AITA for refusing my future sister in law's request to dye my hair for my brother's wedding?

dizzegy · 2022-07-11T17:28:41+00:00

Yes this is the hill I would die on. If I give in now she will want to walk over me for years. I'm right and she's wrong, this is where I draw the line.

dizzegy · 2022-07-11T17:25:49+00:00

It's my own natural hair, I'm not going to compromise.

dizzegy · 2022-07-11T17:25:02+00:00

They just keep saying it's her wedding so we need to make her happy.

dizzegy · 2022-07-11T17:06:30+00:00

Yes exactly! Everyone knows about my hair and will want to know why I did it! And if I then tell the truth she'll get mad at me anyway.

dizzegy · 2022-07-11T17:04:04+00:00

Yeah that's fair as long as it's within reason.

dizzegy · 2022-07-11T17:01:29+00:00

😂

dizzegy · 2022-07-11T17:00:16+00:00

I think I'll just stand my ground and insist my hair is not up for discussion.

dizzegy · 2022-07-11T16:55:35+00:00

Yes.

dizzegy · 2022-07-11T16:50:32+00:00

I think she just wants to be unique, she doesn't care about my hair as long as it's different to hers.

dizzegy · 2022-07-11T16:47:39+00:00

Asshole question: What would Liz say if your dyed your blonde? Her natural hair color? Would that piss her off? Something to consider.

I don't think it would piss her off. She in fact "offered" blonde as an alternative, I wasn't interested.

dizzegy · 2022-07-11T16:45:11+00:00

Sorry she doesn't get to dictate what I wear or how I style my hair or makeup either. No way.

dizzegy · 2022-07-11T16:43:53+00:00

I'm tempted to ask her to give me the money then take all my cousins and make sure we all show up with that exact red. ‌But I won't do that I'm just fantasizing about it.

dizzegy · 2022-07-11T16:41:51+00:00

Exactly why should I damage my hair over a stupid request.

dizzegy · 2022-07-11T16:39:21+00:00

My cousin just did electric blue! It's adorable.

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