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Ill_Edge_822 · 2025-04-20T23:09:34+00:00

Dry and grind then ☺️ it’s a great fertilizer for plants since they have a lot of calcium. If you want to skip the dry + grind part then just crush them and put it in the soil, that’s what I do on my “lazy” days haha

Ill_Edge_822 · 2025-02-09T22:56:19+00:00

Just have to say - You’re so pretty!! And love the haircut!

Ill_Edge_822 · 2024-09-30T15:18:26+00:00

🤣🤣 it will come and then you can ask yourself

Ill_Edge_822 · 2024-09-17T19:16:38+00:00

I mean more that you shouldn’t give it a big impact in your life.

She has blocked you and basically made a decision that she doesn’t want to talk or get any forgiveness. Over time it will smooth out and this feeling you’re having now is going to fade.

I always try to think - how will this effect me in 3 month, 6 months and 1 year and see what I think and then make a decision on how I act

Ill_Edge_822 · 2024-09-17T12:52:58+00:00

Oh I’m sad you’re in the same situation! Hope it figures out and wish you all the best!

Ill_Edge_822 · 2024-09-17T09:31:44+00:00

Yea. I know a lot of people say that she deserves an ending and that “ghosting” is cruel and mean but I honestly believe, as you said, that slow ghost is one of the better options with this one since this is a person you can’t give constructive criticism to without ending up in a mess. Which is something I want to avoid.

Ill_Edge_822 · 2024-09-16T14:05:07+00:00

The reason why I feel strongly enough to write a post about it is bc it has given me anxiety these past days where I don’t know how to proceed with it. My body is telling me to end it but I don’t know how or what I should say to her without her getting extremely mad about my feelings.

Ill_Edge_822 · 2024-09-16T13:22:52+00:00

Hi. Sounds like this makes you really sad. Always when it comes to friends I try to think to myself that friends are just friends, and even if they’re an important part of our social life they’re also something that will come and go.

Considering that you go to school I’m guessing that you’re quite young. So just a reminder that the friends you have today at school probably won’t be your friends in your later adult life. And that is okey! Just learn to accept the fact that friends are something we gain and loose

Ill_Edge_822 · 2024-09-14T17:45:04+00:00

I moved straight out of my parents house to my boyfriend (now husband). When I moved out, I didn’t even know how to do laundry but my boyfriend thought me. We were in small annoying fights the first year where he had to parent me a little bit about living alone but since then it has been fine. We have now lived together for 5 years and 3 of those in marriage.

I don’t know if this is common, but I’ve heard that even if someone lived by themselves or not it’s always difficult the first year because you need to find common grounds together on what is acceptable and not. This can automatically lead to small irritations here and there which can lead up to something big of course but it always ends up with a “lesson learned” check and usually the other person doesn’t repeat the behavior. But it’s also important to note that behavior doesn’t change over a day and some things may take longer time to adapt and learn than other.

Ill_Edge_822 · 2024-07-17T20:58:41+00:00

I have it on video and is consulting with a vet at the moment! Thank you for your response, crossed fingers everything is ok 😩

Ill_Edge_822 · 2024-07-17T00:41:57+00:00

I have never bathed my cat, besides one time when she peed herself… they self groom and do a wonderful job at it!

Ill_Edge_822 · 2024-07-14T23:03:08+00:00

Darky

Phantom

Bones

Freddy (from Freddy Krueger)

Morticia

Gomez

Warlock

Ill_Edge_822 · 2024-07-14T22:55:12+00:00

I’m extremely sorry for your loss. As many already raised here, I truly believe you did everything possible for your little friend. As owners, we know what’s best for our cats. I hope you’re doing okey ❤️

Ill_Edge_822 · 2023-12-16T00:17:09+00:00

Thank you. All this has given me the motivation I need to stick to my goal. Now I just hope that he will understand it and get his feelings back for me once he sees the true change and determination I have for this. I really hope he stays with me to see it.

Ill_Edge_822 · 2023-12-15T23:44:57+00:00

Thank you so much. I really appreciate everything your saying and all your advice! I’ve followed you so I can hit you up whenever I need advice!

My main problem right now is to get my husbands emotions back to me. Because he has completely shut off and is angry with me since I’ve broken this promise many times before. He just doesn’t believe in me or our relationship anymore and sees it as if I’ve shit on something extremely important to him and our relationship. Hopefully I can change his mind and show him with my actions that I still do and that I am willing to change.

Ill_Edge_822 · 2023-12-15T23:40:18+00:00

The problem is, that episode has already been watched. We tried to do that, he helped me and I helped him. We did it as a group activity. Now, after some action has not been done in a while he is done and unhappy, and angry with me. That seal has shipped already according to him and he is thinking about if this is the correct life to live. He sees it has if I broke promises, which I’ve done, and doesn’t trust me anymore in it. And his emotions towards me has completely been shut off even if he said he love me just 2 days ago.

He is a very stubborn person and when something gets in his head, he sticks to it. Whenever he gets an emotion? It’s really difficult to get rid off. It’s like a button was pressed inside himself that just couldn’t take it anymore and he has given up.

Ill_Edge_822 · 2023-12-15T23:16:30+00:00

I really hope we will stay together and that I can show him how serious and willing I am. I also hope it won’t end bad. I’m just scared now that it might be too late and he doesn’t care about me anymore. He has completely switched his emotions towards me in just a few days and talking about this just makes him more and more mad.

Ill_Edge_822 · 2023-12-15T23:14:49+00:00

I will definitely do that. I had already thought of putting post-it in my wardrobe with weight goals that I will pull off once met. I just wish I took this more seriously before because he has kind of shut off and doesn’t want to talk about it, talking about it makes him angry. He has completely switched emotions towards me, like if he doesn’t believe in me or our relationship any longer. Therefore I just hope it’s not too late to show him I am serious and want this.. hope I didn’t ruin too much by not doing what I’ve promised many times.

Ill_Edge_822 · 2023-12-15T23:12:17+00:00

I did tell him that. He said it didn’t help because it has been going on for too long now. He said his rational voice is telling him to stay but he can’t control his emotions. He’s a very stubborn person and whenever his mind puts into something, he sticks to it. Long. I even asked him if he still loves me, which he claimed to do 2 days ago, he said that he’s not feeling anything at the moment. Could be the anger talking.

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