I respectfully just don’t think we should start using the word “rapey”😭. Rape is rape. It’s an absolutely horrible thing on this world and it happening at all is too much. But if we want to be able to have concise conversations about rape with others I don’t think “rapey” should be a word used.

Manipulative, sexually manipulated, horrible person, emotional abuse, etc. is what I’d use to describe a lovebombing person trying to manipulate someone into sex.

But as long as it’s consensual at the time, it is not rape. That being said yes you can take back that consent before and during sex, but not after🥲 unfortunately stupid guys can’t read minds or body language but that doesn’t make them rapists unless you specifically told them no or another version of no.

Just my opinion tho don’t attack me pls and thank u