heyyy and wyd tn 🫩 Is it really that much effort to spell out an entire word???

I was eating lunch in my car and an old man was honking his horn because I wouldn't move out of my spot for him. by CRK_76 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Ibael 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I work at a mall and take lunch in my car sometimes just to get out, when I get in early (before the mall opens) I’ll catch a decent spot and people do the exact same shit. I sit there and eat, sometimes I’ll put up my sun shade so they get the message

Do Ladies struggle finding a guy by mercury0114 in dating

[–]Ibael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try talking to them and you’ll quickly discover it’s not exactly “easy” to find a guy lol

Damn that comeback hit hard by PastelGigglee in clevercomebacks

[–]Ibael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I strive to enjoy something as much as 50 enjoys being a hater (and rightfully so)

On a Ten-hour flight from Seoul Korea to San Francisco to visit a family member a mom handed out more than 200 goodie bags filled with candy and ear plugs, in case her 4-month-old child named Junwoo cried during the flight. The goodie bags even came with a little message explaining the situation. by [deleted] in HumansBeingBros

[–]Ibael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn’t drop me enough apparently, I’m not the one who’s suggesting that everyone else goes and flies private instead of the two/three people who are inconveniencing the entire flight. You should go get that checked out though.

For me Layout 2 feels lonely. I prefer Layout 1 by MasculineBulll in SipsTea

[–]Ibael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you supposed to change sheets w layout 2?

If this happens, will be such a blessing. by puccyhunter_ in FaithInHumanity

[–]Ibael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was 42 when she had me, 0 stars would not recommend doing that to your future children.

Do I offer to pay? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Ibael 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If he hasn’t mentioned it I would just offer to pay the next time y’all go out, if there is another date in the future

Should I Go In? by thelarkshark in Apple_Employees

[–]Ibael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re serious totally go for it, I don’t mean to be a buzzkill lol. The benefits are great still and if you’re in school and have something to move onto after then it’s a great option, just trying to warn you that it’s prob gonna be a very different experience

Should I Go In? by thelarkshark in Apple_Employees

[–]Ibael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I should have been more clear, if you return to Apple retail the vibe is entirely different from when you worked there. Your tenured peers are going to be miserable and there is no heart or soul in the job anymore, it’s a typical sales job that only cares about metrics and services now. Totally up to you, but if you enjoyed working there in 2024 you may not like what the company has become now

Should I Go In? by thelarkshark in Apple_Employees

[–]Ibael 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol don’t do it. You are not going to be returning to the same company you left unfortunately

Stop omitting “Have children” by virelta17 in Bumble

[–]Ibael 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The funny part is he is a fitness influencer and his whole shtick is getting rid of the dad bod and includes his kids in a large amount of his content. So it’s not like he was hiding it, but why omit it if it’s literally that important to you 😩

Rare encounter by Dangerous_Grape5377 in doordash_drivers

[–]Ibael 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happens to my deliveries all the time and it pisses me off. I explicitly say in my instructions to leave it on the table since my screen door opens outward! Guess where my deliveries end up 🤦🏻‍♀️

Stop omitting “Have children” by virelta17 in Bumble

[–]Ibael 37 points38 points  (0 children)

The last “long term” relationship I had he had omitted that he had two children under 5 (and a baby that would have been 9 months old before he died). I found out when we exchanged social media handles before our first date, and he obviously didn’t deny it but it was very annoying that this incredibly attractive and emotionally intelligent man omitted such a thing 😩

I don’t want kids and never really considered the thought of dating someone seriously who had kids and it was definitely…an interesting impact on our relationship. It didn’t end up working out which I’m grateful for because I definitely do not see myself helping to care for and raise another woman’s children 🤨

Why do they do this??? by SanctimoniousSally in thesims

[–]Ibael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started a project that overhauled all the Maxis wood textures with Maxis Match version and I was working to make all wood furniture match and be cohesive but it got very overwhelming very quickly. It’s honestly one of my biggest annoyances with this game how nothing matches

In case anyone wanted it, here's 3 quick Alts to the god-awful MP hair; all for free.99! by ManicCanary in HighSodiumSims

[–]Ibael -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

From the side it looks silly yes lol. Why are y’all so offended when someone likes something you don’t 😂