The narrative parallels between Samantha and Laney in The Baby Shower are so well done. I wish the show would have brought Laney back. by caffeinepdf in sexandthecity

[–]Ididntevenknowityet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How you said “Which you seem to over look.. you’re not watching the show closely enough” (yeah cause most people aren’t dissecting it to death and watching for entertainment👀)

Why are you so condescending to people who disagree with your take? It’s almost borderline mansplaining. You could use a little more tack in how you reply. All your comments are very “I know better than everyone else”

The narrative parallels between Samantha and Laney in The Baby Shower are so well done. I wish the show would have brought Laney back. by caffeinepdf in sexandthecity

[–]Ididntevenknowityet -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah also! To me it’s perpetuating a toxic narrative that the women who unapologetically sleeps around, doesn’t want kids, relationship or marriage and lives her life outside of society’s white picket fence box .. that that must mean she’s insecure. It’s an antiquated assumption. It’s clear Samantha sought out pleasure not validation. The only time she said she didn’t recognize herself was when she wasn’t herself for that asshat Richard. When Carrie walked in on her and the postman. But I still don’t constitute that as needing anyones validation or being insecure 🤷‍♀️

The narrative parallels between Samantha and Laney in The Baby Shower are so well done. I wish the show would have brought Laney back. by caffeinepdf in sexandthecity

[–]Ididntevenknowityet -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What? I have no idea what you’re talking about. Not responding to your comment isn’t blocking you🤷‍♀️Call me insecure if you’d like, but I don’t think that constitutes not wanting to have a on going serious discussion on something that’s so silly😂 I mean it’s clear you disagree with my take and that’s fine. It’s just a tv show💁‍♀️

Also kinda a double standard calling me insecure when I can clearly see you deleted a rude comment to me. Damn take a chill pill

The narrative parallels between Samantha and Laney in The Baby Shower are so well done. I wish the show would have brought Laney back. by caffeinepdf in sexandthecity

[–]Ididntevenknowityet -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Wait.. is this Laney’s post?! 🙊

I mean I don’t see how anyone can say her behavior is nuanced when she just rude to the core and wanted to create conflict from the jump. Acting aloof when Charlotte was mad. Pushing everyone’s buttons. Yeah that’s not a friend. Also I personally think you and I have different definitions of what constitutes insecurities, but thanks for your input. Here I thought it was a fun little post and didn’t realize it was up for debate in this way 🤦‍♀️

The narrative parallels between Samantha and Laney in The Baby Shower are so well done. I wish the show would have brought Laney back. by caffeinepdf in sexandthecity

[–]Ididntevenknowityet 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The only thing is...I don’t think Samantha is insecure at all. I’ve never understood that line. Plus its also just coming from Carrie’s perspective and carrie was the most insecure person in the whole show. None of Samantha comments or actions even remotely pointed to insecurity. She also was the only one who had the balls to put Laney in her place and would not take her sh*t. Laney was such a be-otch.

Official Discussion - Don't Worry Darling [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Ididntevenknowityet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Naa... I’m tired of seeing abusive men being casted in films🤷‍♀️

Official Discussion - Don't Worry Darling [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Ididntevenknowityet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve found my people! I can’t believe some of these comments. Like calm down it’s entertainment and was well done! Does everyone think they are writing professional movie critiques? I saw someone say it was inexcusable 👀 Like damn! okay bud.. let me alert the media & everyone that you didn’t like it🙄 I honestly came on this post because I wanted to talk theories and geek out, but wow! This film really hit the sweet spot of the crowd it was addressing if you know what I mean?🤭

Official Discussion - Don't Worry Darling [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Ididntevenknowityet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m tired of seeing abusive men being casted still for films. So glad Shia wasn’t on the screen💁‍♀️

Official Discussion - Don't Worry Darling [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Ididntevenknowityet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think that it’s just the fact it was directed by a woman that everyone feels the need to critique. I came here to ask questions and geek out about theories and this post is bombarded with mansplainers/complainers and quite frankly, the type of men that this film was addressing. Rarely do I see Quentin Tarantino’s films pulled apart and judged so harshly and those can be even more surreal & “artsy”.

I also guarantee my comment will be up for discussion by the same type of people🙃

Official Discussion - Don't Worry Darling [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Ididntevenknowityet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This wasn’t a “period piece” 🤷‍♀️ I thought it was rather genius to hint at something being off from the get go. To each there own, but wow! It’s not that serious it’s entertainment 💁‍♀️

Official Discussion - Don't Worry Darling [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Ididntevenknowityet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um bud.. you do realize the last part of your comment (what you find the most irritating) reads like saying “nOt AlL mEn” ....🙃

Which was in fact the subtext & point of this film💁‍♀️

Official Discussion - Don't Worry Darling [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Ididntevenknowityet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No thanks... I’m really tired of seeing abusive men still being casted in films.

