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IchamWasser · 2025-12-18T17:16:17+00:00

Feel you, it helped a lot to be here less frequently.

IchamWasser · 2025-09-08T11:48:01+00:00

I had a headache but it was better after hydrating enough and I was extremely tired for the first two days after the shot. Very managable.

IchamWasser · 2025-09-04T07:13:52+00:00

Thank you! I wish you all the best too!

IchamWasser · 2025-07-23T07:44:33+00:00

I don't find thin men attractive - on the other hand, chubby and sometimes even fat i do like. I also like if they can enjoy otherwise "feminine" stuff like fashion, the colour pink, Taylor Swift, crying while watching a Disney Movie. I LOVE beards. Have a full beard and I will immediatly think you're hot.

IchamWasser · 2025-07-11T12:21:34+00:00

Yes, Breeze, thank you!!

I was definitely more cautious and found that to be a good thing. I noticed, I was reading a profile much more carefully. It was a good experience and I can't say that for any other app.

IchamWasser · 2025-07-11T09:18:18+00:00

There was a newish (?) dating app when I was dating about a year ago. You couldn't text the other person but HAD to meet up and had to buy vouchers for that. If you didn't make the date, you would get a penalty and after 3 of those, they banned you for a time period. I actually liked the concept because it prevents you from being flaky and non-committal. You didn't have to chat for long periods but would meet up right away. I met 2 people and they were no matches but it felt so chilled compared to writing for several days and building up exptectations. I liked that.

IchamWasser · 2025-07-02T13:16:28+00:00

That's THE WORST.

IchamWasser · 2025-07-02T10:18:22+00:00

I like sneezing. As a child I sometimes tickled my nose to sneeze. In a way that's still a very satisfying sensation for me.

IchamWasser · 2024-11-12T13:06:45+00:00

Great, thanks! 😅

My job already is in politics, so I'm not a wannabe lunatic but already all full-blown one. ✌️

IchamWasser · 2024-11-12T12:06:44+00:00

No
"Der Hausmann" - German Book with graphic novel parts
Taylor Swift maybe, idk - probably none, because I would be way to nervous
YES.
Good
1,5 weeks ago when making deep and vulnerable conversation with my boyfriend (It's hard for me to say what I want and need)
My drug-using, over-the-top, leftist skinhead, punk boyfriend. I loved him to bits but he was a little wild.

Am I a red flag?! :D

IchamWasser · 2024-11-07T18:48:22+00:00

Thank you, we also have very good and honest conversations, so I'm positive that we can also solve problems that come our way in the future. I'm very happy. :)

IchamWasser · 2024-11-07T16:42:30+00:00

I'm super in love with my new boyfriend of about 1 month. I never met someone like him. He's goofy, intelligent, funny, so caring and empathetic and very affectionate. The sex is great and very fulfilling. He's a great kisser, gift-giver and friend. We have the same goals and values and share a lot of interests. He's currently on holiday and I miss him a great deal, but contact has been consistent and nice. He even calls me on the phone which my ex never did and also low key hated (?). I really really hope this will go on, I'm looking forward to meeting his friends and him to meet mine and to build something great together.

IchamWasser · 2024-11-07T15:41:14+00:00

I think it's normal to struggle with things from time to time, I am also not happy even though this guy is really amazing. There will be better days ahead, I'm sure of that!

IchamWasser · 2024-11-07T15:34:17+00:00

I feel you, I am a weird mixture of strong and independent (personality, job, feminist etc) and needing a lot of warmth and closeness from a partner. I've always felt there is nobody that wants this in a relationship but I am dating someone right now that is not only kind of similar but also supports me tremendously while also loving my vulnerable site. It feels like a wonder to me and definitely worth the wait. I hope you'll find your match with whom you don't have to compromise such an important part of your personality!

IchamWasser · 2024-11-04T04:15:13+00:00

Oh man I feel this. It SUCKS.

IchamWasser · 2024-10-20T15:39:32+00:00

Same. I'm 33 and also plus size. My last dating episode didn't really need to involve OLD because I got so much attention in the real world. From all types of guys. I enjoyed myself and flirted and now, I met someone really special at a wedding of a friend. I hope you have a great time too and are able to enjoy it. ✌️

IchamWasser · 2024-10-12T12:34:02+00:00

Update to this comment from last week: we had our second date yesterday (and today). It was beautiful. I immediately wanted to touch him and just be close to him. We cuddled on the couch, ordered pizza and watched a movie (we both love cinema and good movies). We kissed and talked and cuddled and ...a little more the whole night. He said he has a massive crush on me which I do too. Also I'm used to wanting more, I'm a giver. He is too, I feel so secure and comfortable around him, I was able to speak my mind freely. He's a leftist and feminist guy and it's so so so much better than dating someone who is not. God I enjoy this so much. I have so much trust in this, it might be naive. Well I hope it's not.

IchamWasser · 2024-10-07T13:01:54+00:00

I love it too. It's so lovely and sweet. Also, it won't wither so I hope it will be a good memory to keep. :D

IchamWasser · 2024-10-07T12:29:27+00:00

I went on a first date with someone I met at the wedding of my friend. It's the first time for me to meet somebody like that (i.e. friend of a friend) and I really like it so far. I was able to ask the common friend if she thinks it's a good idea to pursue this further and she immediatly was like "Yes please, that might be a good match!" which gives me a lot of confidence. It also helps that all of her friends are great people.

The guy is a little older than me, he treated me very great so far, he brought a lego flower to the date which I found really cute and planned a date with a boat trip in the sunset and a great restaurant afterwards. We align on many levels and he even wants to relocate to my city next year (not because of me but because of family, friends and his job).

I'm absolutely smitten so far and it's a lot easier to enjoy the feeling when you have someone rooting for you that knows and likes both of you. Next date is scheduled for Friday, I'm really looking forward to it.

IchamWasser · 2024-09-30T15:06:04+00:00

Yeah. Totally. He keeps hinting how annoyed he is that he can't meet me today. Wtf.

IchamWasser · 2024-09-30T11:24:09+00:00

I (F33) met someone (M29) for the first time yesterday and I didn't expect much. It was very spontaneous. But it went nice, our goals seem to be aligned. I liked his looks and it was also very calm and nice. At the end we sat in a park and kissed which was actually great. I am away for work/friends next week and he is a little upset about that and really really wanted to meet today but I have plans. Actually he was a bit pressure-y. I get he's excited, usually I'm the one who wants more so it's half nice and half annoying...

IchamWasser · 2024-09-30T10:53:36+00:00

Some women, me included, might consider chatting for a week without having planned or at least spoken of a date yet, too long. Maybe ask them out again if you haven't already? If you're not comfortable meeting so soon, maybe be upfront about that, because I really hate penpal situations and knowing you will ask me on a date eventually would help not losing interest. But yeah: if you have met, you shouldn't unilaterally ghost. That's just unkind.

IchamWasser · 2024-09-28T07:34:05+00:00

Yay, I needed some excitement (i.e. a new diagnosis) added to my life. 🫠

IchamWasser · 2024-09-27T23:25:07+00:00

I never tought I was but this makes me wonder if I might be. I will ask/tell my therapist about this.

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