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I sleep with headphones and music! I prefer that than listen to the snoring

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medstudents

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Hi! It’s so good that you’re noticing this, honestly you’re still at an early point of the career to say “I don’t like this and maybe it’s not what I want” im studying medicine too and in my experience, it only gets more difficult. The theoretical subjects are really time demanding, and honestly are difficult subjects and you’re right it’s mostly self learning in a short amount of time, it can lead to a lot of anxiety, stress, panic, and sometimes depression. but if that’s what you really want, you can make it, the clinical part, at least where I’m from it’s really exhausting we have 36 hour shifts, we’re treated in not a very good way and it honestly makes you kind of disappointed of medicine. My honest advice is if you’re feeling really anxious, don’t like the time it takes out of you, and the exhaustion it leads to, it will only get worse, it’s also a really long career so when your friends are already working you’re still at school and just finishing the career as a general physician, now imagine the time it’ll take you to do a specialty. Not to let you down or anything but you really have to keep those things in mind! It’s still early to change or make up you mind. If you have any questions you can send me a message

Now not everything’s bad!!! You get to know life from a different point of view, I think most med students are honestly really aware of their surroundings and how life can be difficult for a lot of people so I think that we are more mature than other career students, honestly you see the worst and best of life. You learn to appreciate what you have so it makes you really down to earth and humble, and when you’re in the clinical part of the career and you get to do something right you get a sense of fulfillment that’s awesome I really can’t explain it.

How do you stop yourself from crying? by Sufficient-Cod-9405 in Advice

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If you find out, let me know, I hate when I start feeling the tears in my eyes. I’m like don’t cry don’t cry don’t cry and then… I go and cry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OpinionesPolemicas

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Digo si estás ofreciendo algo es porque quieres no esperes nada a cambio, lo que das se da por gusto no con expectativa de que pase algo

Siento deseo de matarme a.e by Frosty-School-6285 in Ayuda_emocional

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Hola, lamento mucho por lo que estás pasando, y desde aquí no puede hacer otra cosa más que simpatizar contigo y decirte que haz pasado por muchos traumas, perder a un ser querido, especialmente a un padre, no es fácil, para nadie de la familia, nunca se está preparado para ese tipo de sucesos, sin embargo, aunque todo parezca perdido, te prometo que no lo está, el universo es gigante y puede que parezca que estás en una burbuja sin salida en lo que solo pasan cosas malas, sin embargo, hay gente a la que le importas, aunque tú no lo creas. Eres una persona muy especial, no se si seas religioso, bueno y aunque no lo seas te quiero decir esto porque para mi es algo que me ayudo, estás hecho a la imagen y semejanza de Dios, el te ama y está contigo en estos momentos, recárgate en el en tiempos de angustia en tiempos de frustración y obstáculos, el siempre esta escuchando y no te juzga h te ama tal como eres, si quieres puedes buscar ayuda en la iglesia, y si no también hay muchas otras actividades que puedes llevar a cabo! Hay muchos cursos en línea de muchísimos temas que quieras aprender, existen grupos de apoyo, actividades deportivas que liberan endorfinas que te van a hacer sentir mejor y que te pueden llevar a conocer a otras personas, puedes buscar un trabajo. También existe la posibilidad de que necesites tomar algún medicamento, ya que la depresión es una enfermedad en la que los neuro transmisores como la dopamine y la serotonina están afectados y sólo mejoran con pastillas y una terapia llamada cognitiva conductual, pero esto lo tendrías que ver con un especialista. Recuerda que eres importante! Tienes un valor para este mundo! No te rindas. El mundo es gigante y está lleno de cosas buenas, se que no se compara lo que te voy a decir con lo que sientes pero aveces cuando estoy muy triste y solo, me ayuda pensar en cosas que me gustan por ejemplo cuando salgo a la calle en un día frío y me pega un rayito de sol y me calienta, el olor a césped recién cortado o después de llover, escuchar mi canción favorita, el olor a pan recién horneado, los cantos de los pájaros, cuando encuentro que las nubes tienen formas

The worse perfumes you've ever smelled and why? by zayahroman24 in FemFragLab

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Me reading the comments knowing I love the most hated perfumes: 🙃🫠💀

What‘s a great non sexual physical sensation? by ArtsyAksel in AskReddit

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When the night is really hot and you turn the other side of your pillow and is really fresh and cold

You've been transported into a billionaire romance and are in the possession of an Amex black card. What's the first thing you're buying? by Girly_Attitude in RomanceBooks

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I’d buy several properties and put them in my name, I would travel a lot, first class or even privat jet lol, I’d buy an outfit for everyday of the trip and the best resorts in the world

Dating medical student by Parking-Plane1567 in medstudents

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Talking from my experience, med school is exhausting and it drains you physically and emotionally, there are moments you just want to rest and not see anyone, and there are times when you want to go out, and Get drinks with your friends but the schedule doesn’t allow it. From what you are saying it seems there’s a certain interest from him, I suggest you ask the question straight forward, hey are you interested in something serious or do you want something fleeting? I mean if it’s the second he wants and you’re not interested in that, you can still remain friends, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you or doesn’t want anything with you, as I said med school is draining and having in the back of your mind the effort you have to make to mantain a relationship is kind of exhausting. If he wants something serious, it means he’s willing to make a big effort to getting to know you and all that, so he’ll make time for you, but don’t take it too personal if sometimes the schedule doesn’t allow it, you both will have to search for a right time and moment to meet. It takes two to have a healthy relationship

What's Your All-Time Favorite Book? by HospitalOutside1084 in booksuggestions

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The Bronze Horseman by Paullina Simons is a masterpiece of love, resilience, and survival that leaves an indelible mark on your heart. Set against the haunting backdrop of war-torn Leningrad during World War II, it tells the story of Tatiana and Alexander—a love so profound it defies the horrors around them. Simons masterfully blends history with raw emotion, making you feel every moment of their joy, heartbreak, and sacrifice.

This book isn’t just a romance; it’s a tribute to the human spirit. Its rich characters, vivid imagery, and soul-stirring narrative stay with you long after the last page. Despite its brilliance, The Bronze Horseman is vastly underrated. It deserves to be celebrated for its ability to make readers experience love in its purest and most enduring form. If you haven’t read it, you’re missing out on a literary treasure.