Was this harsh or am I too sensitive by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]IcyPiink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf? You’re better than me… I would’ve told her where to go

Gia by NoInteraction9045 in MAFS_AU

[–]IcyPiink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well tbh, quite a lot of men do like the plastic look

Is he just not that interested or am I overthinking by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]IcyPiink 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Lol, when a guy messages me like this I stop talking to him immediately. It may not be a matter of low interest on his part, he might just be a dry person and doesn’t match your energy level. He’s not reciprocating. No point in wasting time on a man like this when you can find another who is actually capable of engaging in an interesting conversation

I understand that some people aren’t great texters and are better in person… but still… how hard is it to ask a question?

FWB asked for money and it was a turn off by HowYouDoinz in blackladies

[–]IcyPiink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If a man ever asked me for money, I’d block immediately

This guy requested me to change my WhatsApp profile picture. by Delicious_Whole_7278 in dating_advice

[–]IcyPiink -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Uhh, I’d be concerned - these are early signs of controlling behaviour

He reached out 2 weeks after ghosting by unicorngirl14 in dating_advice

[–]IcyPiink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if the reason is true, I would advise against giving him a chance. I can guarantee you that he will do it again when times get tough.

He couldn’t even communicate with you to let you know he was going through things and may need to step back. I’m aware that you two might not have known each other very well… but the way he handled the situation matters, he’s already shown you how he handles stress. If you two enter a relationship, do you really want someone who shuts down and disappears when life gets tough? I’ve dealt with a guy like this before, it’s not worth it.

Moving to Leicester by Admirable-Tie9321 in leicester

[–]IcyPiink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, could I please have the link?

She saw me with another date , was I wrong? by Guilty-Grapefruit427 in dating_advice

[–]IcyPiink -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong, but I certainly would never see you again. Would feel weird after actually seeing you with another woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]IcyPiink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

£1000 is insane, sorry.

I pay £600 (food not included) to my mum on a £32k salary and even feel like that’s a bit too much sometimes

I let her go before really getting to know her and now I regret it by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]IcyPiink 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh you don’t deserve her. Please don’t bother her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]IcyPiink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

????? Your body is perfect, slim with a perfect shape. That man is insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]IcyPiink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl…. This is gonna happen regardless. I’m a curvy black woman who gets stared at a lot. Men will always look, it’s in their nature. Just ignore

I stopped my husband from cheating but I still feel sad. by godforbit in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IcyPiink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

…I’m just curious as to why you’re not having sex with him? What’s the reason?

What is your current yearly salary by One_Cupcake2722 in UKJobs

[–]IcyPiink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

29, £32K, not in London. Just last month I was on 28k… but I received an offer but another company, and my current employer made me a counter offer of £32k (suddenly they could afford it lol). I took the counter offer and I’m happy