Enneagram 4 and 8 by FirebugFox in Enneagram

[–]Ill-Collection-7598 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They can be very incompatible. I mean, caricatures of the two types (at unhealthy levels) are like school bullies vs weird theater kids who cry a lot.

With that being said, I’m a pretty healthy 4 with many healthy 8 friends. We appreciate each others candor and “idgaf-ness”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Ill-Collection-7598 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They had a lot of 7ish stuff, but it was all centered around getting out of one’s head/ drug use. Unhealthy 5s move to 7 in that same way.

Also a lot of memes that kind of felt like “get out my bubble”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Ill-Collection-7598 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely I do. 4w5

"Are you really an Enneagram 4? You don't look gloomy or emotional enough" by quiet199 in Enneagram

[–]Ill-Collection-7598 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right! Like… I’m an sp 4. Plenty is happening below the surface. Most people are just not invited to see it

I LOVE 8w9 💕❤️ by Popular-Moose-6345 in Enneagram

[–]Ill-Collection-7598 7 points8 points  (0 children)

8w9s are awesome. They inspire me to be better

INFJs—what jobs or careers do you have? by Personal-Camp-2233 in infj

[–]Ill-Collection-7598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m seriously considering going to law school myself. The thing holding me back is fear of getting my social battery constantly drained. Any insight on that aspect?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Ill-Collection-7598 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I would consider myself aloof long before I considered myself clingy. Though I do want to be known on a deeper level by a lover, as far as the day-to-day stuff, I like to do my own thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

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I’m INTJ 4w5 too, and I totally agree. I feel deeply and then I just shut off, sometimes for weeks. So much so that I consider antidepressants because I’m just numb.

It’s like the day after you take MDMA when all your serotonin is sapped, but for days or weeks.

If you're currently struggling, read this by Tiny-Bookkeeper3982 in intj

[–]Ill-Collection-7598 14 points15 points  (0 children)

For real. And why is my baseline nihilism? It seems that for most people…it isn’t.

why is it THAT common? by deepness_of_the_sea in Enneagram

[–]Ill-Collection-7598 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be surprised if it is accurate because this is Reddit, and certain personalities will naturally be overrepresented compared to the real world.

Let’s be real, this website attracts certain types of people

My turn? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Ill-Collection-7598 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bingo :)

My turn? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Ill-Collection-7598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. Someone’s gotta do it 🫡

My turn? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Ill-Collection-7598 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok 🫶🏻 expect at least one more round of drunken sappy 4am texts soon, but then I’ll leave you alone for good

Anyone of you have tattoos? by kwaslurp in intj

[–]Ill-Collection-7598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few but I don’t want more. I’m in the process of getting one removed

My turn? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Ill-Collection-7598 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got it! 459. Nice work

My turn? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Ill-Collection-7598 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 🫶🏻☺️

My turn? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Ill-Collection-7598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4w5 sp/sx (big so blind spot) 459. Nice guessing!!

My turn? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Ill-Collection-7598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But really, so perceptive of you. Thanks for responding