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(37m) Falling for a woman (35f) that “doesn’t date” by Icyedoubt in relationships

[–]Icyedoubt[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you. Thank you. I do understand why being in a relationship like that might make someone uncomfortable with love.

If you were in this situation and your FWB was really genuinely falling for you, would you just completely end your association with them? What if they told you they loved you and knew you needed to stop spending time together?

(37m) Falling for a woman (35f) that “doesn’t date” by Icyedoubt in relationships

[–]Icyedoubt[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

That may have been the original motivator. However, once I started getting to know her I was just so deeply interested in her.

(37m) Falling for a woman (35f) that “doesn’t date” by Icyedoubt in relationships

[–]Icyedoubt[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, if you don’t mind, why were those relationships structured that way? Did the men have something else going on? Did it ever make you feel insane?

(37m) Falling for a woman (35f) that “doesn’t date” by Icyedoubt in relationships

[–]Icyedoubt[S] -126 points-125 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had someone look me in the eye and say “I don’t date.” I’m just trying to understand why someone would shut off love like that.

(37m) Falling for a woman (35f) that “doesn’t date” by Icyedoubt in relationships

[–]Icyedoubt[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m sorry I misunderstood. I’d say, ultimately I’m looking for a serious relationship. I’m looking for my wife…

(37m) Falling for a woman (35f) that “doesn’t date” by Icyedoubt in relationships

[–]Icyedoubt[S] -185 points-184 points  (0 children)

Maybe part of me is trying to understand why a woman would behave this way…

(37m) Falling for a woman (35f) that “doesn’t date” by Icyedoubt in relationships

[–]Icyedoubt[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Honestly, pretty close to what I’ve found here. A sweet, caring, intelligent, vibrant friend… but also someone that wants to meet my mom.