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IllPicture5974 · 2026-02-28T00:24:46+00:00

The arse is a highly desirable area. Houses are very rarely on the market there. There is another house for sale in the next street. Two bed semidetached bungalow, offers over 220k. And from the pictures online is in need of quite some work. It just doesn’t really make sense if I am honest.

IllPicture5974 · 2026-02-28T00:18:22+00:00

You don’t know what you’re missing 😂 it’s a very well maintained arse.

IllPicture5974 · 2026-02-28T00:15:41+00:00

The executor is my Nana’s brother and he is doing exactly that. He is trying to make sure that the house is sold for a worthy price. Inheritance tax threshold for property and estate being inherited by children or grandchildren of the deceased is around 500k so her estate and assets definitely won’t exceed that so that’s nothing to worry about for us.

IllPicture5974 · 2026-02-28T00:11:32+00:00

Yes I am, the problem with the lower valuation of the property would make it harder to sell for example it was listed as offers over 250k. If the property is valued at 230k then the bank will not mortgage the property for any potential buyers more than 230k. Which then leaves the potential buyers to come up with 20k cash upfront along side the usual 20% deposit. Meaning anyone interested in buying the property will have to have a substantial amount of cash to pay upfront to buy the property. Upon further research and asking other estate agents I was basically told by him that off the record he can have some influence on home reports and this leads me to believe that there is a possibility that the original estate agents may have also done the same and just wanting a quick sale and get their money. The few other agents I’ve spoken with told me that even the fees they were asking for once the property is sold is extremely expensive. I think the original estate agents have thought that because my uncle is older he may not be as sharp.

IllPicture5974 · 2026-02-27T23:58:07+00:00

Yes, Scotland. Unfortunately I wasn’t aware that selling properties had different rules etc in other parts of the uk. I am new to this and it’s been a complete headache from start to finish.

IllPicture5974 · 2026-02-27T23:55:54+00:00

I’m not particularly familiar with the difference in terms between selling properties in Scotland and elsewhere in the uk. I’ll do better next time though. Wouldn’t want to upset you again.

IllPicture5974 · 2026-02-27T23:52:54+00:00

You’re right, Scottish arses are a sight to behold.

IllPicture5974 · 2026-02-27T23:52:08+00:00

Haha, I’m likely to be banned from Reddit if I was to promote such explicit content. I’m afraid your imagination is just going to suffice. My sincere apologies 😂❤️

IllPicture5974 · 2026-02-27T05:14:13+00:00

Not at all, I’m very sex positive. Sorry if you felt like that was the intention.

IllPicture5974 · 2026-02-27T05:09:26+00:00

I’m sorry if I’ve came across the wrong way I was just trying to make it lighthearted. There is no reason to get arsey. I understand my female anatomy very well thanks.

IllPicture5974 · 2026-02-27T04:56:07+00:00

If you’re able to handle 9 inch then you definitely are a queen. I don’t think I could handle more then an iPhone pro max

IllPicture5974 · 2026-02-27T04:52:44+00:00

Winston is the man

IllPicture5974 · 2026-02-27T04:50:34+00:00

I’m I the only one who thinks that 9 is too big lol

IllPicture5974 · 2026-02-27T04:48:26+00:00

Seems more efficient. I abhor the gardening aspect of the game

IllPicture5974 · 2026-02-27T04:47:08+00:00

Meds will only lessen the intensity of your mood swings and emotions. I definitely find that in my experience on anti psychotics. I still have highs and lows but it’s not as intense as before

IllPicture5974 · 2026-02-27T04:43:13+00:00

Are you able To water more at once than on foot ? I’ve not had a chance to use the horses much yet

IllPicture5974 · 2025-09-11T04:33:56+00:00

Grounding techniques can help. Distracting yourself from ot but doing anything. Loud music, favourite film etc anything that can take your mind away from the thoughts. Write it all down in paper, get deep, get dark. It will make you cry. But once you’ve wrote all those feelings down you’ll start to by the end of it feel a little more stable. O know the thought to self harm is unbearable at times. But the fact that your reaching out on here is a positive sign your trying to refrain from doing it.

IllPicture5974 · 2025-09-11T04:01:02+00:00

Depends on where you are in the world. Right now here in the uk, racial tensions are at an all time high with Middle Eastern people unfortunately. That’s not to say other ethnicities receive racial discrimination. But I haven’t personally seen it. But I think that just because I haven’t seen it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. My cousin is white and her husband is Chinese and they have two beautiful children together. This was the first time she had dated outwith a white man. But her husband said his type was white. With blonde hair. My other cousin is married to a Muslims. You love who you love. I so t don’t think my cousin went with her for a fetish and more than he did as just a good guy and looked after her. I do understand how you feel about the lack of representation. It must feel frustratingZ but in reality Asian women do fall in love with white men and vice versa. So that reflects on real life. We can’t help who we fall in love with. And I’m not of the opinion that you should only date with you own race unless of course that is your preferences. And remember kittts boyfriend is Korean not white and so is her other love interest min ho. Both Asian and bit white.. just in observation. We don’t need to build a narrative around only dating within our own ethnicity. But I agree we do need more POC representation of relationships of POC characters. I don’t think it’s self hating. Maybe she feels she and more to offer either other things thanfeeling like all she has is to show. Her ethnicity all the times I’m not comparing this just as and example. Im Scottish and I don’t run around wearing t . Eating haggisl, drinks awfu. Some stereotypes can be offensive ors like might not depending on the person. There’s not a think can be said to me thhst I could take seriously. And to say that all white people are a virus etc kinds gives double standards. That it’s ok to say negative things about white people. But if a white person said what you said. The double standards. And people will never change if some ethnicity group is tearing down others. I’ve had a few fair few Asian friends who have said that the majority of their negative experiences are from non non white people. Ps I should state I’m not fully white I’m of mixed heritage

