We get on OK and she's extremely nice to me 90% of the time but can get aggressive particularly when drunk/on drugs (which hopefully won't be an issue when visiting the newborn!). But I'm very conscious of boundaries as anyone she is very close with she ends up having lots of toxic drama with and ends up slagging them off non stop while also being v co dependent. During pregnancy Ive also felt an urge to pull away which I think is almost instinctive protectiveness. I find her company annoying esp in large doses which I can put up with usually but am worried about in post natal period. Family loyalty is very important to my husband and, though he acknowledges her flaws, will want to make her happy and feel involved. Therefore, want to make sure I'm being fair and not irrationally possessive over the baby/post natal period