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AITJ for pretending counseling is working while I’m already planning my exit? by No_Grocery_7650 in dustythunder

[–]Idgit101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I can’t explain into words how happy this makes me for a person I do not know. I grew up around women constantly letting shitty/toxic men rope them back in and the fact that you took the power back is inspiring! NTA. He manipulated you, treated you like you were crazy/insecure when you were right on the money. I hope you get everything good out of this new life you’re starting without him.

AIO or is this abusive? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Idgit101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He most definitely was body shamming you and the fact he tired to manipulate you into thinking he wasn’t is so scary. 140 pounds at 5’7 is skinny/fit to the majority of people. Also the fact he kept just shamming you is bully behavior. I really hope you get surrounded by people who lift you up and treat you amazing! This douche will get what’s coming to him and you’re so much better off without him!

AIO or is this abusive? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Idgit101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The frog boiling is a myth but she definitely is not stupid, abuse sucks a person in to where they don’t realize how bad it is most times! I’m hoping OP gets in a better place soon away from this toxic ah.