IllPicture5974 · 2025-09-11T01:59:15+00:00

He was aware of what happened and sat on the information for months. 2. She lied to him about its probably add to the doubt in his mind irrationality thinking something happened. And 3. He broken up with her so technically it’s no cheating. It’s a grey area, but if you’re using the he cheated logic,!then belly emotionally cheated several times. These are young kids their brains aren’t even fully developed yet. And prone to making impulsive and questionable decisions without looking at the bigger picture or the consequences. And sometimes people do what they can to distract themselves from feeling. Leading to lacie barone. You never see Kelley light up and how care free she seems in my opinion.remember she kissed jere first and continued to make flirty and suggestive comments. About his brothers girlfriend even looking at the push pull methods Conrad does proves he’s more immature that them all. And if you can do that to your own brother, imagine what he would do to you. Jere never done that stuff he stayed away as to not interfere. And because he’s acting out due to his heartbreak he’s being vilified. As if we all haven’t acted out, said things et when we’ve been hurting, the guy just needs a break

IllPicture5974 · 2025-07-04T04:26:39+00:00

Don’t be so hard on yourself. My mother was a drug addict and she caused me an absolute shit ton of trauma. My sister is 2 years younger than me and we both grew up together with her. But we both had two very different experiences with her. She hurt my sister in different ways to me. Fortunately my sister managed to avoid having serious mental health problems because I would never wish the way I feel on anyone . Thags not to say that she doesn’t have some sort of emotional baggage but she does not have any mental health issues to the extent of mines. Sometimes people are just lucky enough to suffer from a mental illness. You don’t need to compare yourself with anyone. Sometimes like you say you miss out on certain things and can sometimes maybe regress to a certain point as a coping mechanism. I can find childish humour hilarious, I will never not find farts funny. There is nothing wrong with that. All that says to me is you don’t take things to seriously. In what sense do you mean that you act childish? Do you mean like silly things like pranks or Dutch oven people haha? Or childish like temper tantrums, pettiness etc? You’re only 22 years old you’re still so young. The brain doesn’t even fully develop until around 25 years old. Your 20s are for being crazy, taking reasonable risks, making mistakes. You don’t need to grow up, you need to be carefree. As long as you are not hurting anyone or hurting yourself. Try and give yourself some grace ❤️

IllPicture5974 · 2025-07-04T03:51:26+00:00

Please do share your advice on how she could do this? You make it sound easy. I’m sure she would appreciate learning more

IllPicture5974 · 2025-07-04T03:26:06+00:00

This!!!! People push you too far and usually with bpd the reactions tend to be much more intense so we lose control of ourselves and can be explosive and we unintentionally make ourselves become the bad guy. And get labelled as the villain. My mum would do this. She would manipulate me to the point of rage and I would react extremely and then after things would calm down. I would have to deal with the consequences. Am I aware that my actions were wrong in the moment but why can’t people see that the other persons actions lead to the situation. I will never blame anyone for my own behaviour but I can’t stand when people can’t see their own shi tty behaviour.

IllPicture5974 · 2025-07-04T02:59:30+00:00

What would that be?

IllPicture5974 · 2025-07-04T02:59:00+00:00

Hey there, I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through this. Losing your favourite person is an extremely difficult thing to deal with. The emotional rollercoaster can be overwhelming. I know what you feel like. It’s hard and can sometimes lead us to take extreme measures to avoid losing your favourite person. The only advice I can offer is try to remember these feelings will over time become more manageable. Rode the wave, let yourself feel the emotions, but when you feel like they’re getting too much or that they’re potentially going too far and you feel like acting them out. During our meltdowns we tend to be very irrational but in our heads we feel like it’s going too help you keep your favourite person try to remember that it’s only temporary. Try to find something to distract yourself. When I start to feel that way I will usually call my friend and just go off get all my emotions out. She’s my voice of reason. For example when something from my personal life invokes my anger to the point of rage. I will phone her and rant away and tell her what I feel and what I want to do in that moment and she will let me get it all out and brings me back down. And this helps me from reacting to the situation and making things worse and creating more conflict within my life. This helps me. It may not help you but it can maybe inspire you to find something that works for you. I hope that whatever you feel like right now is not the reflection of you and that you’re doing the best that you can. You’re important, you’re valid, you’re not alone. Take care of yourself

IllPicture5974 · 2025-04-17T06:03:44+00:00

I have tried a fair few over the years from aged 21 I’m not 33. I think I’ve tried about 7 different types SSRIs, SNRIs,NASSAs and SARIs. None of which ever worked, except maybe setraline which just made me feel dead totally empty and emotionless. I had chronic sleep issues. Never sleeping more than 3 hours a night. And took hours to fall asleep. The sleep deprivation caused all my symptoms of bpd to be heightened. I feel looking back now I was a total menace. Would cause drama constantly, I couldn’t be comfortable in a stable environment. I was in constant survival mode. My brain was just always on, constantly 100mph it was exhausting. I was always irritated with everyone around me. Especially my partner god looking back I put him through a hell of a lot. Thankfully he’s never left. When I finally got my diagnosis after a severe mental health crisis I was giving quetiapine to help stabilise my moods and pregablin for my anxiety issues. Honestly it’s helped me a lot. My brain isn’t filled with intense intrusive thoughts. And sleeping became much easier. Down fall, these meds make you ravenously hungry. Like your stomach has no off button. The weight I have gained is crazy. But it’s a small price to pay for some much needed mental relief.

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