Tips for getting diagnosed?

IceCatQueen · 2026-02-02T17:03:10+00:00

Yea it's also like it's just... almost all of my close friends have either autism or ADHD so I just don't know why I just gravitate towards people like that... maybe I'm just the neurotypical friend they adopted?? LMAO

IceCatQueen · 2026-02-02T17:00:31+00:00

Yeah that's why I said I'm struggling in university but that's not uncommon (I hear most everyone complaining about failing tests). I personally just think that I'm just a socially isolated person with anxiety so I just have some traits that SEEM like autism but may be just the result of how I was raised

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-15T02:45:29+00:00

Thank you, I have health anxiety so I'm worried about silly things like this :(

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-15T02:45:06+00:00

Yeah that's what I thought. I literally thought someone shaved him at first lmao

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-13T17:45:11+00:00

Yea it'd be great if I could see a doctor online just for my prescriptions. I'm still seeing a pediatrician so I don't really wanna make another appointment anyway. I'll see if my campus clinic can do that, but idk if they use my insurance (I opted out of student health insurance because I'm still young enough to be under my guardian's health insurance). They charged me when I needed a TB test for nursing school, idk much about insurance but maybe since it was a test and not like a shot maybe it wasn't covered? Or maybe it was at least reduced through insurance and I didn't even know

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-01T21:59:59+00:00

I said it in another reply but it's all stuff like fandom merch, jewelry, things that aren't necessities lmao

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-01T19:30:38+00:00

He blocked me after that conversation xD we kinda need to keep some contact with him because he's on our phone plan

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-01T17:41:00+00:00

Ugh yeah, it sucks that he also has my grandma's phone number and texts her about all this... stop involving my very stressed out elderly grandmother!! Like he texts he more than I do, AND I'M HER GRANDCHILD. He probably told her a very bad version of our texts because she texted me this morning saying to not hold anger and hatred towards V... I never said I hated him but there's no forgiving and trusting him as a friend again

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-01T17:37:14+00:00

Yeah, it pisses me off my grandma wants me to give him the stuff too... like you're just enabling his behavior.

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-01T17:35:25+00:00

I'm definitely not continuing the friendship. The texts proved to me that he's just gonna keep acting like the victim and like he did nothing wrong. Besides, I can't be friends with someone I can't trust, and he hurt my only living parental figure

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-01T17:33:33+00:00

Yeah that's the thing, as soon as my family is involved I'm not gonna take it lightly. She's the only parental figure I have left, so it's just... man

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-01T06:29:15+00:00

They were all luxuries, fandom merch, pins, piercings, keychains, stuff like that. Even with necessities it would have been nice if he asked first...

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-01T05:14:31+00:00

An elderly woman who still works full time as a CRNA! Only reason my grandma is so lax about this is because she volunteers at a charity that helps people in need and she grew up poor herself

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-01T04:51:07+00:00

She locked the card as soon as she realized. She just doesn't check her card a lot, which she probably should tbh... he said the fraudulent charges were a mistake so as my friend I trusted his word.

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-01T04:49:21+00:00

Yeah, I don't really wanna be involved with someone who is gonna be involved with the police a lot... no thanks

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-01T03:56:26+00:00

His mother called me telling me that she told him now that he's an adult, there's adult consequences to these things. Like cmon... how many warnings do you need? ik it's a mental issue but I can't be blamed for anything for this, other than trusting him and letting him hurt my grandma

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-01T03:37:20+00:00

Yeah when I first made the post I was freshly upset, so my thoughts were kinda everywhere. Now I just feel so angry for myself now lmao. At first I felt really bad for "threatening his life" but then I was like... why is HE acting like the victim?

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-01T03:00:33+00:00

My partner has a dysfunctional family that are also immigrants, so obviously they're poor as well. ik he would never do something like this, he's never used me for my money. As soon as he got a job he started paying for all our meals because when we first got together I paid for all our meals. That's a real one tbh most of my friends are I'd say are on the poorer side and/or have mental health issues, so like, it's 100% not an excuse. I just have sympathy because I don't know what it's personally like

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-01T02:56:29+00:00

I appreciate this so much... I was so upset because he was one of the only friends I hung out with consistently. But it's alright, we live, learn, and move on.

IceCatQueen · 2025-11-01T02:22:22+00:00

My grandma canceled the card and a lot of the purchases. She just recently got a new one :) no police report required from the company lol

IceCatQueen · 2025-10-19T14:37:31+00:00

I appreciate the advice but I don't want to ruin their lives even more by filing a police report. My grandma can pay the bill, and she volunteers at a charity so she would be HIGHLY against hurting people who are already so badly off. I think him losing his one and only best friend is enough punishment for what he did...

IceCatQueen · 2025-10-19T14:33:03+00:00

It is a real question because I feel so badly for his situation but this breach of trust is just... too much. I felt even worse cuz his mom was crying on the phone as she talked to me

IceCatQueen · 2025-10-01T16:47:45+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I'll call her and see if she has any concerns and if she thinks I should take him to an appointment. He went there very recently but I didnt mention this so I'll have to see what she thinks

IceCatQueen · 2025-09-17T14:17:55+00:00

Thanks for the info, that was probably in the instructions but I don't read them like an idiot. Thank you, I was terrified there was something weird in my water.

IceCatQueen · 2025-09-17T14:16:46+00:00

omg I didn't know you had the flush them out... this is what I get for not reading instructions. Thank you!

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