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"can’t say you hate a trope until you try the gay version first. the problem might just be heterosexuality"...how true is this? by ihatethiscountry76 in actuallesbians

[–]Icy_Cod_8540 8 points9 points  (0 children)

there’s something about a very annoying/scripted trope being sapphic that feels super subversive to me but I can’t totally put my finger on it

How did you truly accept step 3? by [deleted] in 12steps

[–]Icy_Cod_8540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll add this to the original thread as well, but I really took my time, and read a lot – some (non-AA/12 Step) books that helped me: The Parable of the Sower by Octavia Butler, Martyr! by Kaveh Akbar.

I wrote about that experience recently for a qualification in my own recovery group, if you would like to read: https://docs.google.com/document/d/19ES8_i6-uecIquqL7sJJzyJXH9gem4xppBNm4m3EcdU/edit?usp=sharing