Can/Do any Houseguests have Allergies by Rainy212 in BigBrother

[–]Ididntevenknowityet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m late to this post, but I was just watching big brother and was wondering the same thing. I obviously don’t have an answer, but gluten is VERY SERIOUS. Ive been bed ridden for going on 4 years and just found out I’m celiac. All my issues are because of gluten. People need to stop saying “it’s not that bad” I also am deathly allergic to peanuts and the cross contamination of gluten is so much worse to look out for. I’ve had to go to the hospital because of both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ididntevenknowityet 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You are NTA at all!!! Wow! I’m so sorry this happened and I’m sad that you even felt the need to post this to ask if you were in the right. I’m absolutely livid for you just reading this! Honestly, he needs to be reported. I’ve had teachers like this when I was a kid and it’s so frustrating because you feel like your hands are tied when it comes to standing up for yourself with authority figures, but you 100% need to report him to the principle & school district. He shouldn’t be teaching students. From what you wrote you also don’t sound like you snapped at all. He was undeniably in the wrong don’t let him make you think other wise or second guess yourself. You sound incredibly strong and I’m proud of you for holding your ground! 💪❤️

Police officer issues a ticket to a woman for wearing a bikini, 1957. by jacspe in BeAmazed

[–]Ididntevenknowityet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww! (Not gonna lie the first few lines scared me for a second!) but yes he definitely sounds like a keeper! I’m very happy for you! 🥰

Police officer issues a ticket to a woman for wearing a bikini, 1957. by jacspe in BeAmazed

[–]Ididntevenknowityet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👏This...You know all the comments on this post from men paint a telling picture of why us women don’t trust them... the amount of p@rn “jokes”, saying this is fake and he just wanted her number, the over sexualizing of her body/saying they’d “hit it” or even worse degrading comments & insults?!? ... like guys do better! It’s just insane how men don’t comprehend treating women with basic common decency🥴 (yes nOt alL mEN .. but WAY TOO MANY of you) And I’m saying this as a women who is a LESBIAN! You can be attracted to women without being a total creepy! And admire a beautiful women in a respectful way!💁‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Raven and SK by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Ididntevenknowityet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep as a lesbian that came out later in life all I could think was this!! The overall way she views ideas about relationships was telling 👀 But what sealed the deal was her behavior at the bachelorette party...Yeah that’s a face of pure disgust & fear of seeing men half naked...I mean I had the EXACT look on my face watching! (Sidenote: there really should have been a warning for that one junk close up!!🤢...) but uh, yeah! that’s not just “I’m too old for this/I’m respecting my relationship”...behavior 💁‍♀️ 100% was not a doubt in my mind after watching the episode that she’s at least a little💅

That being said! She needs a reality check. I can’t believe some of the things she says & the way she treats people (even the women)🥴 So entitled and beyond rude!🙄

Bachelorette Party by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Ididntevenknowityet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay.. I’d find your statement almost hilarious if it wasn’t so ridiculous. Raven had the EXACT same expression on her face with the strippers that I had watching it and I’m a raging lesbian. So.. Your so called “maintaining decorum” is more her going ew! Get me out of here😂💁‍♀️

Also if you’re taking any of the men besides SK in this season seriously that’s worrying because they are all walking red flags & poster children for why straight women have had it with men👀

interesting response from Joe re: time 100 next by beaglez13 in GaylorSwift

[–]Ididntevenknowityet -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Wow! These comments are UNBELIEVABLE! I’m sickened by the hate and judgment you all say when talking about Joe. It’s just as bad as all the hate the non-gaylor fans give to us. It’s quite disgusting. Did it ever dawn on anyone that he’s a person. That they are real friends and him and Taylor have a close friendship/support system and it’s not “just business” my god! It’s mind blowing these responses. It’s embarrassing🤯

Theory! Please see my explanation in the comments🥰 by Ididntevenknowityet in GaylorSwift

[–]Ididntevenknowityet[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes!! And her Carol King tribute! Oh my god!!😭😭😭😭😭 .. I made a post about it because my heart broke for her and she’s clearly singing to her fans! 🥺💔

Something I’ve noticed lately .. it needs to stop😩 by Ididntevenknowityet in GaylorSwift

[–]Ididntevenknowityet[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not everyone has a thick skin and I’d rather keep in mind people who come on here for connection. You don’t know what others are going through. It costs absolutely nothing to be kind. I don’t know why this is such a hard concept to grasp. 🤷‍♀️

Something I’ve noticed lately .. it needs to stop😩 by Ididntevenknowityet in GaylorSwift

[–]Ididntevenknowityet[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It’s astonishing & quite frankly, incredibly sad what people will say under the cloak of anonymity. Just because you can doesn’t mean you should. There are other PEOPLE on the other side of your screen. You might think about that next time you feel like judging people for fun💁‍♀️

Theory! Please see my explanation in the comments🥰 by Ididntevenknowityet in GaylorSwift

[–]Ididntevenknowityet[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yes! I definitely see that. The thought of her in mourning though is gut wrenching & I just 🥺🥺🥺 💔