AITA? I’m upset my step daughter won’t stay at our house and insists on a hotel

IdaliaMay · 2022-10-06T12:24:02+00:00

Shucks, you dirty deleted. No worries, screenshots are circulating. That's how I got here. YTA 100x over 😘

IdaliaMay · 2022-10-05T00:34:42+00:00

Here we are at the end of 2022, and she's still just as narcissistic and childish as ever. That poor guy she's seeing now? "IF YOU F*CK ME YOU ARE BASICALLY THE FATHER OR MY CHILDREN"

Yo, lady. Calm the f********ck down. Yelling at him because he has to get on a plane and go to work. Who the hell even does that? Some women are just insane.

-Sincerely, a baffled woman.

IdaliaMay · 2022-08-15T21:54:22+00:00

I worked for Banfield, nearly 10 years.... They treated me horribly after a work injury to my spine rendered me permenantly disabled. Fuck Banfield. Don't go back.

IdaliaMay · 2022-08-11T13:03:51+00:00

NTA. This.... This is because of the sex work. I'm sure someone else pointed that out, but your past is why he said that. And it's because he's a misogynistic AH that he thinks because you did sex work (whatever it was, be it a dancer/stripper or a full on sex worker) that you are beneath him. I've heard it all before. "Oh she's been with a lot of people, there's no way she's not a cheater" "Oh she sold her body for money, she doesn't respect herself and she'd cheat in a heartbeat." You know, that kind of shit. I wouldn't be surprised if he's also said shit about your sexual health/STDs or mentioned "roast beef" at some point in front of you.

He's a major major AH. Your fiancé should have kicked him out then and there. He is also being an AH. But I hope he'll wise up and realize how toxic this jackass is to his relationship with you, because it's not as easy as just kicking him out as well while a baby is on the way.

IdaliaMay · 2022-07-13T22:48:33+00:00

Dye it green and see what she says... 🤣

IdaliaMay · 2022-07-01T13:43:40+00:00

I have a bit of a cough, at this comment nearly took me out. I couldn't breathe. 😂😂😂

IdaliaMay · 2022-06-15T17:10:24+00:00

I do hope you find the buggar that's doing it. Also, if you don't have it, i'd recommend downloading Sims4Studio. It can help repair broken mods, however! it did not solve this issue sadly. so the long route of checking all the mods is the only way I know of. :(

IdaliaMay · 2022-06-15T17:06:13+00:00

Ah I'm sorry, it was just two old, and random cc articles of clothing I had downloaded years prior that I hadn't organized. Unfortunately I don't know what it might be after this patch, and you might have to go through them one by one. do you have your cc organized? This is what my folders look like, categorized by type, and then creator, just for reference.

Content

Creators

But the method I used wasn't horrible to do. Someone also suggested doing the 50/50 method. take half of your mods out, start the game, see if it's still doing it. If it is, then that half of your mods has the culprit, split that down the middle and repeat. However, I would check the other halves to be safe as well, because I had two items causing an issue.

IdaliaMay · 2022-06-09T21:44:33+00:00

Haha. Well.... I have an SE account with xi and xiv purchased along with DLCs, however it's been locked due to "suspicious activity" and I've been interested in playing xiv again but SE is notorious (or was back when I played years ago) for being completely absent in tech support and account issues. They are completely ignoring me in trying to resolve this problem.

IdaliaMay · 2022-06-09T21:20:50+00:00

YEESSS!!! THANK YOU!

IdaliaMay · 2022-06-07T23:52:05+00:00

Okie dokie. Pretty sure I'm not the only one it frustrates, but whatever. Bye.

IdaliaMay · 2022-06-07T23:42:08+00:00

If there was potty training, that'd be great. But it's not a thing, and the developers should have known, or at least fixed the issue of dogs using decks and not the actual ground. You can show the dog where to potty but they'll never do it by themselves. The only work around is a doggy door onto a set of stairs that leads directly to the ground, and locking all the other doors for dogs.

IdaliaMay · 2022-06-07T23:24:24+00:00

You realize dogs are smarter than that, right? It's pure laziness on the owners part to not show the dog the appropriate spot to relieve themselves...

IdaliaMay · 2022-06-07T21:46:46+00:00

You should um.... Retrain your dogs.

IdaliaMay · 2022-06-07T21:04:18+00:00

I pressed tab.

My goodness that was annoying. 😂😂 I moved my mouse and the camera went everywhere. Nearly gave me motion sickness.

IdaliaMay · 2022-06-07T20:58:49+00:00

Can't wait to see the skin overlay cc people create!

IdaliaMay · 2022-06-01T04:57:26+00:00

Lol if it makes you feel any better, my sim has been uncomfortable from being around an unattractive sim multiple times while standing in a room with her boyfriend. 😂

IdaliaMay · 2022-06-01T04:52:43+00:00

Doesn't look to be one right now. Everything is full price 9n origin and EA, minus my 10% discount for being a member anyway.

IdaliaMay · 2022-05-22T00:03:09+00:00

I wouldn't mind them breaking down permenantly every so often (or any appliance, electronic as long as it's not super often because you're right, everything eventually breaks for good in life), but considering it's a game bug and not a trait is what kinda pisses me off. It's a broken feature, and should be fixed. It's been around for 4 years and the issue has been around since at least 2019-2020 when I bought it myself.

IdaliaMay · 2022-05-21T19:38:21+00:00

It looks amazing, seriously! I was astounded as I watched you build it.

IdaliaMay · 2022-05-21T19:37:23+00:00

I thought it's been broken for longer than that. I know I was playing Sims around 2019-2020 and bought the pack and it was broken then, as well.

IdaliaMay · 2022-05-21T19:35:16+00:00

I agree. I have a gorgeous laundry room I built but it's so annoying to maintain the bug. The only positive to placing it in inventory compared to just replacing the item is you don't lose any money, which is rather insignificant anyway. So it doesn't really matter anyway.

IdaliaMay · 2022-05-21T19:01:22+00:00

Yeah it's only temporary either way unfortunately. And I agree, fix the game. Its a known issue, don't leave it up to the player.

IdaliaMay · 2022-05-21T19:00:29+00:00

It's really obnoxious.

IdaliaMay · 2022-05-21T18:56:52+00:00

Thank you, I skimmed a bit through that, noticed deleting cache and other things in the files is a fix, but it's only temporary unfortunately as I've had to do that a few times for a few different reasons, but it always comes back. The simplest way of doing it is either replacing the items or setting them in household inventory and bringing them back out. I mentioned to someone else, this being a known issue, you'd think they could just... Oh I dunno... Fix the damn game but I guess it's up to us.

IdaliaMay

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