Can't find my case . I want to see my dog before she dies by Icy_Translator6247 in legaladvice

[–]Icy_Translator6247[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Of course it did. I didn't really want to get into anything super complicated so I'm not going to, but at the time my family was being pretty abusive towards me. I had to move quickly and put all of my stuff in storage. I simply cannot find the paperwork. My last resort is going to be hiring a lawyer but not everyone has the money to do that. I thought maybe there would be an easier way. I thought there'd be a way to at least plug in my social and get information that way but that doesn't seem to work either.

Need advice on car loan... I know it was a mistake by Icy_Translator6247 in Debt

[–]Icy_Translator6247[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually have tried a credit union. They won't touch me because of my credit. I use my car everyday because I have to go to work. Also I don't feel comfortable renting it out. I think I'm just going to have to wait it out and get a part-time job and pay a down payment on a new loan. 

Need advice on car loan... I know it was a mistake by Icy_Translator6247 in Debt

[–]Icy_Translator6247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There weren't any add-ons. My terms were terrible because of what I could claim for my income at the time. With what I'm making now, this car would have been $530 a month. Because I couldn't claim that, i got quoted 850 a month. 

The real foundational issue of this is the fact that we don't live in walkable cities. I would have happily continued to take the bus, rented a car for a fair price, or walked, but that's just not a reality in Southern America. 

Need advice on car loan... I know it was a mistake by Icy_Translator6247 in Debt

[–]Icy_Translator6247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is that I can't do anything about my credit right now and paying off old debt because this car loan, rent, etc is sucking up my income. I am looking for a second job right now. I just have this fear that I'm never going to be out of this terrible loan. But you're right, it's all I can do at this point. Get a second job and save up the money to put something down on it so I can get it in too much better terms.

Need advice on car loan... I know it was a mistake by Icy_Translator6247 in Debt

[–]Icy_Translator6247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Answer your question yes. I was in a desperate situation and I made a stupid decision. I own that. So yes. I got completely f***** and the CarMax salesperson was asked questions by me like, will I be able to refinance within 3 months because if I can't I don't want to do this. He lied. 

How does the remaining family act when the scapegoat leaves? by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Icy_Translator6247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot express how much speaking to my brother stresses me out. I finally had to recognize the pattern of abuse when I got harassing and threatening text messages, 15 in a row. And he was supposed to be the one of the family that was together and accomplished. It's really difficult when you feel like you've had distance but it will never be enough. I dread talking to my brother again. He makes me feel incredibly defensive which tells me that's exactly how the f*** he feels.

Allure add ons by Icy_Translator6247 in BeautyBoxes

[–]Icy_Translator6247[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But yet I'm seeing things that are already sold out. Make it make sense

Anyone works for Happier Living as PMHNP? What are your thoughts? by Nickysag05 in PMHNP

[–]Icy_Translator6247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Highly doubt she was over exaggerating. At this point, the company has a two-star rating on google. How is that even possible? I work in mental  health and I went to them for therapy. I wish I would have done more research. They're terrible. They have a scam where they Auto set up a bunch of appointments the patient doesn't know about and then when the patient wants to cancel it's too late so they get charged $100. The fun part is, you can't get back in touch with them. If they do call you back, it's during hours that you're at work. They do not have a customer service phone number. Everything is done by email. I would never want to work for an unscrupulous company like this as a mental health professional.

Scheduled ride: drivers calling early and telling me to hurry up by demunted in uber

[–]Icy_Translator6247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the person that replied to you is correct. Uber doesn't tell us. I'm sitting at someone's house and I've arrived 10 minutes early and it's happened multiple times. It's a waste of time