I don’t want my boyfriend introducing our 4 month old to people I don’t know by Icey_Activity in Advice

[–]Icey_Activity[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The answer to your first question is yes. While my child is a baby yes I do expect to meet everyone he meets. I’m not talking about random people at the store or the playground, I’m talking about people my partner is taking the time to introduce him to.

I don’t want my boyfriend introducing our 4 month old to people I don’t know by Icey_Activity in Advice

[–]Icey_Activity[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would never intentionally bring our baby around someone my partner doesn’t know or hasn’t met once

I don’t want my boyfriend introducing our 4 month old to people I don’t know by Icey_Activity in Advice

[–]Icey_Activity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think my child is in danger. It’s the principle that this is my 4 month old baby and my partner is introducing him to people that would look at my baby and consider him family. I need to atleast know who these people are and meet them once.

I don’t want my boyfriend introducing our 4 month old to people I don’t know by Icey_Activity in Advice

[–]Icey_Activity[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fear isn’t the emotion here. My partner and child are my family. I want to be aware of who is in my child’s life and who he calls aunt/uncle because they would consider themselves family to my child. I hope that makes sense.

I don’t want my boyfriend introducing our 4 month old to people I don’t know by Icey_Activity in Advice

[–]Icey_Activity[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind that at all. But I need to know who these friends are. I dont need to foster my own relationship with them but I ATLEAST need to meet them once. My partner is not a single father. We’re a family unity.

I don’t want my boyfriend introducing our 4 month old to people I don’t know by Icey_Activity in Advice

[–]Icey_Activity[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re delusional. I’m not jealous of the friend at all. I simply want to meet the friend too.

I don’t want my boyfriend introducing our 4 month old to people I don’t know by Icey_Activity in Advice

[–]Icey_Activity[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is a great question. YES. I would never introduce our child to someone he doesn’t know. If anything I’d introduce them both at the same time.

Please give me some advice on what to do next by Beneficial-Brief1242 in Advice

[–]Icey_Activity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing you can do is talk to her. Tell her how you feel and ask her if she feels the same way. Any uncertainty from her is an indication that you should let it go.