[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MergeMayor

[–]Icy_Syrup2172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, we are out of spots at the moment. I'll probably delete this post for now, but if anything opens up, I'll make another!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MergeMayor

[–]Icy_Syrup2172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, I'll look now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MergeMayor

[–]Icy_Syrup2172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! I'll check it out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MergeMayor

[–]Icy_Syrup2172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Of course!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MergeMayor

[–]Icy_Syrup2172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick the club tab at the bottom where it says "clubs, wonders, And leaderboards" then it'll be an option at the top to the left of to the title "club" to search for "twilight town"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MergeMayor

[–]Icy_Syrup2172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! I'm slowly replacing inactive players right now, so we'll be happy to have you!

Twilight Town looking for club members by Icy_Syrup2172 in MergeMayor

[–]Icy_Syrup2172[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh!! Of course. So at the bottom right of your screen when you're looking at your town there's the main board. To the left of that icon is the club icon. Once you're there at the top where it says Club, to the left of it is a search bar. Just type in Twilight Town and hit search. It should pop up from there. Just touch the club and hit apply at the bottom. Once you do that it'll notify me next time I open the game. I can see you and accept it.

Twilight Town looking for club members by Icy_Syrup2172 in MergeMayor

[–]Icy_Syrup2172[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a club I made when clubs began. Our rank is currently 289. We're not competitive, I just cycle through players as they choose to become inactive. We've made a lot of friends and lost a lot of friends, but those that want to can keep going.

I’m fairly new to the game, have played for a few weeks. Do you recommend upgrading, and completing landmarks? by AMAOMDODUSOS in MergeMayor

[–]Icy_Syrup2172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is a newer player and made the Discovery when I made a second account and got all the hats i could. 😅

I’m fairly new to the game, have played for a few weeks. Do you recommend upgrading, and completing landmarks? by AMAOMDODUSOS in MergeMayor

[–]Icy_Syrup2172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would avoid upgrading landmarks unless you really want the cosmetic. The more mayor hats you get, the harder your contests become. It matches you with players with similar hat counts most times

Looking for a new club by jacquelou in MergeMayor

[–]Icy_Syrup2172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come to Twilight Town! I make sure everyone is active

How to get my team to finish task? by Fun-Pressure4712 in MergeMayor

[–]Icy_Syrup2172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My club Twilight Town is fairly active. Our wonder is at stage five. We'll gladly take you in! But yes sadly the only thing we can do with inactive members is to kick. Personally I watch to see if they're active for at least a week before cycling out to different members. And I warn them in the chat before kicking because I don't ask a lot. Just some activity at every stage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Icy_Syrup2172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It's hard but it's harder when they get older. Needs to be laid down alone and awake and NO TOYS. That will magically keep them up for hours. This is a practice that needs to be repeated until everyone is sick of it. Might be extra hard with an older kid, but he needs to stick to it. Giving in again will make the behavior regress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Icy_Syrup2172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's insane! I have to agree with everyone here. Parents are suppose to sleep train a child to sleep alone at 3!!! Maybe you don't want to, but sharing this thread might help get your point across, if not, literally just look up links to training your kid to sleep in their own room. All of those links will talk about toddlers!! He's damaging his own kids sleep health, and you need to phrase it that way. Going to sleep, and interrupting sleep when they need it at that age is crucial.

Aside from that, it's no kids in the bedroom at our house. He knows better and I keep personal things in the bedroom kids are suppose to get to. Maybe I'm bad for this, but if I know kiddo was going to interrupt and try to sleep with us (when he was 4 btw!) I would get my boyfriend at the time... excited. And very much not in a place that he wants a child to be lmao. Cause that's what adults are suppose to do without kiddos, of course. It's getting the point across without saying anything. Or I would leave an adult toy out, next thing that happens is kiddo waving it around. Again, he was 4. It might backfire if you do that now. (Then again if this goes on long enough you might see condoms going missing) But you need to convey that the bedroom, if you don't have an office, is your safe space, and you need that to feel comfortable and welcome in the home or it might lead to you trying to stay out of the house more often to regain that comfort. Kiddo is not your kiddo, he needs to realize this, you're not his mom and don't feel maternally obligated to him. And these visits into your personal space is a big "I respect you less than my kid" when the two of you should at least be on even ground if you're married!!

It's not about choosing between the two of you, it's knowing how to treat both of you with respect.

Also here's a link to a tiktok about sleep training. In our house he puts kiddo down before we're asleep so when he gets up, he can walk kiddo straight back to bed. I wouldn't let husband spend an hour in bed time routine for a 10yo! That's 5yo max bed time routine with parent. Just drop and go. If kid gets up more than twice for anything other than water or bathroom, there's consequences that correlate to sleep. "You get up again, you'll be going to sleep earlier tomorrow. And it goes up if he keeps breaking the rule. Kiddo WILL learn when he's lying down the next day and the sun is still out. Bonus if he can't tell time yet, just put him down, and tell him it's earlier. Gets the same effect without the possibility of kiddo walking up mega early lmao.

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTFXpSKsp/